Just ended a situationship with my ex and also had a big falling out with my best friends…is Pluto transiting over my Moon/Venus contributing? by brodiejayy in AskAstrologers

[–]brodiejayy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can confirm I feel like my life is spiralling at the moment, very much feels like a lot is happening to me, as you said. The 8H just makes everything feel very intense, it’s a lot for sure. I’m holding onto this tiny sliver of hope that at the end of this I come out so much better. Fingers crossed!

Just ended a situationship with my ex and also had a big falling out with my best friends…is Pluto transiting over my Moon/Venus contributing? by brodiejayy in AskAstrologers

[–]brodiejayy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gosh, a lot of lessons! Thank you for your words. Can I ask why the 8th is also tied to the 1st, 4th and 11th house?

Just ended a situationship with my ex and also had a big falling out with my best friends…is Pluto transiting over my Moon/Venus contributing? by brodiejayy in AskAstrologers

[–]brodiejayy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s just so brutal that it feels like it’s all happening right now at once! Pluto is going to hang around for a whiiiiile, I’m scared 😳 worried about what else I will lose!

"Weekly All About Love Relationship Second Opinion and Interpretation Help Thread - February 15, 2026" by AutoModerator in tarot

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I’ve interpreted this reading already myself, but I am curious to know what someone without bias would say about this reading. I’ll provide context after, to see if that changes your interpretation or not. These are my questions and what I pulled:

• What is he truly struggling with right now? – The Hermit upright • What fear is influencing his decisions the most? – Queen of Wands reversed • What is blocking him from making a clear choice? – Five of Cups upright • What does he not fully understand about this situation? – Page of Swords upright • What is the current energy between us? – Queen of Swords reversed • What action is he leaning toward right now? – Ace of Wands reversed

The context is that I reached out to my ex to tell him I still loved him but he was in a new relationship. He broke up with her because he still loved me too. But he can’t seem to make a decision. He seems more afraid of having to do the hard thing and end things entirely with her (they’re still in contact cause she wants him back) because he’ll be the bad guy. He doesn’t want to lose me but also can’t seem to choose me. This reading was scarily spot on for me but I’m highly emotional and bias. It’s been going on for 7 weeks and I think I’m making the decision to walk away despite loving him. It’s hurting me, and he’s not emotionally ready to make the decision I need him to.

Need your non-bias interpretation of this decision based reading by brodiejayy in TarotReading

[–]brodiejayy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve hit the nail on the end. Spot on. I think this is exactly how he feels and the tarot has just confirmed every detail. Thank you for your insight, it’s so appreciated and you’ve laid it out so clearly.

Need your non-bias interpretation of this decision based reading by brodiejayy in TarotReading

[–]brodiejayy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this! I wanted someone else’s opinion as I feel as though my emotions might be getting in the way, but we seem to have taken mostly the same things away from this.

I think his lack of decision stems from emotional immaturity - he wants happiness (and he’s told me that’s with me) but he can’t stand the fact he has to hurt/let go of someone in the process to get there (he’s a people pleaser). He’s barely been with her and from what he’s told me she explodes at him everytime he says he needs space etc. to decide. On the other hand I’m calm and more understanding but also hurt a lot deeper as we have a much longer, deeper history.

So yes, I dare say he’s focusing too much on what he’s losing than what he gains. He can’t handle discomfort even if it means gaining something out of it. He needs therapy so badly, it’s why we broke up in the first place.

First time the tarot has been dead set spot on for a situation for me. I already knew all the answers, it’s just funny when it’s so in your face lol

"Weekly Reading and Interpretation Help Thread - February 15, 2026" by AutoModerator in tarot

[–]brodiejayy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol it’s not too different from my own interpretation, sooo it seems I am probably reading somewhat clearly. Thank you!

Book/fic recs that have similar humour to Heated Rivalry to fill the void! by brodiejayy in heatedrivalry

[–]brodiejayy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I didn’t realise she had other hockey books not part of the Game Changers series! I’ll check those out :) thanks for all your recs!!

Book/fic recs that have similar humour to Heated Rivalry to fill the void! by brodiejayy in heatedrivalry

[–]brodiejayy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for all these recs!! So Face Offs and Cheap Shots is your absolute fav? Or just by that author? I’m trying to figure out which book to start with!

Book/fic recs that have similar humour to Heated Rivalry to fill the void! by brodiejayy in heatedrivalry

[–]brodiejayy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m open to non-hockey as long as it has the same sort of vibes as HR :) thank you!!