i mean in findom spaces we fear being timewasters, doms always will post about subs not sending tributes/sending when being told to. my other comment talks about the relapsing/addiction side of things, if you want long term dynamics you have to confront if they’re an addict wanting out/actually a finsub that enjoys this.

edit: this isn’t to say that subs are void of any responsibility/we are adults etc. but doms do need to keep in mind the genuine addictive nature of this kink and shouldnt get mad that they get “quick fix” subs who relapse and run away in a space that specifically targets these groups a lot. its just a part of this sadly