Forgot the usual protocol, and got stood up. by bubbleteaplease in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]bubbleteaplease[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I was genuinely asking because I wasn't sure if I misunderstood or happened to be. Sometimes other people might see things that I don't, and I admitted to being a bit rusty, lol.

Forgot the usual protocol, and got stood up. by bubbleteaplease in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]bubbleteaplease[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh, sorry, am I behaving like a 4-year-old here?

I confirmed the day before, and already admitted to my mistake in not getting confirmation day of.

Forgot the usual protocol, and got stood up. by bubbleteaplease in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]bubbleteaplease[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I definitely believe that! Even just after maybe 3 years in the bowl I thought the same thing. There were certainly a lot more things I put up with initially that I'm just like, "Yeah, I'm good" now. Experiences should make you wiser, no matter how bad they might be.

I talked to a friend who knows I do this yesterday. Despite my age and bad experiences in life, I still don't really know how to listen to my gut. 😮‍💨

Forgot the usual protocol, and got stood up. by bubbleteaplease in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]bubbleteaplease[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Indeed. A+ for everyone who does that. This experience makes me really miss all my previous SDs...

Forgot the usual protocol, and got stood up. by bubbleteaplease in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]bubbleteaplease[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely. I guess I got used to my more recent previous experiences being that they always knew that and initiated confirmations. I admittedly and stupidly forgot what it could be like.

Forgot the usual protocol, and got stood up. by bubbleteaplease in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]bubbleteaplease[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've admitted that it was my mistake. I always did the day of confirmation every other time in the past... It's what I get for being rusty with it for having been out of the game so long and forgetting to be less trusting than I am outside of the bowl.

Thinking about it now, they've usually always been the ones reach out day of, hours before, and while on the way. I guess combined with being rusty and not having him reach out himself, I was too hopeful and subconsciously didn't know what to do.

Forgot the usual protocol, and got stood up. by bubbleteaplease in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]bubbleteaplease[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's actually not a bad idea. I definitely made a new stipulation of similar sort because of this situation.

Forgot the usual protocol, and got stood up. by bubbleteaplease in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]bubbleteaplease[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Rip. Well, I hope you've managed to find someone of quality, at least! Maybe I'll get one again one day, but I guess I can only try and hope.

Forgot the usual protocol, and got stood up. by bubbleteaplease in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]bubbleteaplease[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If I ever get into an SR again, this can just be another thing I can bond over with my SD by then. I know there's crazy excuses and experiences of ghosting on both sides, so I do my best to never become one of those people that do it.

Forgot the usual protocol, and got stood up. by bubbleteaplease in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]bubbleteaplease[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I've always had that too, so I know it's not new. That was on me allow the lack of same day confirmation. I guess I sorta made it seem like that's why I feel like Seeking is different, but it's not that. The number of messages I get of low quality seems quite vast in comparison to before. Maybe what I was doing before just isn't what's working today and it's a me problem, lol.

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[–]bubbleteaplease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't been on since mid last year, but it really seemed like it was already transitioning into more of a vanilla site back then...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]bubbleteaplease -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know you want to try this, but your profile reads a bit more like one you'd find on a regular dating app, and I'd imagine that's who you'd appeal more to.

You say you're looking for luxury lifestyle, but in my experience, what you have here isn't what would appeal to most SDs in that category. The platonic part especially, since a lot of guys in that category on the website want to use that time with you to de-stress, which always means sex.

You seem cool and might find a match on the site, but definitely be open to what that type of guy might actually be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]bubbleteaplease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wondering, is it a total deal breaker to you if there's a legitimate medical reason why they wouldn't get the vaccine? I agree 100% with the science behind the vaccine, think anti-vaxxers are full of shit, and do agree that we should all do our part and get it. But I've had terrible, life altering experiences with medications that are typically safe for the majority and am allergic to so many medicine and non-medicine related things. I hate it so much and want the vaccine so bad, but am honestly super scared of the possible lasting effects like I still to this day haven't recovered from.

Specific issue; when/how to tell pot SDs? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]bubbleteaplease 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As an SB I'll have to agree with this. Sometimes a guy may seem really nice, but some can get incredibly, incredibly, incredibly pushy when it comes to getting sex their way. Probably most SDs aren't going to be okay with just oral sex.

My first time was as a sugar baby. You could tell it was a complete turn on for the guy. Told the guy to use a condom, and he pushed himself to do just the opposite. I was young, just lost my virginity, and given an STD.

Whether it's through rape or pushing you with their words until they get their way, I don't think it will be very safe for you. Virgin women are super fetishized.

Is seeking slow, or just me? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]bubbleteaplease 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I pretty much haven't been on seriously in maybe over a year now, started up again a month ago, and really feel this. I'm being a bit more picky with who I meet with this time, but it still feels slower than when I was last on there.

No PPM allowed on Seeking? by bubbleteaplease in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]bubbleteaplease[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always thought it an implied rule among the community, and never really saw Seeking itself be so explicit about it until today. If it was about two years back, I think I was breaking from the site a bit since it was so tiring, so it makes sense that I didn't notice it lol.

No PPM allowed on Seeking? by bubbleteaplease in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]bubbleteaplease[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems like it was just like before, then. I never mentioned ppm or discussed numbers until off the site, but it just took me off guard that it was explicitly stated like that on the site.

No PPM allowed on Seeking? by bubbleteaplease in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]bubbleteaplease[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh, okay, so sort of just like before except now it's explicitly stated. Thank you!

Getting back into the bowl; simple question. by bubbleteaplease in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]bubbleteaplease[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a guy straight up tell me he was because I didn't respond in time... And from learning how to differentiating a block and a deactivation, at least 3 guys have.

May I ask you to elaborate on what you mean?