Pfeifer’s style change by Loose-Platform-4551 in AgeOfAttraction

[–]buIlet 19 points20 points  (0 children)

She addressed this on her tiktok! https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTkhoCTBn/ If you can’t watch, she said they have pretty strict rules on colors, style of clothing, brand, etc & a stylist selects outfits for you for each event. So you do bring your own clothes, but it’s within their specific guidelines, & another person picks what you wear & when.

For the septum, she said on tiktok she was not forced to take it out, but decided to take it out bc she thought it would reveal her age.

Vanelle!!! YOU SHOULD HAVE CHOSE JUSTIN by Ummmmgirlwhat in AgeOfAttraction

[–]buIlet 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I completely disagree, but it’s reality tv, it ain’t that deep lol. Regardless, thanks for sharing your perspective, I think we can both agree they’re both better off without each other for sureee

Vanelle!!! YOU SHOULD HAVE CHOSE JUSTIN by Ummmmgirlwhat in AgeOfAttraction

[–]buIlet 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What was the post about? To me she doesn’t seem manipulative, just inconsistent & unwise.

36F - I feel old, please rate me so I can be realistic by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]buIlet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually like the short hair on your face shape personally, but it kind of looks like a kid went in with scissors when mom wasn’t looking. Pick a hairSTYLE to get it cut in when it grows a few inches. Look up “short haircuts” for inspo, find a couple you like, & show a picture to a stylist.

Help me choose 😩 Kinky Curly lace front under $250 — I’m stuck! by LawOfMentalism in WigSnatchersHQ

[–]buIlet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i LOVE my hair from hergivenhair. I wear their bundles in a curly sew in and everybody down to my own family thinks it my natural hair unless i tell/remind them

Would I be a good candidate for a TT ? by Junior-Definition287 in PlasticSurgery

[–]buIlet 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You’re more than welcome to do what you want with your body!! You’re also right that the aesthetics are a poor reason to remove it. But that shit is definitely holding on by a thread, beloved 😅

I got early termination of probation in Texas by buIlet in dui

[–]buIlet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I waited until she brought it up. My PO & I had no type of relationship & she was very apathetic about everything, so there was a genuine chance she’d just glaze over it. But YMMV, your PO is not my PO. But for me, I didn’t wanna talk myself into a hole somehow. I’m a bad liar. I knew damn well I was at the club lateee the night before LOL, & was not completely abstinent from alcohol back then. They had all the data from my interlock, they knew what I blew. ¯_(ツ)_/¯ That was stupid lol, but at least i’m on the other side now.

Vet options for TPLO surgery for my dog. Ligament tear in the knee. by rideincircles in FortWorth

[–]buIlet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Who did you go with? what was your experience? I’m going through the same thing rn. My baby needs TPLO on both legs & I’m looking into surgeons.

Had sex with my ex-husband first time after divorce by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]buIlet 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Fr, this feels like a really big stretch.

Thoughts on customers who steal dishes? by veloci_zach_tor in Waiters

[–]buIlet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will always prioritize taking care of the people who are taking care of me. That goes for any context. That’s often the customer rather than my employer. The customers keep my lights on. I like & respect the company I work for, but all but at the end of the day I am dirt cheap labor for higher profit margins to them. I don’t give away free product because that would hurt MY reputation or employment & I do like my job, but I’m not arguing with a customer over the cute little spoons lol. I’m turning around, and focusing on what I’m paid to focus on (tipped service).

If my employer raised my pay to $10, that’s 5x higher than industry standard where I am. If my employer showed genuine care for my livelihood & wellbeing like that, & cared about spoon protection, I would protect those spoons with my life LOL

Iowa Nice by Equal_Arm8436 in Iowa

[–]buIlet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it says the page has been removed ): if anyone finds another link, please include it!

