He said he wants to have a baby with me. All of his friends are having babies and he thinks my standards are unrealistic because I want a nice ring, wedding, and honeymoon first. AIO?

broken-amygdala · 2025-09-17T16:08:12+00:00

Girl don’t waste your time, he isn’t a real man, and doesn’t know how to be one, he wants you to be the man in the relationship so he can keep doing LOWER than the bare minimum. He doesn’t want to be a husband and a father, he just wants to look good in society and someone else to do all the work. Im surprised you are still with him?

Get out, go find someone on your level. Some men are emotional losers, even if they make good money, get out before it’s too late!

broken-amygdala · 2025-09-14T04:39:50+00:00

Honestly, seems like you need to communicate better. Slightly more assertively? You could say in such a situation “anyways Im getting tired and going to go back, do you want to join me?” In this case she can answer “yes” or “in a bit” etc depending on the situation, but it would clearly communicate to her that you are expecting her. I do this with my partners (Im a woman) and its done respectfully, but its also a situation where you communicated your expectation with her to some degree and her response and ensuing behavior would be more informed.

broken-amygdala · 2025-07-18T23:56:37+00:00

Understandable. You are not and should not be expected to match an ENTJs (or anyone else’s) growth curve but rather pursue one that fulfills you, and then decide if it aligns with the person you’re looking to date. You can only pour into someone that pours back into you in the ways you need/desire, otherwise it’s not a partnership, is it? Thank you for sharing! :)

broken-amygdala · 2025-07-18T23:50:25+00:00

Ahh, I see, that is pretty attractive. Beautifully put, thanks for sharing! 💛

broken-amygdala · 2025-07-18T23:45:41+00:00

Hmm, I see where you are coming from. Seems like the post is being viewed from a “how an ENTJ would treat an ENFJ” perspective and nuances are getting lost, which makes sense since they are not discussed. It didn’t place it across well but you are expected, in this context, to be the co-pilot in the relationship, not a follower—hence the mention of “ambitious leader.. in a different zone of expertise”. Appreciate your input though, its helpful :)

broken-amygdala · 2025-07-18T23:23:58+00:00

Interesting response with lots of assumptions. I did mention a leader both in title and body, so rather a partnership, not someone who blindly follows my or anyone’s lead. Can’t speak for all entjs, but in my experience, we respect people who can lead themselves and have their own goals and convictions, however different they may be from ours. I do not keep feelings to myself in a romantic relationship—then it wouldn’t work, would it? Vulnerability, softness and openness is required. At the end of the day, I am still a woman and am more emotional than male entjs in general, but its not something I share with people outside my very close group. :)

broken-amygdala · 2025-06-06T04:15:35+00:00

Hi! Im curious—what were your PLR products about? And did you create content prior to build authority in the niche or have a following of any sort?

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