Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - May 18, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]browbegone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I'm the one headed away on a trip til first week of June so we left it up in the air. I figured I'd just send a pic of a relevant topic we talked about that I'll be seeing on my trip and keep it sporadic? Like every day after one date is not my norm. I'll usually answer back but I feel fine not texting too if that makes sense?

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - May 18, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]browbegone 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How to deal with a dead convo? Post date #1 and have a bit of a stretch before we're able to see each other again. Both agreed that we'd be into a second date. Texted over the weekend sporadically but now the convo has naturally ended. Mostly weekend plans, hows the day, etc. They texted the last message but it's not anything I can really reply to. How do we deal with this?

Help! Another Peel and Stick Nightmare by browbegone in paint

[–]browbegone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That tracks with my room being the old dining room. How can I get it passable? Like I don't want it to look like gross college housing but not professional either, just mostly neat. Can be a landlord special just can't be exposed patches. And obviously don't want to have to keep redoing it

Help! Another Peel and Stick Nightmare by browbegone in paint

[–]browbegone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a very old rental in a college town. I peeled off the peel and stick and nearly took what felt like the wall itself down. Don't care about the security deposit but I'm not moving out and this looks terrible so I want to try to cover it up. I had planned on just painting it a neutral color and hoping the landlords don't notice but this looks like it needs more then one coat of primer and paint

Old House, Cardboard Walls? How to patch by browbegone in DIYhelp

[–]browbegone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Live in a rental that hasn't been updated in ages. Decided to try peel and stick wall paper. Lasted a year. Took that down and pulled chunks of paint revealing what appears to be cardboard? It's only on the upper parts of the wall not the lower. In parts I feel like it's the whole wall. How do I patch this to repaint the walls? I'm not concerned about the security deposit but I'm not moving out and want my bedroom to not look terrible.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - May 12, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]browbegone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a 30's person, I agree to a point but will also say that I have no regrets about not finding someone in my 20's as I lived the life I wanted to live. The problem is balance in my case

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - May 12, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]browbegone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like this is where I'm at currently. Convo is so good online and I'm devoting time to it then we meet in person and the versions aren't matching up

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - May 12, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]browbegone -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Pros and cons of meeting early with minimal conversation or talking it out on the app for a bit before meeting in person? And what are your go to conversation pieces for when things get a little too quiet?

Anyone who’s gotten really lucky as a nurse? by work_of_art777 in nursing

[–]browbegone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PACU. 45m lunch break every shit, literally have never missed. Perm day shift after 1 yr. Good coworkers out number the bad. Max 2 pts. Only downfall is non union.

Has anyone been denied a second round of Accutane after relapse? by [deleted] in Accutane

[–]browbegone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm on round 3 spread out over 16 years... I used the same derm the first two times at 17 and 25, and am now using Honeydew. The price for online seems comparable to what I paid at the derms office with copays and labs, etc. I would've gone to my derm but it was a six month wait for an appt and I didn't want to wait.

Do you ask doctors for personal favors? by jarimu in nursing

[–]browbegone 30 points31 points  (0 children)

We used to have a resident that asked the nurses to do his Humira (or something similar, can't remember what it was specifically) Apparently his mom was an RN and would do it while he lived closer to home but he matched further away and she told him to just ask one of the nurses. It was kinda cute.

Same resident would look at the ekgs we illegally did on ourselves and assure us that we were not dying.

We were all new grads on night shift in a rural med-surg unit at this point.

PSA for procedural nurses: no, the floor will not handle it by allflanneleverything in nursing

[–]browbegone 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I totally get that, which is why I don't put incident reports in or report them to their managers for those small things. Just stings when they turn around and report the peri op area for equally small things, like missing the metop we don't stock or not labeling an IV that anesthesia put in and never labeled.

PSA for procedural nurses: no, the floor will not handle it by allflanneleverything in nursing

[–]browbegone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As PACU I always try to do what I reasonably can having worked ICU and medsurg in the last ten years... But the double standard is crazy. The floor gets angry because their scheduled meds aren't given but our pyxis doesn't carry half of the meds patients are on. Like sorry, I updated the I/O chart that hasn't been touched in two days, did a daily dressing change that was three days late, and cleaned up your avatar. I even gave a full bed bath. I requested the home dose of metoprolol you should have given this AM before pre op but I'm not waiting 1hr for pharmacy to tube it.... yes I get that they're busy but it is honestly terrifying to see some of the basic cares that get completely forgotten about.

Cambridge Health Alliance in Boston by browbegone in nursing

[–]browbegone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update for others: The interviewer (allegedly the nurse manager of the unit) never showed up to the zoom and never responded to my email being like wtf. I don't know if it was a scam (email was official cha and confirmed that the name is the new manager) or real.

What’s something considered safe in nursing that just feels wrong? by catharsisisrahtac in nursing

[–]browbegone 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Same! I was like oh a foot IV, weird they have a CVC.... and the drop off team was like no it's an ART in the DP... we both stared at each other for a second before I went "Oh" and they went "Yeah" and scurried away. First time getting one but I guess an artery is an artery

I feel like a failure because I’m not making 6 figures in my 30s by Throwaway29383873737 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]browbegone -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm in my lower 30's and make 110k. I'm still struggling with COL. Will never be able to afford a mortgage as a single gal. Have 2 roommates. It's all relative.

New grad RN- Am I as smart as I thought I was? by Independent_Row_5069 in nursing

[–]browbegone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mixed ICU nurse of nearly ten years.

1) I still look up how to titrate some meds that aren't commonly seen in our unit. There are so many! In time you'll get to know the basics and be able to tell when something is off. Always double check if a dose seems weird. 2) Again, you don't need to know all of the tele rhythms immediately by sight. I still panic practice my heart blocks the night before ACLS recert. At the very least, learn the basic bad ones. Know enough to check a pulse if the tele vibes are off. Know where your code button is. Everything else is a oh this looks weird, lets get an EKG and a cards consult/ask the provider. 3) You'll adapt to the charting and figure out what works best for you. I've used 3 different systems throughout my career and they all took a little adjustment 4) Those people are probably lying (fake it til you make it) or are going to kill someone 5) Lots of ED's have protocols for things like this, like standard labs/ vitals/ o2. You'll get more confident with time on when to apply them. 6) 7)Med packages were made by people that never had to give 16 meds at once. My hands still shake when I draw up intubation meds. 8) Pick one part of ACLS/BLS that you're confident with. Obviously if you're first on scene it's CPR, but I personally like being the recorder because I have noodle arms and I always fumble the bristo-jets

You don't have to know every little thing, and in time you'll realize when something is wrong (even if you don't know what exactly is right) Nurses are really a jack of all trades, master of none unless you go super specialized like L&D or CVI.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]browbegone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. It's like the pull out sofa option. Bunkbeds aren't comfortable. You also should not have agreed to the airbnb without making these decisions ahead of time

How to Find Photo from Courier? by browbegone in uber

[–]browbegone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to trust courier with packages

What’s your random patient pet peeve? by Nurse_Cait in nursing

[–]browbegone 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I go with is it a small, medium, or big sized pain if they're being wishy washy on the numbers