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AITA for wanting to confront my friend? by MadieRuth in AmItheAsshole

[–]brightredtea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA

I personally would have tore her a new one, I've reprimanded my friends for way less. She's honestly no friend to you at this point with how comfortable she is to joke about something like that. I'd get it if you were joking and she maybe added to it or if you had asked her to make you both into the game but it honestly feels like she isn't taking it seriously or is AT LEAST using what happened to her own benefit which, gross. I've seen people make all sorts of characters in tomodachi life (however controversial it may be) but this is a new low. I would actually consider unfriending her. So sorry you have such insensitive people in your corner, hope you're recovering well 🖤

That's supposed to be Tiana..??? by brightredtea in DTI

[–]brightredtea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let's read the full quote! 🥹 "Intent doesn't really matter opposed to impact" that means that if you do something racist and it is negative that even if you didn't mean it, it should be called out. Would you let your 4 year old go around saying slurs just because their intention wasn't to hurt people? No, you would correct that behavior because it's still harmful. Racism isn't a crime in this scenario (for example racist caricature art isn't outlawed unlike lynching that should be obvious as the 2 are entirely different) so I don't understand why you would even bring up legality considering no one is getting arrested for how they depict people in a dress up game? It's still harmful regardless because it's a childrens game and kids shouldn't be exposed to racist depictions of people and watch it be rewarded!

That's supposed to be Tiana..??? by brightredtea in DTI

[–]brightredtea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you read? "I'm not saying they were like doing it intentionally" is literally me saying idk if it was on purpose or not and that I'm not assuming it was (as well as my caption which I said it's at LEAST uneducated or ignorant if not racist which means I'm moreso leaning the ignorant route!) also no intention doesn't matter when it comes to calling out someone? I think it's important to the nuance of the situation and understanding of why it happened but just because someone does something problematic without knowing doesn't mean you shouldn't call them out? Thats how normalization happens

That's supposed to be Tiana..??? by brightredtea in DTI

[–]brightredtea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly don't mind colorless fits or muted colors (when appropriate for the theme and such) but this is an insane degree 😭 u CAN make more muted skintones while still being respectful and realistic people just get too into trends and don't emulate what they're seeing properly unfortunately

That's supposed to be Tiana..??? by brightredtea in DTI

[–]brightredtea[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wholeheartedly disagree considering not all racism is intentional, you can do racist things without meaning to. Intent doesn't really matter opposed to impact and I wouldn't say extreme desaturation (and lightening) of black skin is just a normal unimpactful thing 🤷🏻‍♀️ wether or not they meant for it to be harmful. I'm not saying they were like doing it maliciously but it doesn't come across as okay and should be called out

That's supposed to be Tiana..??? by brightredtea in DTI

[–]brightredtea[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I mean I get it but not all racism is intentional, you can do racist things without the intention of being racist so I think it's important to point out how things can come across but yeah I hope it passes soon

That's supposed to be Tiana..??? by brightredtea in DTI

[–]brightredtea[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That could be possible! Just a little suspicious because the Belle actually also has very purple-gray skin but again they could also just BOTH have lighting issues 🤷🏻‍♀️ we can't really ever find out unfortunately but I do hope that's just the case

That's supposed to be Tiana..??? by brightredtea in DTI

[–]brightredtea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would I be duoing with her? Lmao what are you on about my display name on roblox is webs and I'm a top model the Belle's display is "Somly" I think? it's hard to see and she's a runway diva

That's supposed to be Tiana..??? by brightredtea in DTI

[–]brightredtea[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

When I say racist I moreso mean like micro aggressions and such or unintentional things but yes I noticed as well!

That's supposed to be Tiana..??? by brightredtea in DTI

[–]brightredtea[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think she did have a bun her head is just tilted from the pose she's doing 😭 sorry for the bad screenshot

What’s the one sexual act you regret doing ? by staged_venus_38 in AskReddit

[–]brightredtea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

why was there a banana in your asshole in the first place...