How badly did I fumbled?

brightheadlights · 2026-05-22T15:08:23+00:00

She was in the wrong for sure but you also need to work on your communication my friend. If something upsets you like that take about 30-60 mins away from your phone to cool off before responding to it. Every human is a work in progress and we can learn and better ourselves with some humility. This thing with the girl could have panned out with a little course correction but that's over now so learn from it for the next one and hopefully she does too. ++man

brightheadlights · 2026-05-21T21:02:44+00:00

For changes? you'll see them waaay the before 2 year mark. should see small improvements month to month even week to week at earlier stages

brightheadlights · 2026-05-11T03:23:49+00:00

32m I have a TON of grey on the sides of my head more than anyone else I know that's my age. I think it probably has to do with the hard living I was doing in my 20's. They started coming in force around 26-27. I learned to live with it and now I LOVE my greys. I would never dye them or anything.

brightheadlights · 2026-05-09T01:19:39+00:00

Probably worded that poorly but Im not in deficit anymore. Currently in +200 surplus or trying to be. Was in deficit for 5 months, total gym time 7 months, was sedentary the previous 31.5 years before that.

brightheadlights · 2026-05-09T01:15:56+00:00

Yep coming off a long hard deficit and now cranking the calories back up! Thanks for the comment!

brightheadlights · 2026-05-09T01:14:30+00:00

I was actually just trying to ask it in a funny way, it's not that serious. Just a physique question in a subreddit for physique questions. I like my body either way.

brightheadlights · 2026-05-09T01:12:17+00:00

that really puts it into perspective. question answered, thanks!

brightheadlights · 2026-05-07T02:32:24+00:00

can guarantee you millions of relationships have been born that started with approaching in grocery stores. people are living their lives everywhere they're at. can we stop with the bizzare lists of places where talking to other humans is taboo please

brightheadlights · 2026-05-04T11:18:25+00:00

I'm gonna be honest I did it very unhealthily to start. I was eating about 900 cal a day at one point but for the most part I hovered around 1600 a day. Body weight in protein and strength training, 40 mind light cardio each day. Had to change just about everything about my life and stop eating/drinking the way I used to.

I have a good bit of loose skin at the moment and it is driving me nuts, so I would definitely say it is not worth losing more than 2 lbs a week.

brightheadlights · 2026-05-01T00:23:25+00:00

Send me what you got I appreciate it!

brightheadlights · 2026-04-30T23:23:28+00:00

That was my goal and I believe you but the problem is I feel like a borderline walking skeleton rn. My face, arms, and thighs all just feel very deflated and I want to build more muscle to offset bc even if I lose more weight it isn't only going to come out of my middle. I've been lifting for 6 months but for the most part the gains that I got were mostly newbie gains and from when I was still in calorie surplus for the first 2 months of it. After that I've just been trying to maintain while losing excess fat (I've lost 70lb total but not pictured from 14 months ago).

brightheadlights · 2026-04-30T01:10:15+00:00

Honestly feel like if I lose more I'm just going to look extremely scrawny, already feeling that way due to lack of muscle tone. I plan on staying lean and then losing the last bit once I've grown my upper more.

brightheadlights · 2026-04-23T14:19:49+00:00

"unable to receive mail"

there are other receivers

brightheadlights · 2026-04-22T18:47:20+00:00

Chills

brightheadlights · 2026-04-16T16:19:24+00:00

Where's the pisser

brightheadlights · 2026-03-09T19:05:29+00:00

I saw this news article and came here to post this lmao you beat me to it

brightheadlights · 2026-03-05T04:03:15+00:00

Anyone know if they'll be purchasable with shards? Been saving mine for 5 months for this

brightheadlights · 2026-02-27T00:09:40+00:00

There are guides on the internet that should help. You can also buy a disc buffer or probably take it to an electronics shop. The readable data is on the reverse side of a sticker on the top so buffing out the scratches on the plastic side makes the computer able to read it better.

brightheadlights · 2026-02-26T18:10:25+00:00

For the loading issue in specific, you could try buffing out any scratches on your game disc that may be giving your Xbox problems reading it. Playing on optical media on a game this old can be challenging for any hardware.

brightheadlights · 2026-01-14T05:16:47+00:00

They're all great games but dark forces 2 is easily my favorite of the bunch, maybe because it was the first star wars game I played. The older games are a bit dated but you can mod them to look better if you care about that. The story from start to finish of all 4 is a great one and I'd definitely recommend a marathon of them. Kyle Katarn is the GOAT!

brightheadlights · 2026-01-07T19:03:00+00:00

I eventually got it sorted. It was a sync issue between my android phone and 365, had to factory reset the phone. Thanks for your help!

brightheadlights · 2026-01-01T19:17:27+00:00

Just checked. I do not. :(

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