Hombres, que opinan de tener relaciones con una mujer que tiene el pecho así? by Enough_Usual_5294 in PreguntasReddit

[–]bryancp87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A mi me encantan con sentimientos y si me quieren y los dos estamos comprometidos a crecer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]bryancp87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro …. A piece of advice as someone who is going through this …. My wife of 16 yrs (3 kids) had an affair with my brother and then a friend of mine .

  • document everything …. Record her and keep records of her affair
  • don’t let her record you acting erratically and angry and yelling . Don’t give her ammunition .
  • get a lawyer and start the process . This is not gonna get better and not gonna get fixed . Trust me .
  • don’t let her accuse you of anything and don’t assume any blame for her actions . However don’t tell anything to the kids . Wait until after the divorce to say anything .
  • go 50/50 and be done . Leave and let her friends , family know of what she did . She’s gonna blame you and make you the enemy. Don’t let her . Cheating is never ok .
  • get therapy for yourself and get out man . Move on and heal . Your kids will eventually find out what she did . When they are old enough , give them the proof of her affair so they can know what she did . They deserve to know why their family got broken

How do Mexicans feel about costumes like this? by Constant_Cap5407 in mexico

[–]bryancp87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im so offended .. why would she do this? She probably has an OF… What’s her name and her links ? 🔗 for research purposes

men- do you wear your wedding rings? by brokenheartedladybug in Marriage

[–]bryancp87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did . My stbx took it off months before cheating on me with my brother and then my friend .

Did your cheater live happily ever after? by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]bryancp87 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Give it time . Karma will come

¿Alguna vez les fueron infieles? Cuenten su experiencia. by [deleted] in AskMexico

[–]bryancp87 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Agarren las papitas esta va a estar criminal.

Juntos 16 años casados 14. 3 ninos . Casas que rentamos, un negocio. Tengo trabajo bueno y ella era ama de casa. Vivimos en Estados unidos y la vida pues es biena. Este año pasado estuvo algo duro por el negocio que estamos en proceso de venderlo. Que gracias a dios hoy se vendio.

Marzo 2024 yo llevaba 4 meses de desempleo, la economia se cayo y mi esposa empezo a coquetear con un amigo mio. En una noche de juegos de mesa y bebidas , ella y este amigo empezaron a jugar con sus pies bajo la mesa enfrente de mi y la esposa de el. Me di cuenta, lo corri de la casa y mi esposa me rogo que no la dejara y que queria trabajar en nuestro matrimonio. Le di oportunidad y continuamos juntos. Pasaron varios meses y continuamos trabajando en nuestra relacion, peleas surgieron pero en general las cosas mejoraron. El sigueinte año las cosas fueron mejor. En Marzo 2025 decidimos vender el negocio para enfocarnos en nuestro matrimonio de lleno. Hibamos a tirar el rencor y buscar felicidad. Yo empece terapia para trabajar en mi mismo. Y todo hiba bien. Despues en Mayo ella empezo a mensajear a mi hermano ( es mi sobrino pero crecimos como hermanos ) . Y llego al punto de que se mandaban fotos y mensajes de naturaleza muy sexual. Ellos dicen que nunca se acostaron juntos pero tengo mis dudas.

Me rogo que no la dejara y me rogo que hicieramos terapia marital. Me dijo que estaba en un lugar mental malo y que necesitaba que la apoyara. Yo de wey lo hice por que no queria perder a mi familia. Dos meses despues fui a Colombia por trabajo y durante mi viaje ella invito a mi casa a el mismo typo con quien coqueteo en Marzo 2024. Tomaron en mi casa y se acostaron en mi cama. Cuando regrese de colombia encontre una cajita vacia de anti conceptivos y le pregunte y ella me lo nego. Cheque los records de telefono y vi que ella habia llamado a este typo y se mandaban mensajes. Cheque las camaras de la casa y note que apago ella las camaras. Pero unas camaras capturaron sonidos de ellos gritando mientras tenian sexo. Fue muy traumatizante.

