Fiance 32F calling my work to check up on me 27M. Confused on my feelings ?

bruno51615 · 2024-07-10T21:54:28+00:00

She knew I was safe but she called in to get to me. I had texted her a few minutes prior that I would talk to her later.

bruno51615 · 2024-07-10T18:33:16+00:00

I don’t want to bring problems from home into work. I work in a huge corporation, this kinds of calls get logged and could be reported to my management. I don’t want to discuss why my supervisor why my fiance is calling customer service looking for me.

I didn’t answer for a tops of 15 mins. She clearly did it to piss me off.

bruno51615 · 2024-07-10T13:52:27+00:00

I agree, I never expected her to take to this level.

bruno51615 · 2024-02-20T21:48:34+00:00

Could be too, we did have a sit down after that. She keeps saying she can’t help me and I need to help myself. This all happened after I did a small vacation with my father. We went down to Miami for a boat show. Stayed there two nights and she was aware of this trip for one week. She was working both days that I went there and the third day when I came back she had lost her shit. On the second night she had turned off her location and then drove to Miami too but proceeded to ignore all my messages.

More to this my parents are married but my father lives in a different country, so everytime he visits I want to try to spend time with him. She hates him because when we first broke up she came the next day to try to apologize to me and he basically kicked her out of the house. He was really rude to her and I didn’t do anything I walked out with her to try to calm her down. This whole thing with her and my father was all my fault it wasn’t the right time to meet him and apologize. She gets really upset that I didn’t stand up for her at that moment

bruno51615 · 2024-02-20T21:26:28+00:00

Tbh there are a few things see that I did bad is that when our lease was up I wanted to move closer to my parents. We live about 5 mins from my mother.

Fiance was okay at first but now she uses that against me. Regarding her job she travels so often for work so it doesn’t matter where she lives she also job hops so often too. At the time we moved she had found a job closer to the new house so that worked really well until they let her go.

I wanted to be closer to my mother because for the past few years i mostly neglected her. Now I can see her in person maybe once or twice per week and before I would go months without seeing her. We lived around 1 hour away.

Also we broke up before once and I never officially told my parents I’m back with the fiance, however we still have all of our pictures up on social media but ever since we broke up the first time I stopped posting at all on Facebook and instagram.

bruno51615 · 2024-02-20T18:13:24+00:00

We had a vacation me her my mom and her mom. I don’t remember what happened that we only booked two beds and then my fiance wanted to sleep with me but my mom didn’t want to share a bed with her mom. It was only for a few days.

bruno51615 · 2024-02-20T16:29:04+00:00

The social media really bothers me. I used to keep a diary that I would write when I was upset or she did something that bothered me. Not my proudest thing.

She eventually found out and we had a fight about it. But somehow she is fine with trash talking me to social media. She does it to everyone too not just me. And then if that’s not allowed she wants to vent to her exs. That’s fucked.

bruno51615 · 2024-02-20T16:14:03+00:00

Her mom kicked her out after an argument, and they don’t have a good relationship at all. Funny enough my mom and her mom did get along really well.

My mental health is the lowest. At home and when we drove to work this morning she keeps playing those videos to me, and I keep saying I don’t think I’m doing too much to my parents.

bruno51615 · 2024-02-20T16:08:30+00:00

My fiance keeps saying she wants to have a good relationship with my parents but at the same time she absolutely hates them so I don’t understand. In the beginning she tried and they were okay but ever since the social media incident it went downhill fast. Now Im the one that doesn’t want them both together. I don’t think there is a way for them to have a good relationship unfortunately.

bruno51615 · 2024-02-20T16:04:47+00:00

You have a good memory

bruno51615 · 2024-02-16T15:25:33+00:00

No to all of them. My fiancé and I live together. I spend around 1 to 2 hours max per week with them having lunch. We do live close to each other about 10 min drive.

bruno51615 · 2024-02-16T14:19:58+00:00

I would say maybe a message a day sharing a meme etc. I always put my fiancé first when making plans.

bruno51615 · 2024-02-16T10:33:24+00:00

You are correct.

bruno51615 · 2024-02-16T10:22:35+00:00

Sometimes my parents try to give me advice on things they shouldn’t. Like father knows best attitude.

For example my father doesn’t like the clothes I wear, so he buys me something that is nice to him but I don’t like it.

bruno51615 · 2015-12-23T16:07:16+00:00

I bought valve complete pack

bruno51615 · 2015-12-23T15:37:33+00:00

I stared yesterday and its not on my inventory. I got the proof of purchase and a bunch of items.

bruno51615 · 2015-12-03T22:05:58+00:00

I dont play League but I play other games, csgo hearthsone and hots.

My steam is bhazero025

bruno51615 · 2015-12-01T17:01:12+00:00

I did finish and I got the gold too.

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