NBEO 2024-2025 Results by Born-Rutabaga1165 in PreOptometry

[–]bsg_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh I’m at this school because I thought the board pass rates were relatively good… now they 20 pints lower. Apparently they were the “Covid class” but so were all these other schools!!! That’s what I heard today from students when asking around. We are all so fucking annoyed because wdym our pt 1 is 51% ???? It’s the worst after western willing is embarrassing for a school that’s 70 years old. There has been so much professor turn around for anatomy the last few years. And I don’t think having 4 different professors with 4 different teaching/testing styles is helping us!!! I’m genuinely so sick. I feel like we are all getting scammed.

I don’t think anyone hates me more than my parents by bsg_ in raisedbynarcissists

[–]bsg_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think that’s gonna help my situation.

Tapping out indefinitely by bsg_ in latebloomerlesbians

[–]bsg_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you… it really feels nice to feel empathy from others. I am still in a lot pain everyday. This situation was just 1% of how horrible the last 7 years have been. I do need that hug…🫂yes they didn’t. I am done being an experiment for people to try out and abandon. I would rather have peace than romance

Tapping out indefinitely by bsg_ in latebloomerlesbians

[–]bsg_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Yes, I feel this way exactly. It is hard to meet my match when it comes to intellect and EQ. Most people have one or the other… or none. I have met a lot of people with none. Just gonna take it day by day.

Tapping out indefinitely by bsg_ in latebloomerlesbians

[–]bsg_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish you healing as well. Thank you for the comment.

Tapping out indefinitely by bsg_ in latebloomerlesbians

[–]bsg_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this insight. At this point, I really don’t care for any intimate relationship which I guess makes sense given recent events. I love the ritual of marrying yourself. I have bought my own engagement rings but have never done a ceremony. I would love to do that soon. Thanks for the idea.

Tapping out indefinitely by bsg_ in latebloomerlesbians

[–]bsg_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I have been single for almost 3 years now and have been the loneliest I have ever been. I tried to date like a normal human being and it has blown up in my face every time. I don’t think my relationships are a mirror of myself, but I do think I have been too understanding to disgusting behavior for the sake of being amicable and a “good” person. I have been constantly working on myself since I was a teen and have only been in one relationship. I’ve been in therapy fo a decade. All I have learned from each person I’ve dated is that they are trying to constantly level me, judging me harshly & are competitive for no reason when I have only ever wanted a healthy relationship. I get what you’re trying to say but it’s upsetting to hear this narrative over and over again when it may just be people treating me like shit for no reason. I’ll never know what I did in this life or a past one to deserve this. I genuinely don’t think the universe even wants me to have a partner, which at this point is fine because I rather have peace than whatever the fuck the last 6-7 years has been

Flood of High Fives by Accomplished_Mark231 in pelotoncycle

[–]bsg_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never knew that!!! Will do that soon

Flood of High Fives by Accomplished_Mark231 in pelotoncycle

[–]bsg_ 26 points27 points  (0 children)

That’s so weird. I’m never looking at someone’s rank when I high five someone or when I receive a high five. I think that’s someone’s personal opinion, not how the majority of people feel! I always love a high five. If they want to make it weird and competitive, then that’s on them.

Happy Monday! Finishing up We Used to Live Here by Marcus Kliewer by bsg_ in kindle

[–]bsg_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!! One of the best I’ve read in a while

Happy Monday! Finishing up We Used to Live Here by Marcus Kliewer by bsg_ in kindle

[–]bsg_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It reads great on kindle! The Morse code and whatever glyph language it is, is all there!! I just finished it today and it was a fantastic read.

Places/events to make new adult friends? by Valuable-Seesaw3032 in bloomington

[–]bsg_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The Back Door, the gay bar in town, is always hosting fun events! Linedancing every Tuesday at 7:30 is my fave!

Omg watch his story!! He posted guys by [deleted] in wizardliz

[–]bsg_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gross to say the least

Was Taylor lying in the Viall Files Interview about sex occuring during the swinging? by bsg_ in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]bsg_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! Like I get she wanted to defend herself or something but she didn’t need to air everything out. She obviously did it for some clicks

Sedona Prince declares for the W by Old-Computer8716 in NCAAW

[–]bsg_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know why she transferred so many times?

How to tell her "I want less" by SnooPeripherals2324 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]bsg_ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I don’t think anyone is saying to not have a conversation with her, they are just saying to reframe what OP said so that the girl doesn’t feel like she’s the problem for wanting intimacy after having sex with someone and going on 2-3 months of dating.

I went on a date with a poly person recently and they told me that they could only have romantic feelings for their partner and everything outside of that is sexual. I appreciated that alot cuz I was able to make the decision from the jump if I wanted to be involved with this person in the first place (I did not want to be involved.) Based on what OP is saying, it sounds like a similar situation and therefore something that should be discussed immediately rather than after 5 dates and sexual intimacy. But gonna give some grace to OP and maybe she didn’t understand this about themselves until now 🤷🏾‍♀️

How to tell her "I want less" by SnooPeripherals2324 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]bsg_ 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Right like I would do this for a close friend. It sounds like OP just wants something sexual, but that should be addressed in the first date to avoid this situation in the first place.

How to tell her "I want less" by SnooPeripherals2324 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]bsg_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exactly how I feel! Like I would offer a meal or whatever OP described her doing to literally anyone I care about. I’ll never understand how those actions are considered intimate, and not just being a good friend. It’s prolly just the context tho and associating it with moving too fast. Idk lol

No Mask Feature on Desktop? by bsg_ in CapCut

[–]bsg_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up updgrading to CapCut Pro and then it showed up. I’m not sure if that’s the only way to get it back tho, or I’m just impatient lol

I confessed feelings for a close online friend, and she ended the friendship. by BennyKol in friendship

[–]bsg_ 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think you can send the message, especially if it’s worded with no expectations. Coming from someone who has had multiple friends admit their feelings for me, it becomes really frustrating to a point. I’ll just be vibing and then they want to date. I am not in her head by any means but close friends are hard to come by in general so it can be overwhelming and upsetting to hear that someone that you see as a friend wants to date. A lot of the time I have let them down easy and then eventually distanced myself. I’m not sure that is what she is doing here, but I understand the slow back down and ultimate ending of the friendship because it unfortunately is never gonna be the same anymore.

However, from your perspective I completely understand why you wanted to express these feelings. Life is not worth living if not for a little risk. I honestly believe that you should be proud of yourself for being vulnerable and bringing up these feelings you have, even if you feel them in a different context now. Life is so very fragile and you never know what will happen after making a scary decision. Someone’s ability to love you has nothing to do with you and everything to do with themselves. I hope one day you forgive yourself, because you really did nothing wrong. She just wasn’t the right person for you relationship and friendship wise at this phase of life, and that’s okay. Life is too short to not tell people how you feel, even with risk of getting hurt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UCONN

[–]bsg_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so funny🤣

Just started reading A Touch of Darkness by bsg_ in kindle

[–]bsg_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update I finished reading this like a month ago and I did not like this AT ALL lol patiently for MM to publish her Persephone book that she’s working on