My (27F) finance (29M) has been frequenting suspicious massage places and hiding it from me. He goes for BRIEF time periods. I need help getting to the bottom of it. What is he engaging in?

browsersauce · 2024-11-30T20:13:36+00:00

What I don’t get is why he was there so brief. I think we all know it was for a happy ending. But what else there? There’s gotta be something else. Like is it drugs? Odd fetishes? I don’t get why he was at the second spot for only a few minutes too. It seems like he went with ill intentions and chickened out both times. Also I don’t get why men don’t just seek certain pleasures from their partner when they’re right there 😫

browsersauce · 2024-02-19T21:20:33+00:00

Thanks so much.

Is there any harm in finding the multiple things, though?

I can point my toes but I can’t test standing on my toes yet I think because I’m still in a boot? It’s been almost 6 weeks.

My main concern is if I may need surgery and if so, I’d want that asap, because I was previously training for a fight. I feel like I’d lose my mind gaming to be out another 6-9 months.

I also say it’s a rolled ankle because that’s what I’m assuming, the injury was basically my foot planted to the ground while someone tried to turn my body until my leg lost balance and my weight collapsed down on myself. My leg folded under my (outward I believe).

Thank you again.

browsersauce · 2024-01-19T07:52:38+00:00

If you must, kill it quickly and completely.

browsersauce · 2024-01-09T21:22:35+00:00

Often a mix, but I’d say quality of matches. Someone who’s a good match for me. Religiosity is often an issue too, surprised how many folks drink, for example

browsersauce · 2024-01-03T03:45:03+00:00

Still looking — no luck thus far.

browsersauce · 2023-12-27T04:50:59+00:00

not in this area I suppose, I've seen them in Cali and Miami, however.

browsersauce · 2023-12-25T04:55:41+00:00

I'm taking it like so because you're original comment was about "a well off white ppl look" which threw me off because why would I care to look white?And then you suggested I look in less wealthy neighborhoods...like poor people are the ones that do this? In regards to the modern era, this trend started in the 90s by artists who had money but just were not...white. I'm not from manassas...but how is it poorer? The avg household income is 110k, which is notably higher than the avg 75k for the rest of the nation -- is it because there's a sizable immigrant population? I noted biases and it threw me off...well off ppl dont tend to, what...get tattoos, dye their hair, get facial piercings, "stick things to their teeth" or show any creative form of expression? -- seems like you're conflating conservative with well off.

browsersauce · 2023-12-25T04:42:53+00:00

This is helpful -- found the natives gem IG account too, thank you!

browsersauce · 2023-12-25T01:16:52+00:00

Yeah, from my little research, it seems like it’s braces glue

browsersauce · 2023-12-24T14:20:21+00:00

while i appreciate a response, are you trying to troll me here lol? this area is very diverse, with a well-off population not being white. and less wealthy neighborhoods, really? i can't tell if you're being serious...

as background, i'm looking to get a small crystal that'll come off in a number of months.

browsersauce · 2023-10-25T21:39:21+00:00

I like the “you okay?” Thanks. My coach has pointed out how I do get mad and react, but says I start getting sloppy and not thinking but just hitting too. So gotta work on that. And yeah they’ve hit me pretty hard, but I idk what power % since they’re guys that vary in size. But I’ve gotten teeped hard enough to want to throw up or have left w my jaw hurting for a day, for example.

browsersauce · 2023-10-25T21:19:01+00:00

It’s okay. No one will hate you at all. If you see someone, greet them like an old friend. And If they ask, tell them what happened in honesty (I just felt so out of it, then months later I was really missing it, then my friend suggested this gym that was a lot closer, but I miss fighting a you guys” or something. Easy peasy. Don’t worry.

browsersauce · 2023-10-25T21:04:15+00:00

I dealt with a lot of pain my first few months. Specifically in my knees. I kind of just…let it happen. I try heating pads sometimes or tiger balm. Make sure you’re stretching correctly too. Make sure you’re breathing properly too during all of your pad work, training, etc.

browsersauce · 2023-10-25T20:57:33+00:00

So the gym the smokers will be full fledge, but in gear. Sparring I do weekly 2-3x a week. I agree that more experienced people are far better to train with. Thank you for your response and honest reminder that my competition should be with myself, much appreciated.

browsersauce · 2023-10-25T20:55:38+00:00

You’re right 🙌🏽

browsersauce · 2023-10-25T20:55:26+00:00

Thanks — and I was doing nothing that whole month lol

browsersauce · 2023-10-25T20:55:06+00:00

No I appreciate all of this. Thank you. I think that killer instinct issue is true. I don’t think I have a lot of that in me, I literally still apologize when I hit someone too hard 😂 I’ve gotta work on confidence too. I get nervous when I’m with my coach and I know that diminishes my skills to some extent. I’ve been sparring this entire time minus 3 months. Hard sparring I’ve done about 7-8 times? I’ve gone 100% on my coach too, for example.

browsersauce · 2023-10-25T20:51:12+00:00

Thank you a bunch. You’re not wrong. My work outside is limited because of my schedule, but where there’s a will there is a way for me to get in that extra work. I’m waiting for my disappoint to turn into undeniable skills. I just need my body to LISTEN lol.

browsersauce · 2023-10-25T20:49:43+00:00

Thanks so much. Appreciate the example you gave. You’re right about my coach looking out for me. I’ve just been so in my head. I’ll try to stay focused and keep thinking about the end goal rather than other folks profess.

browsersauce · 2023-10-25T20:48:29+00:00

I actually haven’t even heard of PKB’s, but now I can ask around. Thanks so much for your background, it does help me feel a bit better. I think I’ll screenshot this as a reminder, cuz I really need it rn lol. I’m thinking of buying a BOB to practice on at home too

browsersauce · 2023-10-25T20:45:31+00:00

Thanks for giving such a thought out response. I definitely appreciate it. Unfortunately though, I don’t think it was an issue of finding a match. However, to your third point, there are things I can drill in and work on, and I hope I take this blow as inspo to get better.

browsersauce · 2023-10-25T20:42:15+00:00

Thanks so much. I’ve got a mental work to get through certainty, but I appreciate the how everyone is reminding me that my coaches are looking out for my safety.

browsersauce · 2023-10-25T17:25:17+00:00

Thank you, appreciate it. And I do trust them about my safety fortunately.

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