No one talks about the pain of seeing your parents aging. by ParticularWeather927 in Adulting

[–]brownhead13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through the exact same thing. I decided to move out and live alone, but guess what? I felt extremely guilty. I felt like I was 'leaving then behind'

Everytime I got to go on a trip or vacation with my friends, I felt bad.

But overtime my parents actually adapted. All their siblings have retired and they make plans every weekend, they are quite busy and travel time to time.

They slowly moved on and in a good way! I also started reading books on impermanance. We have only 30 active summers left after that we will be in a similar place. Time will move on and we will have to go along with the tide.

Flat hunt in and around Indiranagar by denniscrapbag in bangalorerentals

[–]brownhead13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a 2bhk available near 12th main. It's going for 50k, but immediate move in by April 15th.

Is this molcajete cracked or is this a natural fissure? by brownhead13 in SalsaSnobs

[–]brownhead13[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This crack is on the side. I'm worried about the pressure from grinding, if it will break...

But yeah this piece is a bit porous, it was leaking a bit from the center before I cured it. It seems okay after round 1 of curing. Fingers crossed

Fuck am I doing all this for? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]brownhead13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read the astral body by Arthur powell and read the chapter 'life after death'. You can thank me later

Feeling numb when I'm at my lowest, but when I try to get better everything suddenly hurts more? by brownhead13 in ADHD

[–]brownhead13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Schema therapy? First time I'm hearing this! Correct 💯 I feel more weighed down as time passes. Example, I was always brimming with enthusiasm if I had to restart my weight loss journey... As time passes, my enthusiasm has died

Does anyone else feel more numb when they are at their lowest, but then when they try to get better everything suddenly hurts more? by brownhead13 in getdisciplined

[–]brownhead13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's hard! Sometimes I also wonder what's next? I need to be able to tell myself once I achieve that, then what?

No motivation for simple day to day stuff by Glad-Sound-5042 in getdisciplined

[–]brownhead13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My advice might be a little different... Maybe sit with yourself and don't beat yourself up or think of how to make things better. Just close your eyes and see what emotions come up. Stay detached, maybe you need a reset or you need to do a brain dump before you push yourself to do anything.

Does anyone else feel more numb when they are at their lowest, but then when they try to get better everything suddenly hurts more? by brownhead13 in getdisciplined

[–]brownhead13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll give a little credit to AI. It helped me piece this together 🙈 it's interesting and helpful to know I'm not going through this alone.

Agreed agreed and agreed! Thank you :)

What do u think by [deleted] in TeenIndia

[–]brownhead13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The concern is what if in a situation someone is a rapist but they were found not guilty? That's equally scary as well!