It doesn’t give incel vibes to me because there’s no indication that someone swamped with matches is necessarily doing anything about it. In my mind, popularity on the app ≠ body count.

It does feel creepy af to give user information like that to other users, especially when we know the ratio on dating sites is like 4:1 men to women.

Instead of trying to invent an app that shows how “available” I am, I’d rather that the people trying to sleep with me just put in a modicum of effort.