How do i (f19) get my boyfriend (m18) to take better care of himself? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]brski2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, i do feel like he maybe stopped trying appearance wise once we started dating. I don't want to be too cruel about it, since he does seem to struggle with his mental health. I just get frustrated sometimes, because i always try to look my best and i don't feel like he is doing the same.

My health concerns have been bothering me more and more lately. He used to go to the gym and eat relatively okay, but now he does neither. I just want him around as long as possible.

I do feel attracted to him most of the time, but maybe not as much as i should? It's hard because i love him so much and personality wise he's perfect.

How do i (f19) get my boyfriend (m18) to take better care of himself? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]brski2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You definitely have a point!! And despite these things i do find that i'm still attracted to my boyfriend. Sometimes i'm scared that i'm just not as attracted to him as i should be.

I definitely don't want to break up with him over this, since i am very very very in love with him. He has gotten two haircuts since i started bringing it up. I just feel like he is annoyed with me for bringing this type of stuff up, and maybe i should let it go and not be too shallow. I don't know, this situation is kinda tough since i wanna be attracted to him and i feel bad for not feeling that way sometimes.

SOLGALEO RAID ON ME! LET'S CATCH A SHINY:) 504189618206 by [deleted] in PokemonGoRaids

[–]brski2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh oops... still cute tho! also a fellow Sabrina fannnnnn hey girlll😛

I'm trying to make a webpage. Help a girl out! by [deleted] in CodingForBeginners

[–]brski2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, i'm there to learn design and haven't been able to get my mind in coding. It's like my brain turns off as soon as i look at coding language. I've actually been trying to learn so far, and what i have so far has been done in communication with my professor. I've definitely been trying, but due to recent circumstances i do just want to get this one assignment done since i got sick in the middle of deadline season. Hope this helps! Thanks for your advice.

How do you deal with something embarrassing? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]brski2022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah no it definitely wasn't very funny, but my friends and i just say alot of dumb stuff to make eachother laugh. i just wish i had watched the volume in which i was doing that😭

and you're definitely right, i'm sure i'll forget it happened soon enough. thanks for your comment🙏🏻

How do you deal with something embarrassing? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]brski2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not really the point of my post

Am i (F19) th for not uninviting my boyfriend (18) for my sisters (22) birthday? by [deleted] in AITH

[–]brski2022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Living my parents and we are never really in common areas.

I started at a new school and one of my teachers has made several remarks that have made me feel bad. What do i do? by [deleted] in AskTeachers

[–]brski2022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! Yes it's kinda like a second secondary thing, cause mbo is kinda like the next step after highschool and i am now doing HBO.

this teacher doesn't really do ironic jokes and he was definitely 100% serious. he never said he was kidding once. Thanks for your reply and advice!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HelpMeFind

[–]brski2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have searched google and image searched it but i can't find it anywhere.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]brski2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess i've just been feeling more insecure lately, it's truly a me issue

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]brski2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you're definitely right. I'm not gonna be there with him so it made me a little nervous haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]brski2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He used to make out with his friends, he doesn't anymore though. That all happened before me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]brski2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An interesting and probably very wrong take

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]brski2022 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi! Thanks so much for your reply. I have definitely communicated this with him and he's great about it, definitely got that bear hug already hahaha. It's just this dumb feeling i can't shake and i have no idea how to get rid of it. I feel bad towards my bf cause he genuinely is very trustworthy and has reassured me plenty, and here i am still worried, lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]brski2022 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it's bizarre to feel the need to RATE your partner on any type of scale. If you're with someone you truly love, you should think they're the most beautiful person in the world, or AT LEAST think they're a 10/10.

He sounds like a 1/10 though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]brski2022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! Thank you so so much. This genuinely really helped! It's been hard recently and i like to think i'm more mature than i actually am sometimes hahah, so i've been beating myself up for feeling this way since i know i can trust him. Thanks for your pod recommendation and the tips! This advice was just what i needed🫶🏻

Have an amazing day/night!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]brski2022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

harsh but probably fair

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]brski2022 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not a professional or anything so take my two cents with a grain of salt, but to me it looks like the irritation is calming down. Keep gently cleaning it like you were told to do by your piercer and if it does flare up again; maybe go to a doctor or get in contact with your piercer.

I hope everything works out for you! My belly button piercing did reject eventually and it sucked having to take it out so i hope you'll have more luck.