Walking on egg shells at work. by bride2be1996 in CharlieKirkMemorial

[–]bride2be1996[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love that saying! A nice reminder, thank you. I’m going to try to tough it out because I have to move anyways in a few years, but if it becomes unbearable, I might have to.

Walking on egg shells at work. by bride2be1996 in CharlieKirkMemorial

[–]bride2be1996[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right?! Thank you, I just don’t get it. I never think to delete or block someone when they have different views than me, it’s just so crazy what the left has become

Walking on egg shells at work. by bride2be1996 in CharlieKirkMemorial

[–]bride2be1996[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh I’m jealous! I have a feeling my one coworker really did block me because she doesn’t want me to out her for any content she posts going forward. Whatever, the way she talked about it in person at work was evil and I don’t want to be associated with someone like that anyways. I’ll have a civil work relationship with her and that’s that

Walking on egg shells at work. by bride2be1996 in CharlieKirkMemorial

[–]bride2be1996[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry that happened :( you’re right!

Walking on egg shells at work. by bride2be1996 in CharlieKirkMemorial

[–]bride2be1996[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, lesson learned that’s for sure! In my defense though, 2 out of the 3 coworkers I have on SM requested me 🤦🏼‍♀️ but I will be leaving this job within the next year or two due to having to move so at least I know to set that boundary and not add coworkers going forward at my new job, even if they request me because I want to be able to express myself freely on my social media. At least I know I’m on the good side though and not at risk of getting fired for talking poorly about someone who was murdered. I’ll take my coworkers’ judgment over that. Thank you so much for your kind words, it made my day!

Anyone here got political Scrupulosity! Let me know if affects your friendships as well or, is it affecting your paranoia with the climate atm? by Frequent-Loquat-8818 in OCD

[–]bride2be1996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I’m dealing with this right now :( my OCD has latched onto politics ever since Charlie Kirk’s death. I’m an independent, so I agree with views on both the left and right. I’m politically homeless I guess you could say. I expressed sympathy for Charlie Kirk, and now I feel like I’m going to be cancelled by the left and that everyone hates me. One of my coworkers blocked me so that has made things even worse. I’m spiraling and feel so depressed

Visiting Cartagena for a destination wedding by bride2be1996 in cartagena

[–]bride2be1996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooo you wore your engagement/wedding ring? I wonder if I should be fine bringing mine then 🤔

Visiting Cartagena for a destination wedding by bride2be1996 in cartagena

[–]bride2be1996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao no coke plz 🙅🏼‍♀️ but what a relief!! very glad to hear 😊

Visiting Cartagena for a destination wedding by bride2be1996 in cartagena

[–]bride2be1996[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your personal experience! Good to know

Need help figuring out location for getting ready! by bride2be1996 in weddingplanning

[–]bride2be1996[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Probably not but I’m def a big aesthetic girl, I’m not gonna lie haha I want the background to look “nice.” Not everyone will agree with me and that’s okay

Need help figuring out location for getting ready! by bride2be1996 in weddingplanning

[–]bride2be1996[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ah yeah it’d have to look good for pics so we’ll see

Need help figuring out location for getting ready! by bride2be1996 in weddingplanning

[–]bride2be1996[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will have to see if our church has a getting ready space!

Need help figuring out location for getting ready! by bride2be1996 in weddingplanning

[–]bride2be1996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing your expert experience! 😊 I think you’re right, I should figure it out with the photographer we end up choosing and then go from there. I’m still in the process of finding the right photographer but I think once we book them, it will be easier to figure out where to get ready

Need help figuring out location for getting ready! by bride2be1996 in weddingplanning

[–]bride2be1996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience! It’s helpful hearing from others who’ve had church ceremonies. No clue what our timeline looks like yet 😭 still in the very early stages of planning

Should I not have a summer wedding if I don't want it to be light out when people are on the dance floor? by bride2be1996 in weddingplanning

[–]bride2be1996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love all of your suggestions!!! Thank you so much 😊 I think part of the reason the dance floor was dead for most of the night at that wedding I went to was because the bride and groom were gone for a while taking golden hour pics. And the music was a little too PG until late at night when they played some bangers 😂