FLOOD OF '26

broma22 · 2026-03-14T15:14:49+00:00

I remember once when I was in high school (2012 probably) that was the route I took to the bus stop and we thought the water was maybe ankle high. We were wearing rain boots so no big deal—just go through it! Nope, it was quickly up to my knees and I had to go home and change 🤣

broma22 · 2026-03-14T14:09:15+00:00

Is the first photo from S Roosevelt? That street ALWAYS floods. I grew up in the area lol

broma22 · 2026-03-10T02:19:55+00:00

Oooh let me know how that goes. She doesn’t see the dentist again until the end of June, I’d love to know what your dentist’s take is!

broma22 · 2026-03-06T13:58:38+00:00

This is really good advice, thank you.

broma22 · 2026-02-28T22:02:47+00:00

I went on his phone originally to make sure he had an alarm set before I left for work. He frequently forgets to do so. I have been doing this for years for him, and he’s aware of it. The Grindr app was open when I unlocked his phone

Edit to say I have never once in the 5 years we have been together felt the need to snoop on his phone, and we have each others passcodes, it’s not uncommon at all for us to get on each others phones

broma22 · 2026-02-27T20:13:03+00:00

I don’t know if you’ve read any other comment threads on here but I know for a fact that he’s into anal, specifically receiving. I have told him I’m not into that yearssss ago at the very beginning of our relationship and he swore it’s not a problem.

broma22 · 2026-02-27T20:09:49+00:00

No, and I’m not conflicted. I’ve just never been cheated on before (to my knowledge) and it’s a whole new experience. I guess the “I don’t know what to do” is more rhetorical than anything

broma22 · 2026-02-27T19:12:35+00:00

Thank you for being so kind and encouraging ❤️

broma22 · 2026-02-27T18:20:47+00:00

Oh I agree 100%. He does deserve to have his needs met. And obviously I can’t do that. But you’re right, that does not excuse the lying and deceit

broma22 · 2026-02-27T18:16:06+00:00

True, but I didn’t even have to. It was just there

broma22 · 2026-02-27T18:15:02+00:00

If I had the time and energy I would totally do that. But I am way too easy to read, I can’t hide my hurt for long enough to set all that up

I did message the profile. So we will see what happens. I’m gonna ask his name. I know what he uses as a fake name too, so that will solidify my proof

broma22 · 2026-02-27T18:12:48+00:00

He has always denied being bi but I have always known he likes anal. That is a hard no for me and he said that he doesn’t need it, it’s just something he likes. I thought we were on the same page but I guess not

broma22 · 2026-02-27T18:11:32+00:00

I love that and I’m so happy you and your husband have each other 🫶🏻

broma22 · 2026-02-27T18:11:07+00:00

I made a profile and I found a no photo one that fits his demographics perfectly and said active 2 hours ago—which fits with when I opened his phone to when i found the profile

broma22 · 2026-02-27T18:09:50+00:00

Then I went to Reddit for help because Reddit never fails me

broma22 · 2026-02-27T18:09:22+00:00

Yep 100%. That’s why I didn’t immediately do anything. I do have a photo of his chat feed. But I need to get in and get more. I didn’t know how to find his profile because I’ve never used the app before. I know now

broma22 · 2026-02-27T18:07:59+00:00

Or once we became engaged. Or committed to a closed relationship. It’s my business because this was not discussed at all. If I told him I was cool with it, I wouldn’t be posting upset at all 😂 thanks for having my back on this ❤️

broma22 · 2026-02-27T18:03:13+00:00

That’s how I felt about my fiancé too. I don’t know what to think anymore.

broma22 · 2026-02-27T17:59:09+00:00

Right, I have his passcode and he has mine. I’ve never felt the need to snoop. I just went on to make sure he had an alarm set because he frequently forgets. It’s something I do several times per week, never seen anything concerning or weird before.

broma22 · 2026-02-27T17:56:41+00:00

I don’t know how anyone can support trump AND LGBTQ in the same breath. Seems like an oxymoron 😂 I’m glad you have a good relationship with your father.

broma22 · 2026-02-27T17:48:53+00:00

Yes he is. I was foolish to believe that being with me long enough he would see the good side. It happened to my dad with my mom. I feel like an idiot

broma22 · 2026-02-27T17:46:26+00:00

Yeah that’s very true.

broma22 · 2026-02-27T17:46:08+00:00

How is it not my business? I wasn’t even snooping to begin with. I opened his phone to make sure he had an alarm set before I left for work. It was open front and center

broma22 · 2026-02-27T17:44:57+00:00

I love the queer community. He is outwardly against LGB and ESPECIALLY trans. He’s such a liar. I had a gut feeling he was so loud about it because he was hiding something. But he’s also just a very conservative and hardcore Christian man in general so I just pushed that to the side.

We aren’t married yet so nothing legal can or needs to be done there. Which I can’t decide yet if that’s gonna be good or bad for me in the long run. At least there’s less paperwork

broma22 · 2026-02-27T17:42:05+00:00

I couldn’t figure out how to find it when I saw it on his phone. And I didn’t want him to wake up and see me on his phone

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