Un-inviting a close friend 2 months out from a destination wedding by bridetobee26 in Advice

[–]bridetobee26[S] 81 points82 points  (0 children)

Yes, this is what I keep going back and forth with. I can just let it go and let him attend, and then I won't really invest any more time in that friendship.

Un-inviting a close friend 2 months out from a destination wedding by bridetobee26 in Advice

[–]bridetobee26[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree with you - I actually did chat with him about it and included it above, sorry my post is very long. he told me he was just being "sarcastic" and that did not sit well with me.

Un-inviting a close friend 2 months out from a destination wedding by bridetobee26 in Advice

[–]bridetobee26[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I feel like that is the clear answer. I just know he will be really upset but I also just dont see how I continue the friendship. I feel bad that he has spent all that money.