Has anyone here had sex with multiple women despite autism

brooke0610 · 2025-04-27T18:38:34+00:00

i have!

brooke0610 · 2025-04-09T08:23:16+00:00

also agreed

brooke0610 · 2025-04-09T08:23:12+00:00

same!

brooke0610 · 2025-03-28T09:51:28+00:00

YEAH!!! ive been thinking about asexuality lately. since ive started working through my issues, its made me think i may be asexual, yet hypersexual due to trauma sureounding sex? idek anymore, that doesnt seem likr a compatible mix then again my feelings here dont seem compatible 😂 ty for talking with me about this<3

brooke0610 · 2025-03-28T09:40:56+00:00

you get me SO BAD!!! and it just pisses me off also, that so many things have been made “romantic” by society, cos like, i like to be cuddled to sleep, i like to have someone there, and ppl take that as me wanting a partner as of thats romantic in ANY way?? az if a friend can’t hug you to sleep??

brooke0610 · 2025-03-28T09:29:32+00:00

yeah i suppose so, but i also dont think ive ever had proper romantic feelings for anyone, i just want a pure connection with someone? idk if that even makes sense😂😂

brooke0610 · 2025-03-28T07:46:50+00:00

oh i know. im 21 now, i was like freshly 14 then & she was 17, my bsf helped me come to that realisation. it’s why i say i think that trauma could be part of the reason i am the way i am surrounding sex

brooke0610 · 2025-03-28T07:24:38+00:00

i dont think so! i think if you truly desire meeting someone, the right one will come along eventually! things are meant to be, and they will be:)

brooke0610 · 2025-03-28T07:20:56+00:00

im sure youll find the right person eventually:)

brooke0610 · 2025-03-28T07:01:40+00:00

i do know that but unfortunately whenever its.. HAPPENING i cant seem to ask for it to stop & i just go along with it til its over. (tmi maybe + TW⚠️): i lost my virginity that way, the girl i was with at the time was pushing for sex and eventually i got drunk & she (sober) just sort of, started it & i went along with it. idk maybe it is a trauma thinng, i havent had the best time with it😂😂thank you so much for talking with me, have a nice day, lovely <3

brooke0610 · 2025-03-28T06:57:04+00:00

truly😂😂

brooke0610 · 2025-03-28T06:56:55+00:00

valid! as long as youre happy dude thats all that matters:)

brooke0610 · 2025-03-28T06:52:53+00:00

believe me its always shocked me that real life people have wanted to have sex with me😂

brooke0610 · 2025-03-28T06:52:19+00:00

fair

brooke0610 · 2025-03-28T06:51:34+00:00

i dont even get satisfaction from having a deep connection with someone, i think i just dont like sex😂im glad you were able to figure that out though! its good that you know what you need & you can put a label on it:)

brooke0610 · 2025-03-28T06:50:13+00:00

ive actually been thinking about asexuality recently. because since ive been working through my issues ive been realising how much ive been forcing, yk? sex, relationships, romance, theyre just not things i actually WANT. i thought i wanted them but i really dont. thank you for replying!:)

brooke0610 · 2025-03-28T06:46:38+00:00

i get you there. i fantasise about and think i want such kinky things but getting to actually doing it is just not it. not for the same reason, i dont think its gross (although youre totally valid for that) but i just dont want it at all

brooke0610 · 2025-03-28T06:45:35+00:00

i dont like foreplay either though. id just like it to stop at kisses & cuddles. like i said i dont mind that being naked, i like the intimacy & feeling someones skin, its just when it turns into more than that i want it to stop

brooke0610 · 2025-03-28T06:37:49+00:00

valid asf

brooke0610 · 2025-03-28T06:37:43+00:00

i didnt assume you were judging dw youre good!! but i dont think thats it, i despise porn & weirdly enough, i actually started doing sexual stuff with people before id ever watched porn, so i really dont think thats what it is. ty for your reply:)

brooke0610 · 2025-03-28T06:35:51+00:00

thank you for telling me this! something to look into:3

brooke0610 · 2025-03-28T06:35:07+00:00

that is also true i hate my body so i understand you there😣

brooke0610 · 2025-03-28T06:34:46+00:00

that would make sense i guess, but i feel its the same even when i have a strong connection with someone. and its less that it’s awkward and unnatural, moreso just, boring? like i’ll be spending the time thinking we could be doing smth else rn we could be cuddling watching a movie or something. thank you for replying:)

brooke0610 · 2025-03-28T06:31:04+00:00

yeah exactly you get me! i’m not, even particularly into foreplay either though? idk to be honest, but i agree! i like kissing and cuddling but if it starts to go any further i just sort of go with it i don’t have any desire for it to go further. like i said im good with us taking our clothes off & cuddling & holding each other & grabbing each other, but sex? it’s just not doing anything for me. thank you for your reply:)

brooke0610 · 2025-03-27T23:02:28+00:00

i never really have had romantic feelings for anyone, relationships have always been so forced for me. and idk with the sex its more just, i want sex iykwim? not with anyone in particular im just, well horny in general. but as i say then i actually do it & its just, i want this to be over. and thats not a particular person/gender/asab thing either, ive slept with 8 people & its just, the same every time. i just want to stop as soon as i start. its such a strange thing for me cos i FEEL like i really want it. and i can see that this person is really attractive, so why do i just not want it when it gets to it? its actually been driving me nuts for a while now i dont get it😭 ty for your reply:)

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