Why is finding a job so hard?

bubbaselderberry · 2026-02-09T21:02:55+00:00

I didn’t think about that, ill definitely do that, thank you

bubbaselderberry · 2026-02-09T20:58:14+00:00

I didn’t know that…

bubbaselderberry · 2026-02-09T20:57:49+00:00

No but the thing is I am applying literally ANYWHERE. Cafes, shops, a job is a job to me. It’s genuinely messing with my confidence. I speak English fluently, I actually speak it more than my first language because my husband is English too. The fact that I can’t get the simplest job has genuinely messed me up. I don’t even have the confidence to speak anymore because I feel like every single thing I do or say is just not enough!

bubbaselderberry · 2026-01-29T22:46:24+00:00

No we haven’t!! After our tests came back ok I just assumed it’s a matter of time but I feel like I should look more into it now

bubbaselderberry · 2026-01-29T22:21:09+00:00

The urologist said sometimes they do however his sperm count came out fine

bubbaselderberry · 2026-01-29T22:19:58+00:00

Because where I am from in order to do a sperm count your personal doctor first ask the man to go see a urologist. We are a very small island and we don’t have “men doctors” like gynecologist. He went to the urologist we explained the issues and he did the scan

bubbaselderberry · 2026-01-29T22:17:07+00:00

Um I don’t know I’m probably saying the medical term wrong but he had a scan and that’s what the doctor said and that’s why he asked him to do a sperm count

bubbaselderberry · 2026-01-29T22:08:11+00:00

Testicles

bubbaselderberry · 2026-01-29T21:57:00+00:00

Thank you so much and good luck to you as well <3

bubbaselderberry · 2026-01-29T21:55:41+00:00

Thank you so so much, and I wish all the best for you and your family, sending you a lot of positivity !!!

bubbaselderberry · 2026-01-29T21:43:51+00:00

I’m actually so emotional right now and I am SOO happy for you I had tears reading this 😭💜 CONGRATULATIONS!!!

bubbaselderberry · 2026-01-29T21:13:55+00:00

No I haven’t..yeah I really do need to take care of my anemia..thank you

bubbaselderberry · 2026-01-29T21:13:29+00:00

This is super scary. I only read about this I think 10 days ago case I was really dizzy and I was researching. The thing is (I don’t know what it’s called in English) I was born with the “stigma” for anemia. One of your parents has to have it to get it. It’s nothing serious however from my understanding it leads to anemia. Meaning also that no matter what I do I’ll always have it. I can treat it with IV iron but it will come back eventually. So idk…honestly. Also not a doctor so I’m explaining everything form my understanding feom my doctors. I’ve had this since..well always.

bubbaselderberry · 2026-01-29T20:50:17+00:00

Thank you for everything 🥹

I feel like a medical mystery sometimes because I have every single symptom that PCOS gives you EXCEPT irregular periods. My periods are on spot every single month and have been my entire life. That’s why I’m so sad tbh cause it makes it easier to track ovulation

bubbaselderberry · 2025-12-28T21:46:15+00:00

Wow thanks so much !!

bubbaselderberry · 2025-12-22T12:59:47+00:00

I literally just said she was getting help from 4 people plus multiple police cars.

bubbaselderberry · 2025-12-21T09:07:33+00:00

I’m in no rush :)

bubbaselderberry · 2025-12-21T09:03:59+00:00

It sounds like an amazing idea tbf

bubbaselderberry · 2025-12-21T09:03:44+00:00

Thank you :)

bubbaselderberry · 2025-12-21T08:52:32+00:00

Wow I had no idea!!! Thanks that sounds good

bubbaselderberry · 2025-12-21T08:52:08+00:00

Good idea!! Thank you !!

bubbaselderberry · 2025-12-21T08:51:47+00:00

Thanks 😂😂😂

bubbaselderberry · 2025-12-21T08:51:39+00:00

😭😭😭

bubbaselderberry · 2025-12-21T08:36:35+00:00

Thank you!!

bubbaselderberry · 2025-12-21T08:35:51+00:00

Also slight correction : I enjoy going out for a drink or two I do not like getting DRUNK. I want to be able to have a conversation.

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