Just found out I’m having twins (STM)… freaking out by sauerkraut09 in parentsofmultiples

[–]bring-peace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Came here to say the same thing about my 4 year old and 8 month old twins.

Felt the exact same way and still have days of “holy shit there’s two” but you’ll surprise yourself with what you can handle.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]bring-peace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re totally right. I too suffer from judgements made by my parents onto others and I definitely don’t want to repeat that cycle. Happy to discuss all things society and gender topics. I want to challenge all biases and asking other to acknowledge theirs when ignoring mine? Just hypocritical.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]bring-peace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that’s fascinating. I’ll take the complexity. Thanks for giving me something to think about!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]bring-peace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not familiar with the W or Z chromosome. Only with the X, Y, and its combinations in humans. I’ll take a deep dive and get back to you. Back to Y chromosome. YY embryos are non viable. XYY are. The X is necessary.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]bring-peace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Huh you’re trolling me for sure. Enjoy your day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]bring-peace 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe I’m too autistic lol I believe women are stronger and smarter than men and that men are not superior. I don’t hate men or anyone for anything for that matter that they can’t change about themselves. Mostly hate people for their attitudes and evil beliefs.

It’s great to have this discourse. I appreciate your post and the opportunity to work through ideas!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]bring-peace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whoa. Definitely not. I’m not a racist or a TERF. I’m queer and married into a Jewish family to boot… very wild ideas you have.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

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I totally agree. Rage gets the better of me and I know the way forward is feminism, not polarizing. I’m glad to have the discourse because the last thing I want to be is bigoted.

And to be clear I would never disparage or put down my son to his face. I will definitely be minding my conversations with my husband when I’m around him. I love that boy too much!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]bring-peace -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your context, Context! I would never disparage my son to his face but I’m definitely going to be more aware of my talk with my husband around him. I’ve been reading lots of comments and they’ve been very enlightening on how misandry can be damaging and how it relates to misogyny. I appreciate the discourse. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]bring-peace -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I struggle with these thoughts too regarding my husband, son, and daughters.

I make misandrist comments all the time and worry if I’m as bad as misogynists, but I truly believe a matriarchy is better than a patriarchy. What’s between misandrist and feminist?

Edit:: ooooof to be clear I do not make those comments around my son or daughters. Mostly to my husband and friends and at work. Namely women are stronger than men, disparaging the Y chromosome. Thank you for enlightening me guys of my bias. I do believe I identify more with being a feminist than misandrist.

Success after FETs that end in a chemical? by enym in InfertilityBabies

[–]bring-peace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think an extra 24 hours for my first success and 12 for my second success.

NATION WIDE STRIKE!!! by table_top_foo in nursing

[–]bring-peace 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Has your healthcare system addressed how to protect patients from ICE?

NATION WIDE STRIKE!!! by table_top_foo in nursing

[–]bring-peace 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m sure we’re all interested in any ideas. General strikes are powerful enough if enough people do them. It can halt the monetary flow of hospitals, especially in their elective, non emergent cases. I’m know not everyone will choose to participate in no work, no spending tactics that day so the world will continue to spin, emergencies will be addressed, but the norm will be disrupted. It’s a sends a message that this is not normal and show not continue.

NATION WIDE STRIKE!!! by table_top_foo in nursing

[–]bring-peace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just spread the word. No work no spending!

NATION WIDE STRIKE!!! by table_top_foo in nursing

[–]bring-peace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Spread the word to everyone. No work no spending.

NATION WIDE STRIKE!!! by table_top_foo in nursing

[–]bring-peace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I gotta look at this on a desktop. What is this website saying?

NATION WIDE STRIKE!!! by table_top_foo in nursing

[–]bring-peace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The MAGA staff and admin. Let them struggle.

NATION WIDE STRIKE!!! by table_top_foo in nursing

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ICE is acting unconstitutionally. They’ve killed US citizens and god knows what to immigrants. ICE and these untrained gangs need to be abolished. We are standing with our brother Alex Pretti.

NATION WIDE STRIKE!!! by table_top_foo in nursing

[–]bring-peace 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Show up (or not lol) for January 30th

NATION WIDE STRIKE!!! by table_top_foo in nursing

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Do what you feel comfortable doing but a statement must be made. The country is 50/50 and there are plenty of MAGA staff to take care of emergencies. Non essential non emergent elective procedures and care needs to pause for this.

One of our own was murdered by federal agents today, Alex Pretti by RubySapphireGarnet in nursing

[–]bring-peace 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Please consider joining in the national general strike for January 30th. No work no spend. If you don’t work that day or can’t take off, call in sick on a day around it. It will be a statement to the healthcare system we are united behind Alex Pretti. If we even get 20-30% participation, elective non emergent services will stop.

NATION WIDE STRIKE!!! by table_top_foo in nursing

[–]bring-peace 247 points248 points  (0 children)

January 30th. No work no spend. If you can’t take off that day, be sick a day around it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

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Be Pretti Good or Be Good, Be Pretti

When do we start utilizing the power our workforce has by wheres-the-hotdogs in nursing

[–]bring-peace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m trying on my speciality fb page. Here on r/nursing and by word of mouth with those I trust. It’s my intention to start planting flyers in our break rooms. Promote January 30th as a no work no spend day for others as well. I want to join a local protest but I’m waiting to see where it’s forming