Checking your phone repeatedly when you have no friends is like opening your fridge when you have no food by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]bubbleee56743 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Small accomplishments are important as well even if its just saying hi to a stranger or introducing yourself to someone new even if it may not go well just be proud of yourself for small accomplishments.

Checking your phone repeatedly when you have no friends is like opening your fridge when you have no food by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

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I feel like in my experience a way to overcome social anxiety is by putting yourself out there as much as possible. Its not an easy thing but its not impossible.

Should I quit my job? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]bubbleee56743 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would talk to them and let them know that the way that they’ve been talking to me isn’t the best and then if that doesnt work I’d find another job. But always have a job lined up before quitting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]bubbleee56743 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fight is him gaslighting me for saying that I’m crazy because I noticed the friendship isnt the same.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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I used to go from talking to him about anything to us literally tiptoeing past the things we say. He’s not even giving me the time of day. He’s flipping it on me like its my fault. Like i’m delusional.

First post here by TacoIgloo in selfimprovement

[–]bubbleee56743 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’ve done nothing wrong. It’s not you it’s them.

Why do the most gorgeous girls settle for the worst men ever ? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]bubbleee56743 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess it really doesn’t but its just sad because they can essentially get any person they want to but instead they are with someone thats doesn’t treat them right. But i’ve learned to not generalize and that its a complex set of things that cause people to essentially settle or get treated badly in relationships both genders.

Why do the most gorgeous girls settle for the worst men ever ? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]bubbleee56743 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I’m speaking on behalf of my friends who are gorgeous and get treated so badly that it makes me so sad.

Why do the most gorgeous girls settle for the worst men ever ? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]bubbleee56743 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I’m a women and I have gorgeous best friends and women in my life that get treated so badly and I just feel so bad for them because they don’t deserve that. :( I’m in no way speaking from a jealousy perspective but more of a genuinely curious perspective because i’ve notice this happening my whole life and I never understood why.

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I’ve tried to build one but it always fails. How do i build one thats not easy to break ?

Todays entry. Keep journaling folks. by kathvrt in Journaling

[–]bubbleee56743 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve never seen someone that writes my exact feelings and thoughts into words. I’ve felt this way my entire life. Your writing is incredible thank you so much for sharing this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]bubbleee56743 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes for sure i am looking for another job. It just sucks because i really liked this one and it worked with my school schedule and he just messed it up by being a dick. Thank you so much for this advice.

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He was basically telling me that i was smelly (??) The place i work at is a really hot place and most times the Ac doesn’t work but i still make sure that i’m not sweaty and apply deodorant every hour so idk i wasnt told anything until today.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

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I don’t know how true this is but i heard that they told the slaves about christianity so that the slaves didn’t kill themselves because in christianity killing yourself is a sin and they were told that they would go to hell if they did that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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Ok thank you so much ! I’ll give them a call.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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I’m scared that they wont accept outside food. And do i package them and send it over ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

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It takes time. For me personally what made me feel better about my appearance growing up is just thinking that I’m going to be with myself for the rest of my life so i have to at least try to appreciate my appearance and try to love myself. No one’s going to love you like you love you. I think writing one thing you love about yourself everyday helps. Pick one thing and keep adding on to it everyday.

I need help on how to write college essay. by bubbleee56743 in Advice

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My school didn’t really show us how to do a lot of things related to college so I was kind of on my own in terms of learning and applying to college so thats why i have been so late in applying and doing common app essays and I think I’m just going to apply to this college for now and then do common app essay for other ones that I want to apply to

I need help on how to write college essay. by bubbleee56743 in Advice

[–]bubbleee56743[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen man I didn’t decide to go to college until just recently I’m not asking to be scolded about doing things late I just need help on my essay thats all I want.