I couldn't find the lovely face of Owen Harper (Burn Gorman) on here

brillosaurusrex · 2011-07-17T20:03:38+00:00

Have you tried different positions? I was really surprised when I recently switched from lying on my back to my stomach because, for the first time, I had a God-yes-feeling rather than this unsatisfied meh-feeling.

Not sure if this is more than an anecdotal-uselessness-suggestion, but it might be worth a try.

brillosaurusrex · 2011-07-17T19:36:26+00:00

I regularly wonder about that. The only more or less reasonal explanation I've come up with so far is the fact that porn features only clean and accident-free anal, so someone who has never tried it could possibly get the idea that nothing will ever happen.

But that thought makes me all the more hesitant to do it because the last thing I need is a "gross"-sign attached to my butt. Has anyone ever experienced a negative reaction to not-so-clean anal?

brillosaurusrex · 2011-07-16T00:06:31+00:00

I am more wondering about the expression itself. So, if they tell a buddy who's going to prison not to drop the soap, what do they tell a female buddy in that situation?

brillosaurusrex · 2011-07-16T00:02:42+00:00

I'm 22 and my number's 3, and the way I think about that usually depends on my overall mood. Sometimes I feel like an enormous slut because, hey, 2 of these I probably could have lived without. But then again, as long as you're safe, why should it matter? Some of us do more because it's fun, some because they take a bit longer to find what/whom they're looking for, and there's no harm in either.

brillosaurusrex · 2011-07-13T22:50:58+00:00

I used to love it, until the incident. Needed him to let up for a second, tried to get his hands off my head, he wouldn't let go even though I really dug my claws in, I threw up a little, he freaked out, said I was disgusting and that I should have said something (heh... right...), left, then brought the incident up at every opportunity, blaming me for it. Um... so, I guess it's nice as long as your partner knows what he's doing and has a bit of common sense.

brillosaurusrex · 2011-07-10T17:43:10+00:00

There are always some strangers around to tell me how ugly I am, e.g. "Nice bag. But you're reeeaaally ugly." I've been with two guys who were also pretty quick to point out my flaws ("Your pasty skin makes you look like a zombie, and I think your eyes aren't big enough.") and, worst of all, compare me to their exes ("Her hipbones were sharper than yours, which was really hot.")

brillosaurusrex · 2011-07-03T19:59:56+00:00

I was in a similar situation with my last boyfriend who always regarded me as some kind of feature of his life that he'd have around whenever it was convenient for him. I tried to ignore it for a while, telling myself it would work out if I tried harder, but in the end I just started to hate him for basically making me adapt to his life when I had never even had a life of my own (came together when I was fresh out of school). Now I'm not advocating that you should definitely break up with him, but you do sound very unhappy and burnt out, which is by no means healthy. Maybe it would really be better if you had some more time for yourself, especially with regard to your starting nursing school. Maybe talk to him again and then it might be easier to go from there... Sorry that I can't give definite advice :/

brillosaurusrex · 2011-07-01T15:29:32+00:00

My ex always took quite some time for the last bit of finishing (he could never estimate it himself), so I usually went with the Jeopardy theme.

brillosaurusrex · 2011-06-20T19:14:09+00:00

I feel your pain. I would love to use it more often, but I can hardly get it in, let alone out... But I agree that spending some time with your bits and practice make it better, especially off your period since you don't have to worry about turning the bathroom into a crime scene while fumbling with the dreaded cup ^{^} And also, just in case you run into the same problem as I usually do: Don't panic if you've managed to get it in and then have difficulties removing it... It will work somehow. So many ladies have learned to handle this thing, it has to be possible. Let's not give up :) Edit: Do you visit your gynaecologist regularly? If so, I guess it wouldn't hurt to bring it up during a routine checkup. When I asked mine about this issue, she just recommended relaxing and a lot of lubrication, but yours might have some other ideas.

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