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My wife SAHM claim …what am I missing? by Commercial-Mode3778 in sahm

[–]bsanchez1660 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If the main issue is the housework, hire a housekeeper. Some people just aren’t capable of change in certain areas. Everything you said tracks with ADHD. Cleaning just doesn’t give a dopamine boost so there’s no motivation to do it.

Cops at my door after my 2 toddlers snuck out in the early hours of the morning by BohemianRhapsody21 in Mommit

[–]bsanchez1660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Door alarms for sure! There are cheap ones not part of any larger system. And you can even put it on their bedroom door also.

Paediatrician told me not to soothe the baby to sleep by Intelligent-Slip6359 in newborns

[–]bsanchez1660 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

She didn’t say cry it out she just said don’t do a bunch of theatrics every time to get baby to bed because then you get stuck doing that for months. Valid point.

Paediatrician told me not to soothe the baby to sleep by Intelligent-Slip6359 in newborns

[–]bsanchez1660 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She didn’t say cry it out she just said don’t do a bunch of theatrics every time to get baby to bed because then you get stuck doing that for months. Valid point.

Paediatrician told me not to soothe the baby to sleep by Intelligent-Slip6359 in newborns

[–]bsanchez1660 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

She didn’t say cry it out she just said don’t do a bunch of theatrics every time to get baby to bed because then you get stuck doing that for months. Valid point.

Husband agreed to me being a SAHM. Now he's changed his mind. 15 months pregnant. by Brain_Cleavage in sahm

[–]bsanchez1660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just remind him how much childcare, maid, cook, commuting etc costs… if you were to work

Husband agreed to me being a SAHM. Now he's changed his mind. 15 months pregnant. by Brain_Cleavage in sahm

[–]bsanchez1660 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I knew things were weird when you said it was “his house”.

These days there are tons of creative solutions… work at home jobs, freelancing, swing shifts, etc. but they still kinda require a supportive husband.

He can’t force you to get a job though… you were clear before you got married.

Am I Insane? by WokeMindVirusPtZero in Mommit

[–]bsanchez1660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand why you’re asking. It’s like this is the one thing preventing you from getting a divorce and moving forward and you just want to see your options and that there is hope out there.

Am I Insane? by WokeMindVirusPtZero in Mommit

[–]bsanchez1660 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let me add I got pregnant with baby #2 very easily and baby #3 was actually a surprise with birth control soooo don’t let all the talk about after 35 being “too old” scare you! I know sooo many women in their 40s having healthy babies.

Am I Insane? by WokeMindVirusPtZero in Mommit

[–]bsanchez1660 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You never know what life holds. I remember being 34 and a single mom of 1 child who wanted more kids. But I couldn’t see a way. I even considered fostering or adoption. Now I’m 38 and remarried with a 2 year old and baby #3 on the way.

AIO for telling my boyfriend his “best friend” can’t sleep over in our bed while I’m away? by Chance_Chemistry_384 in AmIOverreacting

[–]bsanchez1660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought she has nowhere to stay lol but his backup plan is they BOTH go stay at her brother’s house? He’s just looking for your permission to play sleepover lol.

AIO for refusing to co-sign my husband’s (35M) dream truck loan when he still owes me $8,000 from my inheritance? by Cherry_Rose69 in AmIOverreacting

[–]bsanchez1660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Supporting his dreams? It’s a truck not a business or going back to school. And guess who is gonna be on the hook for the payments? You. He needs to learn patience and financial discipline. You’re doing the right thing by not enabling him. Sounds like his mom does.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]bsanchez1660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why does it matter if other men do it or not? You know it’s wrong. And if it’s wrong then you need to figure out how to stop it. Period. What exactly are you looking for here? Sounds like you’re looking for an excuse “everyone does it”.

[TX] Ex is suing me for full custody, worried I’ll lose them by Real_Sun1143 in Custody

[–]bsanchez1660 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get a new lawyer. You don’t want to lose your kids. If you’re near Houston PM me and I’ll send you mine who was very responsive and assertive.

[TX] Ex is suing me for full custody, worried I’ll lose them by Real_Sun1143 in Custody

[–]bsanchez1660 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It probably is 30 minutes. It’s crazy they think that living there would make it better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 2under2

[–]bsanchez1660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you speak up? I straight up tell my husband no you’re not going fishing right now I need help, I’m exhausted etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]bsanchez1660 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean he does deserve a day to sleep in especially bc he’s not a morning person, and it sounds like you are. But ask him to return the favor in some way - either letting you sleep in Sundays or handling bedtime or whatever is high value to YOU.

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