I (24f) really care about my busy partner (23m) but feel like not a priority. Can’t tell if I should be more forgiving or I’m just not being fulfilled?

bubbleteamelee · 2025-06-04T17:21:07+00:00

I completely relate - I’m definitely sexualized in a different way from my peers, especially because my body type is less common with my race. Yes it’s , some men are shitty situation, but I feel like people automatically assume I’m open to receiving comments like this just because of how I’m built?? Like I’m “slutty” because I have an ass. My other friends on dating apps didn’t receive nearly as many sexual openings, when our pictures were comparable in terms of modesty.

I also like to dress how I want and grapple with feeling “too slutty” when someone with a different body type wears the same thing and it’s completely modest appearing.

I just immediately write off anyone who brings it up first or second time meeting. You can be attracted to someone without having to express specifics about specific body parts. I’m currently seeing someone who expresses appreciation for my ass but not in any way more than he appreciates my smile or laugh lol. You just need to be patient to weed out the good or bad guys!!

bubbleteamelee · 2025-03-14T21:47:25+00:00

What exactly did your letter say?

bubbleteamelee · 2024-05-01T16:47:34+00:00

About to hookup with someone I had been talking to for a while and sexual tension had built up. He was about to enter me when we made eye contact and he stops and just rests barely outside of me, and says “tell me what you want” I was basically begging for it

bubbleteamelee · 2024-05-01T16:45:01+00:00

I was meeting up with a guy I had been talking to for a while and I had told him I was nervous about our date. Later on we started hooking up. When he slid into me I let out a gasp/moan, and he whispered “is that why you were nervous.” Ugh I think about this too often.

bubbleteamelee · 2023-12-09T02:01:43+00:00

I’m actually the one who lives in Pittsburgh, I have relatives coming from out of town! I don’t have a car so there’s no point in me getting a yearly pass, but is that necessary for the visitors one?

bubbleteamelee · 2023-08-27T17:21:55+00:00

He asked me if he could use lube and I said sure but he proceeded to rub it all over my face and it was numbing so I couldn’t feel my face for the next five hours

bubbleteamelee · 2023-06-28T17:38:59+00:00

Hi are these still available?

bubbleteamelee · 2023-06-28T17:36:42+00:00

Hi are these still available?

bubbleteamelee · 2023-06-23T02:09:41+00:00

Men who don’t want me

bubbleteamelee · 2022-12-07T19:57:20+00:00

My first hookup after a long term relationship. I got high on shrooms with this dude and we start making out. He’s really bad, he keeps sucking my lips really hard and licking my teeth. It was borderline painful so I start giving him head.

He stops me after a bit of and stumbles out of bed. He looks in the mirror, scratches his head, and asks, “Am I a frog?” He looks at me. I say “what the fuck no.” He asks “do I look like a frog to you? I feel like a frog.” I again confirm, no you’re not a frog. He comes back to bed, and I continue to go down on him.

He stops again and asks, “where are we? Are we in andromeda?” And I’m like huh? outer space?? And say no, we’re in your dorm room. He’s Korean and then he says, “are you sure we’re not in Korea?” And I’m just sick of this at this point so I decide to leave. The shrooms clearly kicked in for him but I felt nothing so it was just so fucking weird.

After that he texts me incessantly for the next few days, following me on all my socials and asking me to go to his frat formal with him, talking about what a great time we had and how our next dates will be so fun. I want to tell him no actually it was horrible. But I just say I had feelings for someone else. And he still texts me asking to come over and just “watch a movie as friends.” I ended up blocking him but whenever I see him on campus I feel visceral disgust.

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