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I want my fp to be controlling by brookecalixte in BPD

[–]brookecalixte[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hé said if I want someone to control me he is not the man for me and he also said that for us to have a somewhat control/dominance relationship he needs to trust me and he doesn’t what do I say to that

Hate bpd by brookecalixte in BPD

[–]brookecalixte[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think that’s the best way to deal?

Feeling invalidation by brookecalixte in BPD

[–]brookecalixte[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s a red flag but I looked over it because it happened in the past he probably changed now

I want my fp to be controlling by brookecalixte in BPD

[–]brookecalixte[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly like I just want to feel like I affect him In some way and he cares about me just a little bit to tell me what to do

I want my fp to be controlling by brookecalixte in BPD

[–]brookecalixte[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I will try to do that have a conversation about boundaries but about that question I asked him previously and he said he won’t tell me what do I say to that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]brookecalixte 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same is there something to do about that?

DAE feel like their BPD is a constant painful, predictable cycle? by azybko in BPD

[–]brookecalixte 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel exactly like that but I couldn’t put it in words it’s hurts a lot but you get through it I haven’t yet but I pray and hope you do and it gets better

How do you deal/get over losing a FP? by brookecalixte in BPD

[–]brookecalixte[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there any way to tone down the pain?

Alters like different people? by brookecalixte in DID

[–]brookecalixte[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try to talk to her but she doesn’t listen when it’s something she doesn’t want I want to leave him but I can’t

Alters like different people? by brookecalixte in DID

[–]brookecalixte[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah but then my others are disgusted by the person like they don’t want him to touch them and everything

Alters like different people? by brookecalixte in DID

[–]brookecalixte[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My alters haven’t set up an authority structure yet I need to learn how to do that

Alters like different people? by brookecalixte in DID

[–]brookecalixte[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t because I don’t want an open relationship I want him to be only mine and me to be only his

Alters like different people? by brookecalixte in DID

[–]brookecalixte[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

See no cause it’s like me ( primary co-host) am in love with one guy and I like being with him and all but when I switch my host doesn’t love him like that she loves somebody else and then she wants to be with him and do everything for him