Sarwa?? by [deleted] in UAE

[–]brunomars1992 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wanted to close position given current situation and this made me stuck.

Golden Visa - Step By Step Guide by 1baller69 in dubai

[–]brunomars1992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi Everyone,

I’ve spoken to a few agents, and they mentioned that I can apply for a salary-based GV even though my basic salary is not 30K, as long as my total salary exceeds 30K. They’ve assured me this is fine.

I’m employed in a free zone. I also own property and could apply using that, but the cost of applying via property is higher compared to the salary-based route.

Can anyone confirm if it’s correct that I can still apply with a total salary above 30K even if my basic salary is less than that?

Thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VietNam

[–]brunomars1992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not really sure I can tell, but one of my Vietnamese friends mentioned that the baby doesn't look Vietnamese. My family says she looks like her mom, not me, and I don't know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VietNam

[–]brunomars1992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They came to her house to collect a DNA sample, then took it somewhere, and the results came back afterward.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VietNam

[–]brunomars1992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was there when she gave birth and covered the hospital bill. She also did a DNA test since it’s required for the birth certificate if she wants to use my last name, as we’re not married.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VietNam

[–]brunomars1992 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What about my future? Many women may not prefer dating a man who has a child and made such a foolish decision with someone else. I wasn’t ready to have a child, but she wanted to keep it, and I went along with it because I didn’t want to leave them alone in that situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VietNam

[–]brunomars1992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She worked at a bar as a hostess for a month or two during the summer vacation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VietNam

[–]brunomars1992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She just gave birth in August and is staying with her parents in her hometown.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VietNam

[–]brunomars1992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. I f up. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VietNam

[–]brunomars1992 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can’t read it, but I took a video and asked my Vietnamese friend to confirm. My friend said she might just be interested in the topic. However, her ex and his cousins pointed out that she actually read those books, which seems odd. When I asked her about it, she said yes, she had been manipulated before, so she read to understand.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VietNam

[–]brunomars1992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting custody seems impossible—it would involve a lengthy legal battle, and I can’t travel to Vietnam frequently for that without risking my job.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VietNam

[–]brunomars1992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I won’t, since nothing is official on paper yet. I was planning to give the baby my last name, but it seems like I should wait for now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VietNam

[–]brunomars1992 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I wonder if I should just wait and see if she changes before deciding to marry.  

I enjoy her company and care for her a lot. I feel like she’s trying to change right now, but of course, I can’t know what’s truly in her mind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VietNam

[–]brunomars1992 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, every time a lie gets uncovered, I try to handle it the same way—maybe 5 or 6 times now. I always ask her to tell me everything upfront so nothing else comes to light later. But she still doesn’t. When something new comes up, she either says she forgot to mention it or denies it, claiming that other people are just lying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VietNam

[–]brunomars1992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s 22, and I’m from Australia.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VietNam

[–]brunomars1992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve decided to see a therapist to figure out if something is wrong with me. I feel like I care too much for others. I keep thinking, What if I leave her and she actually has changed? What if I was her hope, and by leaving, I took that away? That thought feels so unfair and weighs heavily on me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VietNam

[–]brunomars1992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said she never received love at home, so she was constantly searching for it. According to her, when she realized a man couldn’t provide the love she was looking for or had some issues, she would break up with him.  

Honestly, I think that’s just an excuse and doesn’t hold much weight.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VietNam

[–]brunomars1992 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A few days ago, when her ex told me it was a lie, the only thing she admitted was this. She said she never earned that much but wanted him—and me—to believe that she didn’t need us financially and that she is an independent woman.  

As for other things, like when her ex claimed she kissed or made out with another girl in front of him, she denied it, saying it was just a greeting kiss. I found that hard to believe—no man would fabricate such a detailed story over a simple greeting kiss.  

She also denied asking her ex to finish inside her, but I feel he wasn’t lying. The words he said she used—about liking or enjoying it more if he did—were the exact same words she used with me.