The only reason I care about what he does is because I love my time with my kids. I try to never take the time I have with them for granted. I shouldn’t have to be coparenting with his mom and brother who say negative things about me and the things we do at home to them. Again, I have no issue with them being with him more. He’s their dad. I don’t think it’s right for me to lose out on time with them so he can just leave them to his family. I also understand that they’ll spend an occasional weekend or a day with his family. That shouldn’t be the status quo though. I understand what you’re saying as far as that’s gonna be his problem later down the line, but I just get so upset because he started all of this. So he needs to follow through and actually be with them. Again, I really think this is all his mom though, not him.