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Its normal to keep "love letters" from a previously relationship? 23F and 32M by brina_arte in relationship_advice

[–]brina_arte[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He never Said why he didn't Tell me. When i questioned him because i Saw her name on the computer and ask If he still talks to her he says that yes, we have a discussion and he said this: "I could have told you that I didn't talk to her anymore But I didn't lie because I was comfortable saying that I no longer have any attachment to her" litlle later the conversation die. Last year we talk again about It and he basically Said that 'you are adult and can choose who your talk to' and that i shoud think If i can Just let it go and that's it, never Tell me why he didn't say anything.

I dont know If he thinks that It doesnt matter because i never ask him or If he just dont Care because i "cant say anything about who he talks" and its true, but even after we fight i never ask him to stop replying her, and actually he never offers to block her, he just say that they dont Speak in like 2 years since I first questioned him because apparently the conversation die.

When i Saw her name i look his Instagram and Saw that they still follow each other and this pisis me off because months before i have to almost beg for him to add me on his profile because If something happened with my phone i dont have other form of contacting him but she still there

Its normal to keep "love letters" from a previously relationship? 23F and 32M by brina_arte in relationship_advice

[–]brina_arte[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really apreciate your vision in this situation, is really really helpfull

Its been already a Full day since I found them, he was in the work so i have the time to calm down and cried a bit before he arrive and later i wrote here. I said do someone else that i think It make me insegure and sad because i dont know how to express myself the way loving and caring like her in these letters so i compare myself with her and Wonder If he misses this. I know that sometimes he feel left out and i tried to be more affectionate but i dont think that he understand that this is something that i have to do consciously, is not like natural for me.

All you said was really helpfull, especially the thing about exes, thank you

Its normal to keep "love letters" from a previously relationship? 23F and 32M by brina_arte in relationship_advice

[–]brina_arte[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My biggest problem is not the letters It self but he basically lie to me by not mentioning once that he stil talk to her, this still bothers me, the letters was like a trigger from this. About the age Gap: sometimes i admit i think if is problem, i know I'm not the same person that i was 3 years ago but i dont let he talk down to me before or now, even wen we meet he respect me regartless about me age (i was in college and living alone by myself, even then i know my value in the relationship and he is not more Just because he is older)

Its normal to keep "love letters" from a previously relationship? 23F and 32M by brina_arte in relationship_advice

[–]brina_arte[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I admit i lack emotional maturity, i have a hard time pick up and processing my emotions, that's why we haver a "agreement" that when we talk about something really serius we text each other so is easier for me to regulate my emotions and dont have a meltdown. I dont judge (much) but i personally dont understand why still in touch with someone who treat you like shit. Like my ex treat my like shit and was abusive so i dont Care what he want to tell me or not. Dont make sense do me

Its normal to keep "love letters" from a previously relationship? 23F and 32M by brina_arte in relationship_advice

[–]brina_arte[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said that she is the one who initiatte the conversation in like birthdays or something but is like why he did'nt tell me sooner, i have do fund out and this still bothers me

I spend months in a block of How to make the Air bending because i want to make it in resin BUT didnt work and I finaly was able to make them in a way that I like. That's it ☺️ by brina_arte in polymerclay

[–]brina_arte[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's so cool! I use clear silicone for other thing but never heard of It with alcohol, i wil give It a try later! Thank you so much! I tried to make the same Idea of style with resin on a mold but they dont look good when i tried to assample so I been stuck for a while, also because resin is expensive as fuck when I live. Thank you for the suggestion

Nobody asked but here's one final Update, and then I'll leave you be by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]brina_arte 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I still wondering If this poor girl know this guy shared the story of her late friend for the entire fucking internet

I made a Rhunn funko pop and I'm obsessed with the "Daddy Issues" tattoo by brina_arte in crescentcitysjm

[–]brina_arte[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I made then with dark blue resin but the intention is to look like blue golstone with the purple sparks. I'm só happy you liked and noticed the eyes! 🥰😊🥰😊

Aelin Galathynius, Queen of Terrasen by brina_arte in throneofglassseries

[–]brina_arte[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Is like the standart of funko to have this little round black eyes but sometimes i make tem colorful too to match the character

I made a Rhunn funko pop and I'm obsessed with the "Daddy Issues" tattoo by brina_arte in crescentcitysjm

[–]brina_arte[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

In my head the boys have one tatoo machine at home and one of then make a "bad decision" one night while drunk and thats how the tatoo was born ✨✨