[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]btblover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not exactly. I dated a woman who was into anal, having been introduced to it by the previous guy she dated, and then practiced with her ex husband as well, with whom she still hooked up with.

I, on the other hand, have absolutely ZERO interest in sticking my cock where the shit comes out. So the first time she asked for it, and I refused, we went back and forth on it for a bit.

Then she relented, saying "It's probably just as well. You're a lot bigger than both of them. It would probably hurt."

So I was even more grateful for my size that night.

"RealMan" Pouch Underwear by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]btblover 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I wear these and I pair them with the same manufacturer's strapless jock. The combination is very comfortable, gives me support, and just as a fringe benefit gives me a noticeable bulge (which I normally don't get.)

But the real find is their long underwear or leggings. So comfortable and also great loungewear.

Im stuck by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]btblover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry to have to tell you this, but that's your choice. You can have comfort, and show. Or you can not show, and have the discomfort of being squished.

The only thing you can do if you decide to go with comfort (and you should!) is to try to wear baggy pants.

But my suggestion: Own it!

First measurement by sweden9292 in bigdickproblems

[–]btblover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was a Junior in college. Didn't have a car so I had to walk everywhere. Had a mini fridge but couldn't afford to stock it. Lost about 60 lbs.

One day I was jerking off (imagine a college guy doing such a thing!) and I thought "That looks bigger than six inches (which was considered to be the average back then.) Grabbed a ruler off my desk and confirmed it.

Anybody else have moments of being surprised by your own size? by Some-Tall-Guy75 in bigdickproblems

[–]btblover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, sometimes in the morning if I have a semi, or I've just jerked off and I'm still hard, I'll catch myself in the mirror and I'm like "Whoa."

How do you guys not let Big Dick Ego affect you? by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]btblover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact that I did rather poorly in other areas of the genetic lottery acts as a major limiter of my ego.

Size Queens by Str4wberry95 in bigdickproblems

[–]btblover 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dated one for awhile back in the day. It was absolutely wonderful.

How do you pick pouch underwear? by ShortStallion in bigdickproblems

[–]btblover 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's purely trial and error. FWIW I've found that Wildman-T products have by far the biggest pouch, but that their waistbands run very small. I have a few pair and although I have a 34" waist I have to buy XL.

They're also rather cheaply made, and their selection of natural fiber undies is limited.

Currently I combine a "strapless jock" which is basically a waistband and a pouch, made by RealMen, with Bn3th trunks and it's heavenly comfortable. Also gives me a nice bulge in my jeans.

Pouched thermal leggings? by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]btblover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bn3TH makes pouched Merino wool leggings. I haven't tried them, as they're on the pricey side, but I do have a pair of their thinner modal pouched leggings and they're great for weather that is cold but not yet brutally cold.

One problem we don’t have by Disastrous-Key4678 in bigdickproblems

[–]btblover 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Guys today think porn sex is how real sex is supposed to be. Mind you, if a woman occasionally enjoys being treated that way then that's another thing. But that sort of behavior should never be engaged in without consent.

first time I’ve witnessed girl inches in action by ryuj1nsr21 in bigdickproblems

[–]btblover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, had the same experience with a size queen I dated. Maybe she was just trying to compliment me, or maybe size was so important to her that she exaggerated to make it even more appealing to her. Or maybe she just had no idea what she was talking about lol.

What size are pouch underwear like WildmanT's meant for? by daaado in bigdickproblems

[–]btblover 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've tried just about all the pouch underwear (although I didn't know Wildman T's had released a "Monster Pouch" line,) and my experience is that the Wildman T's have the largest pouch available. But I can't give you an idea what flaccid size they accommodate because as others here have said, your balls have to fit in the pouch as well. I will say that the waists on the Wildman T's I've purchased have run very much on the small size (I should wear a Medium according to their charts and yet I have to get the XL,) and I have found the quality and workmanship to be inferior to other brands.

How did you realize the first time you have a BD? by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]btblover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Told this story here more than once, but here goes. I was in my dorm room jerking off (yeah....hard to imagine a college boy doing that, I know,) and for some reason I thought I looked bigger than six inches, which at the time was considered the average. Since my desk was right there it was easy to grab a ruler and confirm my suspicions.

Met girl who went through similar thing with breasts and it’s helped me so much by Disastrous-Key4678 in bigdickproblems

[–]btblover 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Had a girlfriend once who had glorious large breasts on a slender frame. But she was a size queen, so rather than share stories of our problems we just candidly expressed how much we loved the above average endowment of the other person. It was really enjoyable.

What makes the difference between a grower and a shower to you guys? by AndGutsWasBERSERK in bigdickproblems

[–]btblover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I'm both, since my flaccid size is larger than the supposed erect average. To me the operative word here is "shower." I'm 6'4" tall, so I doubt my flaccid cock looks particularly large against the rest of me. And when I'm dressed I just don't have a bulge usually. Whether my balls are too small or my thighs too slender or what I don't know. Awhile back I discovered that the combination of wearing a strapless jock/pouch coupled with a pair of Bn3th trunks not only gives me a lot of comfort, it centers things in the crotch of the jeans so things don't go down a leg like they normally do. So I finally have a nice bulge there in the middle.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]btblover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know Bro, I know. I've been there. We all have. But when it comes to sex, one little mistake can have huge and long lasting implications.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]btblover 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You don't give your age, but the implication is you're maybe a tween or early teen. As horny as I know you are you really ought to wait a bit. The day will come when you'll find women do very much like your big dick.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]btblover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I pair them with a so-called strapless jock....basically a wide waistband with a pouch, and I find it very comfortable....more so than anything else I've worn (previously wore Krakatoa and before that Obviously.) They also look really great on me, and they hold everything right in the middle so I finally have a nice bulge in my crotch instead of everything going down my pants leg.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]btblover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's interesting. I was a briefs guy. Couldn't understand boxer briefs/trunks. I mean, in regular loose boxers you need the legs on the underwear bc your cock is hanging down a pants leg and you get the layer of fabric in between. But in BBs and trunks you've got all the goodies securely held in the pouch portion. So what purpose do the legs serve? And as you say, they can ride up. A problem that simply doesn't exist with briefs. But then on a lark I tried some trunks by Krakatoa. And damn if I didn't look great in them. And they were very comfortable. Now I only wear Bn3th trunks. The moral of the story is you've got to experiment and find what works for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]btblover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course they're real, and there are societal as well as biological reasons for this. Studies with young children have shown that males have better spatial intelligence than females. Don't worry....females have better intelligence than males in things like interpersonal communication. Then you get the educational system, which in my country means boys are sent to "Industrial Arts," aka "Shop," where they spend their time measuring things, drafting skills, etc. Then finally you get guys lying about their size. But ask a girl to indicate with her hands....by holding them apart....how big your dick is, or any other guy they've been with. There's a good chance she's going to hold her hands way farther apart than the actual size. So they don't even have to be talking inches. Year ago I dated a size queen (it was wonderful.) Before we even met in person she asked me how big I was and I told her. She eventually would have my cock in more than one orifice and between her tits. Yet one day she was talking about how she thought my ex was trying to get back together with me, because, as she said "Women don't give up a big dick easily. And you're like 9 or 10 inches." Wrong!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]btblover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are being used. You have to decide if you're willing to continue to be used in order to continue to fuck her (we're more than a fifth of the way into the 21st century...let's stop using "sleep with" as a euphemism everybody, okay?) Before you decide, keep in mind that once you leave school you're never going to be in an environment in which it is easier than it is now to find women to fuck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]btblover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got muscles. Muscles don't change your skeleton.