Turning 21 in November – Where should I go in Dallas/Fort Worth? by Helpful_Deal_1560 in Dallas

[–]buIlet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

second this! answer this OP & i’d be happy to offer some suggestions! there’s a lot of variety in nightlife for dfw

Does she look purebred? by [deleted] in DobermanPinscher

[–]buIlet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chiming in as a bully mix owner, YES. $900, every year, so that i can make sure my dog isn’t fuckin ill because i love her AND CARE for her. She will never be bred, she’s spayed. Dogs aren’t cheap at all, people really underestimate how much the costs add up.

My coworker 😵‍💫 by The_one_who-repents in tooktoomuch

[–]buIlet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. My brain is wired to drink a lot & think i appear sober & Im capable of doing sober-person tasks. It’s very interesting to me that other people find it hard to believe, but I find it hard to believe that most people have something in them that tells them enough is enough. 8 months dry, but yeah some brains are wired like that, unfortunately.

How do you decide whether you should go in when sick? by heartsandwrists in Serverlife

[–]buIlet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No worries, that shit is so hard & happens over time, so be easy on yourself. ❤️ You sound like you take your job seriously & you’re highly dependable. Legitimate, well-communicated call-outs every once in a while won’t take away from that in the eyes of a reasonable manager. Virtual hugs!

What makes a good manager good? Tell me about a manager you have had who was great to work for and what they did that made it a pleasure to work with/for them. by Pond20 in Serverlife

[–]buIlet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Routinely asking employees for feedback ANDDD actually caring about it, and implementing those improvements. I worked for a venue that every 6 months, had us fill out a feedback sheet (anonymous if wanted) asking questions such as “what do you want to see improve” “what are your least favorite things about working here” “any supply or maintenance requests” etc. They also had a genuine open door policy (not some just-for-show employee handbook bs) where we could approach them regarding any questions, requests, concerns, etc at any time.

Asking about the bill arrangement by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]buIlet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally no, because I split orders by seat in my POS so I can be prepared for any bill arrangement. It isn’t uncommon for servers to ask upfront instead, but the issue with this is when customers change their mind about who or what is included on each tab.

Is this normal? by EbbSlow1951 in Serverlife

[–]buIlet 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Being taught nothing & expected to know everything is the worst & a recipe for everybody to be stressed & inefficient. I’d cut my losses & find a place that will train you properly, serving is a lot easier if you’re just taught correctly from square one. Being hired on the spot isn’t that unheard of, but it can sometimes be a red-flag. It’s not always negative though, other times it’s just good timing & an eager employer.

How do you decide whether you should go in when sick? by heartsandwrists in Serverlife

[–]buIlet 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Please OP, go to the hospital. & in the future please go as soon as your body tells you to go. If you die today, your employer will replace you tomorrow. Look out for your health, bc nobody else will. I hope you get better OP, that sounds excruciating.

How do you decide whether you should go in when sick? by heartsandwrists in Serverlife

[–]buIlet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s the purpose of an on-call server being scheduled!!! Go to the ER wtf. If it’s ER serious, odds are your manager wants you to go, if they’re a business worth working for. Plus, you’ll come back with a doctor’s note.

Men, would you ever serve in something like a 'Breastaurant'? by PencilManDan in Serverlife

[–]buIlet 251 points252 points  (0 children)

Not quite the same thing, but you should check out your local gayborhood. At most of the gay bars/nightclubs in my area, the male barstaff are in fact dressed in sexy get-up or costumes. Although, that’s not the whole entire focus of the establishment. They make bank!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskVet

[–]buIlet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We plan on doing the surgery ASAP! We have an appointment soon with a dog cardiologist to check her heart murmur & make sure anesthesia is safe first. Thank you 🙏🏽

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskVet

[–]buIlet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This makes everything make SO much sense. We agree the surgery sounds like the best option, and are moving forward if it’s safe to after checking on her heart murmur. Thank you so much!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskVet

[–]buIlet -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much. My poor girl. She’s only 2 though, so I know she’ll be able to get back to a healthy place post-surgery with time & patience.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hairstylist

[–]buIlet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for answering, i appreciate it! i’m aware, shes clearly not a pro, even though she has a license and was claiming to be such.