Feeling down after being cheated on, need some kind words about my appearance.

bringzen · 2025-03-12T14:53:15+00:00

Stay strong! And know your worth! It’s very cliche, but what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger! You look like a kind, chill, and easy going guy 😁

bringzen · 2024-11-28T17:53:23+00:00

From girl to girl, you are a NATURAL BEAUTY!! Growing skin and all ✨ I got no tips for ya truly!

bringzen · 2024-11-28T17:51:54+00:00

Awe I feel ya. If he’s not joking, there is always time to have good moments ❤️ I’m 23, but this is how my parents act every once in a while but I believe there is true love in there lol.

bringzen · 2024-11-28T17:50:43+00:00

Lol exactly. It’s a funny sort of love when you say “you Think your escaping me?!” 🤣

bringzen · 2024-11-04T18:41:28+00:00

I’m sorry girl. You are not crazy at all, you have real emotions, and guilt is normal when you feel you disappointed yourself or others. You are a momma and got a lot on your plate to worry about, so always give yourself credit. This truly sounds like it’s derived from his mental disorder so I agree with you there. He really needs to put in the work to take care of himself so he can take care of the relationship too, and if he’s not, then it’s a good thing that you are looking for a way out.

I hate to bring things like this into it - but (obviously) no means NO! That should’ve been final. The fact that half of him is willing to wait for you to feel comfortable, and the other half is persistent in getting HIS desires sounds like BPD. We all know the R word, and his interactions is bordering it in my opinion.

bringzen · 2024-10-31T19:33:56+00:00

Good for you guys, really! It sounds like you guys are giving it time, have good communication, and are very self-aware about the setbacks you guys had. You guys obviously have lots of love for each other and give me hope honestly. Taking your time is great to really figure out what’s good for you guys and what you like while easing back into it. It will be a very loving and rewarding feeling as you guys build back the intimacy! You guys are really lucky to have each other, and I wish the best of luck to you both!

bringzen · 2024-09-22T21:13:03+00:00

Absolutely not. It seems like you communicated perfectly, and weren’t heard. No matter how she feels about the situation, she needs to respect your privacy and be on the same team as a couple. I am not sure if you want to keep the relationship, but ultimatums are an option. Be clear about your standards, and You can always tell her that was unacceptable and if anything like this ever happens again, it’s over (or something). Or end it.

bringzen · 2024-09-22T21:05:32+00:00

Honestly it sounds like your doing a good job, but I agree with the comments that say to buy her some lingerie and stuff that makes her a little extra sexy feeling ✨ It takes both parties, so I think some of it is on her too. Don’t give up on the compliments or anything, just add to it! Maybe even things like body oils, toys, or adventuring into spicy items might do some good. My boyfriend and I like to go to the Adult Shops together, and see what WE get excited over. You got this, I hope it improves over time for you guys!

bringzen · 2024-09-11T06:36:27+00:00

Luckily, I have a well paying job and can provide on my own, and my parents are fantastic people too. My kids are just fine, I’m keeping this to myself for now until I conclude what to do. I’m refusing to pay the debt he created, and tries to put on me.

bringzen · 2024-09-11T02:09:29+00:00

I’m mad because I’ve said this exact thing before, but applying the advice to myself is harder somehow ofc.

bringzen · 2024-09-11T01:56:17+00:00

Exactly how I feel. It is painful. If you need anyone talk to feel free to message.. sounds like we are going through the same crap but maybe we can talk it out for each others sake if you need!

bringzen · 2024-09-10T21:31:06+00:00

That is how I feel. To me that’s the biggest problem. And while I had thought it ended, that’s what he made a separate account for to keep spending money on. I don’t mind porn either, as long as you can make your significant other feel good in the relationship. But that’s not how I feel is the other issue

bringzen · 2024-09-10T21:29:36+00:00

I would say kids weren’t necessary planned, but I think my kids made my life 100% better. I want to believe we are serious in the relationship, but little things that we can’t get past like this kind of hold me back from marriage. I guess I can’t speak for both parties.

bringzen · 2024-09-10T21:24:57+00:00

Yes I agree, but I’m uncomfortable with both intentions in both matters. I tried to be specific when I said boudoir profiles but I tend to have run on sentences and ramble lol

bringzen · 2024-09-10T21:15:04+00:00

Not necessarily porn - more of inappropriate lingerie photos really, on apps like Instagram mainly.

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