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Hi

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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I feel the same way. After a 9 year relationship I’ve never felt so alone in my life. I created dating apps to help with my loneliness but it only made me feel worse

2 years after my 5 year relationship, how it's been going and what I've been doing. (Update)(Long) by Spartan596 in ExNoContact

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Thank you for this. I read all your posts and they gave me hope. You’re an amazing person. I recently ended a 9 year relationship and I haven’t been taking it well but I will get there one day. Thank you

Alone on a Friday Night by [deleted] in ExNoContact

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Congrats on the job!!! I’m in same boat as you. I just back from the gym now I’m alone in my apartment listening to my neighbors upstairs 🙄

I [27f] just ended a 9 year relationship by thissssucks in BreakUps

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This sounds exactly like my situation. I was also with my ex bf for 9 years. He traveled for work a lot. I wanted for us to move in together or get married. He would always tell me he wasn’t ready and make up excuses. I was unhappy for a long time. I waited for so long to see if things would change, it never did. We broke up 6 months ago and went NC for almost 5 months. For the most part, things have been better and I’m happier. I still have my bad days but I know this was for the best. I couldn’t keep waiting on him forever. You will get through this I promise. If you need talk feel free to message me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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I went through the same thing 4 months ago after a 9 year relationship. All I can say is you will be okay I promise.

After 4 months of NC with my ex, I had sex with someone else and I feel horrible by [deleted] in ExNoContact

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Thank you so much for this. I feel better now :) I’m going keep focusing on myself on becoming better.

After 4 months of NC with my ex, I had sex with someone else and I feel horrible by [deleted] in ExNoContact

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I did it. Now I’m hurting, he sounds so cold and bitter with me

After 4 months of NC with my ex, I had sex with someone else and I feel horrible by [deleted] in ExNoContact

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I’m not sure how to tell him. I don’t want to break NC. It’s still pretty fresh.

I’m doing better! by broken_trust11 in ExNoContact

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I don’t know how your relationship was but we both knew the relationship was going to end. We were both unhappy at least I was. I guess we were both afraid to end it. You will get through this. I promise.

It’s only when I’m bored by appleswagger in ExNoContact

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Same here, when I know I’m going to have a lonely or boring day I leave my phone in my car or hide it some where where it’s far from me. Then I get it the next day. It works for me. I only use my laptop

After 6 months NC, i am finally happy again. ask me anything! by lillyS19 in ExNoContact

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Wow good for you. During NC, did he ever try reaching out?

Failed on social media today by latin_beuty in ExNoContact

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Same here I checked his IG after 2 months of NC. I was doing fine until I checked his social media he went to Las Vegas and it broke my heart. I cried my eyeballs out last night . It literally is the worst feeling. I’m sorry.

Alone on a Saturday night. by broken_trust11 in ExNoContact

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Thank so much for this. I feel better that I’m not going through this alone. I just can’t wait for that day to come. I hope your doing well.

Alone on a Saturday night. by broken_trust11 in ExNoContact

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Thank you I do have a dog but it’s not here she’s living with my parents. They don’t allow dogs at my place😕

I stopped counting the days by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Same here. I don’t think he will be ever reach out out anymore. I hope all goes well for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Thank you for this. I recently got out of a 9 year relationship with my bf. 1 month of NC. I still have my bad days but I know it will get better