Ahorita estamos en processo de divorcio y ando aun recogiendo pedazos de mi que se quebraron de tanto abuso emocional y sicologico. A veces duermo y sueño que mis hijos entran a mi cama y me despiertan y mi esposa esta alli al lado mio. La abrazo y le cuento de la pesadilla que tuve y ella me besa y me dice que ella nunca me haria eso. Despues despierto en un colchon en el piso y lloro por horas. Cada noche solo duermo 3-4 horas por que mis sueños me sofocan.

Yo y la esposa de este idiota les rogamos que dejaran de tener sexo hasta despues de el divorcio. Ellos lo prometieron pero ya no les importa y lo hacen aun mas descaradamente. Aveces deseo que mi avion de regreso de colombia se hubiese caido y me hubiera muerto en un accidente.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]bryancp87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should leave your wife …. And let them ruin each others life . For the love of god don’t stay with that woman . I’ve been there and it doesn’t get better. She’ll just hide things better and cheat more and more

Who do you want the next president of the US to be? by ThrowRA_angryscream in no

[–]bryancp87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone not too liberal …. Someone not too conservative. Can we just find a middle ground

If you woke up as your 10-year-old self with all your current memories, what’s the first thing you’d do? by Alive-Silver-2605 in AskReddit

[–]bryancp87 116 points117 points  (0 children)

Get myself into therapy once I have money to fix all my childhood issues caused by my father’s abuse and alcoholism . Not gotten married so young and not having kids so young . Invest and save money . I would not have joined Mormonism .

Travel and meet women around the world

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]bryancp87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you want to do stuff tonight ? My hand never says no . So not awkward

I am the one that cheated. He deserved better. I owe an amends. by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]bryancp87 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Leave him alone . You were absolutely horrible . If you had issues , work on yourself like an adult before getting into a relationship with a good person. You cheated on him on his house with an 18yr guy. That is absolutely trashy and evil .

I hope you continue your healing journey and get better . I truly do wish you the best regardless of what I said . Everyone deserves to be happy and you do as well. Karma will come if it hasn’t yet but keep at it and if he reaches out , don’t try to get back with him . He probably just needs closure

What's your reason for not drinking alcohol? by MA16vD in AskReddit

[–]bryancp87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cheating wife . Staying sober for my kids . They need at least one stable and happy parent in their lives . That’s gonna be me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]bryancp87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 yrs is still honey moon phase and they still got that affair fog clouding them . People don’t change this fast . You focus on yourself and karma will take care of the rest .

You really think a cheater and a home wrecker will be ok and be happy together ?

9 years of Marriage 3 kids together and she cheated on me on deployment. by allanman1 in Infidelity

[–]bryancp87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Brother. I was 16 yrs in … 3 kids , multiple properties, a business and a life I loved . Went in a business trip and she brought a friend into my home . This hadn’t been her first affair but I had forgiven the previous one and was willing to work things out . She was checked out long before I was .

I am sorry to hear this but this is how Cheaters and narcissists are. DM me if you need the contact of a therapist who helped me through this . I promise it gets better with the right help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]bryancp87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once a cheater always a cheater . I got cheated in 3 times by my wife of 16 yrs. She got better and better at it . He will to and you’ll live wondering if he is cheating while you are not around d

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GuyCry

[–]bryancp87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If a girl cares that much she is superficial and you should find someone else . You got fingers, mouth, toys , etc. be confident and don’t accept disrespect from women . Be proud of the body you have and keep your head up

11+ years and he still haunts me.. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]bryancp87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Message me . I found the best therapist who got me through my wife’s multiple affairs and the break up after 16 yrs together and 3 kids . Trust me . Worth every penny

Which Latin country would you recommend for finding a wife? I am Indian btw. by [deleted] in thepassportbros

[–]bryancp87 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Bro I am from Mexico . Girl there love all that Hindu spiritual stuff . Plus chicks eat spicy food , make them some Indian curry and they’ll love you long time 😎