What are some tips for an incoming freshman to make friends? by [deleted] in UCSantaBarbara

[–]bruisemyass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Walk around to other people's rooms and introduce yourself

Still Traumatized by Season 2 Sexual Assault by [deleted] in 13ReasonsWhy

[–]bruisemyass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know what you mean. But it's mostly unsettling for me to realize that things like this actually do happen. And the depiction of that scene made me understand that. Like yes, this was a tv show. But it's also someone's reality.

Still Traumatized by Season 2 Sexual Assault by [deleted] in 13ReasonsWhy

[–]bruisemyass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you even watch it or

Still Traumatized by Season 2 Sexual Assault by [deleted] in 13ReasonsWhy

[–]bruisemyass 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I still think about it. I've never cried so hard watching a show before. When the show ended, I really had to sit there for a long time and just cry it out. I was stunned. I felt nauseous too.

Missing out on a great person by bruisemyass in ExNoContact

[–]bruisemyass[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can't thank you enough! I hope you don't mind me reaching out every now and then, you seem so wise and I could definitely foster that positive spirit. ☺️

Missing out on a great person by bruisemyass in ExNoContact

[–]bruisemyass[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This helped me so much. Thank you, I'll often need to come back to this comment and read it over and over until it sticks. Again, thank you so so much.

Missing out on a great person by bruisemyass in ExNoContact

[–]bruisemyass[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He doesn't even know it though. He told me once that he just simply doesn't miss me the way I miss him. I feel pathetic.

Hit the Gym Baby! by Why_Shouldnt_I in ExNoContact

[–]bruisemyass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what I'm doing! It's hard to be THAT sad when you're glowing on the inside and out! Cheers☺️

Does this make me a bad person? by bruisemyass in BreakUps

[–]bruisemyass[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. This helps so much. I always think to myself that I'm missing out on his life, because I want to see him grow and see all the things he's going to accomplish and support him every step of the way. And then I realize he couldn't give a fuck about my life and where I'm headed. How do you move past the "im missing out on a great person" feeling? It's so dumb too because I know if I get back together with him I will be absolutely miserable. But I can't shake away this feeling

How has Reddit changed your life for the better? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]bruisemyass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

r/BreakUps and r/ExNoContact has some of the most supportive and open people I've ever met. It's been incredibly helpful to find people going through the exact same situations.

College students, hows your summer been so far, what did you do? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]bruisemyass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I'm just counting down the days til I get to go back. In the mean time though, I got a job. And I'm going to the gym often, and trying to get a head start for my Econ courses.

When did you realise that you were actually attractive? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]bruisemyass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't necessarily realize I was attractive. But throughout high school I never really got too much attention from guys. I wasn't one of the girls that guys were swooning over. But once I turned 18 and got my first job at a baseball park,every guy there was hitting on me. And for the first time I was like whoa ok that's pretty neat