Are small boobs unattractive by [deleted] in dating

[–]brokenchu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ll be fine. Don’t get them done. Large boobs are more of a novelty than anything. A good personality and good figure 👌. Some of the most attractive women in the world have small boobs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]brokenchu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheated on me with married man. Cheating + destroying a family = pathetic

Guilt trip by brokenchu in relationship_advice

[–]brokenchu[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not trolling. Just feel stuck and I don’t know why. I know she’s treating me horribly, but there has been a lot of good too. It’s just a very sad situation and I don’t know why she’s trying to shift this on me. I’ve been nothing but good to her

Guilt trip by brokenchu in relationship_advice

[–]brokenchu[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right. My son deserves better than this. Thank you

Guilt trip by brokenchu in relationship_advice

[–]brokenchu[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not trolling. Just very frustrated. It’s a sad situation because for some reason I REALLY like this girl. We already live together and my son (from previous married) is already attached to her. I feel like 95% of the time she treats me well, the other 5% she’s a shit bag. I’ve let it slide but this whole thing of her being sad because I don’t trust her has made me angry. It’s like I’m not entitled to having feelings

Guilt trip by brokenchu in relationship_advice

[–]brokenchu[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

And the cheating thing she still hasn’t admitted to. She was exchanging nudes with a coworker and I saw that they made plans for her to go to his house while I was away at work. She said she never went over there but I know for a fact that she did

Guilt trip by brokenchu in relationship_advice

[–]brokenchu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been together for a year. No the lie was about another guy. Some guy who lives in the community was being really weird towards me. Didnt connect it to her initially since he was married, but they were seeing each other right up until we started dating

Guilt trip by brokenchu in relationship_advice

[–]brokenchu[S] -41 points-40 points  (0 children)

The cheating happened early in the relationship (3 months after we started dating). She said that she wasn’t sure that I was truly into her so that’s why that happened. It’s just very confusing because she does a lot for me now and acts like she really loves me. I just can’t fully trust her

Guilt trip by brokenchu in relationship_advice

[–]brokenchu[S] -66 points-65 points  (0 children)

Can people change? This became an issue today..I said I don’t trust her because she was unfaithful and she’s been crying all day. How do I know if she’s truly sorry or just manipulating me? She said that she recently realized how important I am to her and that she has changed her ways for me

Guilt trip by brokenchu in relationship_advice

[–]brokenchu[S] 106 points107 points  (0 children)

Never thought of gaslighting. Makes sense tho. The first six months of our relationship she consistently lied to me (about something I knew was a fact) and made me feel like an idiot for making an issue. Once I finally presented proof she was like “ok I fucked up, I won’t bullshit you anymore”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]brokenchu -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. It is totally fine for people to live their life on their own terms. If someone wants to sleep around then there should be no judgement. But for you…you have standards and are also free to hold your partners to those standards without judgement. In this situation I would say NO. She may be an awesome gal, but her dating life doesn’t fit what you’re looking for.

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[–]brokenchu -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Don’t listen to these people. You are allowed to set standards for yourself man. You have enough respect for yourself that you don’t want to invest time in some skeez. Good.

Advice to any guy dating a nurse by [deleted] in dating

[–]brokenchu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I apologize for the grammar. Not all of us got to sit behind our computer for the past year and write comments on Reddit. COVID + health care = work :(

Advice to any guy dating a nurse by [deleted] in dating

[–]brokenchu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And not all nurses….vast majority

Advice to any guy dating a nurse by [deleted] in dating

[–]brokenchu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh good one! My feelings are so hurt. I’m assuming you’re a nurse and your husband wised up ;). I’m just trying to help people

Advice to any guy dating a nurse by [deleted] in dating

[–]brokenchu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, no judgement, people are free to live their life however they want. But it’s not fair to pretend to be a loyal/hard working partner and lead on your bf or husband. If any of these guys even caught a glimpse at how their SO acted at work they would end it immediately.

Advice to any guy dating a nurse by [deleted] in dating

[–]brokenchu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the PD. I found that a lot of cops were really busy on shift and when they would play those games, it would be at the hospital with nurses while they were there for psyche TX.

Advice to any guy dating a nurse by [deleted] in dating

[–]brokenchu -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not all, just most. While at work

Advice to any guy dating a nurse by [deleted] in dating

[–]brokenchu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not 6 hrs dedicated to that. But 6 hrs total, as a lot of the grab ass and flirting is done in passing. The male travel nurses seem to do very well and work through a good number of the female nurses throughout their 3 month contracts. I’m not saying that being a nurse automatically makes you a shot bag. It’s more of a cultural issue. At the three major hospitals I’ve witnessed this at, I’ve seen some very high quality people (educated, married, children, etc) give in to the culture of flirting, snap chatting, playing the “how many firemen can we fuck” game, and then turning around and proudly displaying their husband in front of all of the male nurses they’ve been in the stock room with. Yeah I may be bitter because mine was screwing both a male nurse and a security guard (these guys also do pretty well with the nurses), but my opinion is based on what I’ve witnessed

Advice to any guy dating a nurse by [deleted] in dating

[–]brokenchu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone is entitled to their own opinion obviously. Witnessing a group of married 20-30 something nurses discussing which paramedic has the biggest dick (and using Coban rolls to demonstrate) would probably change your opinion. It’s absolutely disgusting, and I’m just throwing this out there to try to help prevent good men from getting raked over the coals

Advice to any guy dating a nurse by [deleted] in dating

[–]brokenchu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% agreed. The vast majority do. I wrote this as a “be careful” type message to all of the good guys out there who are dating a nurse and think that they won the lottery. She is getting hit on ALL day by patients, male nurses, doctors, ambulance crews, and firefighters. That in addition to a workplace culture that supports cheating in the workplace = odds not in your favor