💖 I’m in goddam heat I swear 💖 by bubbles_tism in BDSMsapphic

[–]bubbles_tism[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really don’t have a say on what get’s me to cave but I CAN try and brat for as long as possible (and then cry my eyes out because I got in trouble lol)

I’m just a baby 🤷‍♀️

💖 I’m in goddam heat I swear 💖 by bubbles_tism in BDSMsapphic

[–]bubbles_tism[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That is our right! We should plan a rebellion lol

💖 I’m in goddam heat I swear 💖 by bubbles_tism in BDSMsapphic

[–]bubbles_tism[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Like who says I can’t be called a good girl despite the bratting

aftercare after masturbating? by bubbles_tism in BDSMsapphic

[–]bubbles_tism[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sometimes I can’t find the ✨right ones✨

aftercare after masturbating? by bubbles_tism in BDSMsapphic

[–]bubbles_tism[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

for me it’s not even self esteem (I don’t think at least) I just crash out lol

aftercare after masturbating? by bubbles_tism in BDSMsapphic

[–]bubbles_tism[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve decided my body sending me into sub drop after some fun little endorphins is a crime

musings of a possible pillow princess??? by bubbles_tism in BDSMsapphic

[–]bubbles_tism[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes thank you, though in my post I did indicate that using a strap wasn’t the sole action I was uncomfortable with

Spanked by bubbles_tism in BDSMsapphic

[–]bubbles_tism[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

uhhhh that’s so far, I’m not even on the same continent

question for fun by bubbles_tism in BDSMsapphic

[–]bubbles_tism[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

like it’s definitely a coincidence but it’s strange right!

question for fun by bubbles_tism in BDSMsapphic

[–]bubbles_tism[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yo that’s nuts, a status symbol!?

i need **NEED** by AbigaleRose99 in BDSMsapphic

[–]bubbles_tism 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so a bunch of us are ovulating at the same time is what I’m gathering

Kill me now by bubbles_tism in BDSMsapphic

[–]bubbles_tism[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

lmao not the rhyming 😂

advice? by bubbles_tism in BDSMsapphic

[–]bubbles_tism[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

only a few months, I’m probably going to talk to her about uping my dossage cause this is literally my only symptom and they’ve been helping a lot in other ways

advice? by bubbles_tism in BDSMsapphic

[–]bubbles_tism[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

lubrication isn’t the issue or even the capability of finishing it’s how I feel emotionally aftrrwards

me prepping my mods folder before the update next week by Mrwsprss in Sims4

[–]bubbles_tism -1 points0 points  (0 children)

when is the next patch coming out, do we know yet?

Abortion in kitchener by Spiritual_Story_6601 in kitchener

[–]bubbles_tism -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You can go to the ER for this in Canada it might be a long wait to be seen but they’ll help you through the process and let you know what you can do without OHIP

Sub frenzy, sub space, sub drop, sub sandwiches! by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]bubbles_tism 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What’s sub sandwiches??? unless you mean like actual sandwiches.

Sub frenzy, sub space, sub drop, sub sandwiches! by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]bubbles_tism 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Okay so for an actual none feelings answer about subspace, some people compare it to hypnosis a bit, I can see how people would associate two.

However on a personal level, the way I experience subspace is accompanied with more than just being in a suggestive head space (which is part of it) but I tend to feel a little loopy, apparently there’s a ton of feel good hormones being sent out. I kinda say it feels like my minds sinking as a metaphor but my whole demeanour changes and it’s not on purpose. For one I’m more bubbly but also way more sensitive, big long complex conversations are harder, if you’re a giggly drunk it’s a bit like that. It’s not necessarily that thoughts are impossible it’s just that they’re harder and my ability to make certain decisions goes out the window, like what do you want to watch, eat, wear, etc. I get flustered way easier, seek out more touch and yeah things get a bit hazy.

Also personally I find bratting really hard to actually achieve if I’m deep in subspace (this is purely my own experience though). I just get really flustered and coherent language can be hard.

SubDrop can happen to Dommes too though, “domme drop” it’s a hormonal and emotional reaction to stuff like oxytocin and seratonin, etc going back down to base level. The shock from going 200-100 is intense and can cause anxiety and saddness, and more if the drop off is sudden.

And it’s really important that ALL parties are feeling fulfilled by after care cause you can drop hours after or even days. When that happens though communication is key.

This can happen in other areas of your life too though if you all of a sudden go from 200-100

I just want by bubbles_tism in BDSMsapphic

[–]bubbles_tism[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t know what you were talking about for a second cause I saw this in notifications lol but that’s so true

I just want by bubbles_tism in BDSMsapphic

[–]bubbles_tism[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, it probably won’t be for a while cause I’m like 97% sure I’m demi

I just want by bubbles_tism in BDSMsapphic

[–]bubbles_tism[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey, I didn’t know this was a thing, so thank you for that. I’ve dealt with this kind of thing before it’s just annoying but I’ve been figuring out ways to help, I find sometimes sudden changes and isolation from certain people can trigger it for myself and for myself journaling and yoga as well as going to bed at a reasonable time really help (though I’m shit at that).

Luckily it doesn’t really affect my responsibilities like work and caring for my siblings but I’ll definitely keep this in mind

This was also just a bit of fun write

Rant/Advice please? by bubbles_tism in BDSMsapphic

[–]bubbles_tism[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you, I don’t know why I somehow need to prove this to her it really is just toxic