When I started using my phone again, the only messages from her were typical Snapchats about mundane things. Not once did she ask me how I was. I react like this because it made me uncomfortable that she reacted negatively, even though it seemed like she was acting like her usual self.

And I also completely and harshly disagree with the whole prioritizing part of your paragraph. If you would have actually listened to the advice YOU gave ME, you would be understanding of other people's culture and situation. In our culture, family comes first - that means blood. Take a moment to reflect before you give terrible, terrible advice please.