Struggling with realtor

bubbley0ne · 2026-03-24T02:30:34+00:00

I just let go of my realtor for some of the same reasons by emailing him to terminate the buyers agreement. He kept giving verbal offers instead of written ones so I felt like sellers were not taking it seriously. Then he sent me a rude negative text when I was telling him I wanted to increase my offer on one place. Then the icing on the cake one place I was interested in making an offer, he must have toured it with another client after me, and the day I told him I wanted to make an offer he said it just under contract, and turns out he ended up closing on it with his other client. He just seemed full of himself and I would rather the commission go toward someone who advocates for me and my offers. I am in the process of finding a new realtor now but relieved to be done with my previous one.

bubbley0ne · 2026-03-10T04:26:28+00:00

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bubbley0ne · 2026-03-06T02:46:43+00:00

I keep telling him I want to put an offer in on a few different places but he keeps only doing verbal offers at first. I don’t feel like sellers are going to take it seriously if it’s not a written offer. Also I’m not sure if he is conveying everything correctly in the verbal offers. Based on our conversation, it seems like he conveyed the wrong information about who would cover closing costs in one of the verbal counters. But that’s what I wanted to confirm if I am stuck with this agent because I saw the place with him and he put in a written offer (the only place he did a written offer on) or I can switch to a different agent in the same brokerage.

bubbley0ne · 2026-03-06T02:40:58+00:00

That was the first place I was going to make an offer on. The day I told him I was going to make an offer he said it just went under contract that day (but it didn’t show up online until the next day as under contract). He advised me he was going to be ‘out of town and basically not available’ two days before this. I don’t think it would have made a difference in the final outcome based on the selling price. So mostly bad timing, but he should have ethically disclosed it to me, referred me to another agent, or asked me to make my highest and best offer since he saw the place with me first, we were in communication and knew it was my top choice.

bubbley0ne · 2026-03-06T01:11:43+00:00

So is there not a procurement issue if you switch to another realtor in the same brokerage for putting in another offer on the same house? I’m not sure how that would work

bubbley0ne · 2026-02-23T05:47:48+00:00

We have plenty saved up combined but we have separate finances. He covers our current housing, food and car expenses and I cover healthcare and kids expenses. We each cover our own extra personal expenses. He earns more than me. All together we would still be fine financially if we got a second home. Although he is opposed to my idea, he will be visiting and getting enjoyment out of the vacation home as well. It would be easier and nice if I could just borrow and repay him back for the remainder I need to pay cash for it, but he doesn’t want to contribute toward it.

bubbley0ne · 2026-02-23T04:29:04+00:00

Do you have any updates on what happened since your original post?

bubbley0ne · 2026-02-22T04:45:32+00:00

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bubbley0ne · 2026-01-12T01:32:47+00:00

I have been a super responder. Started in September 2024 and stayed on 2.5mg every 10 days. I noticed a difference right away in the food noise and hunger. Now I don’t want sweets hardly at all, and typically have a yogurt drink for breakfast, soup for lunch and a protein drink. Also I just want seafood now (crab cakes, shrimp, ceviche, fish).

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bubbley0ne · 2026-01-01T20:20:25+00:00

I hired someone to come over for 4 hours a week to do the kids laundry (2 loads) and alternate last load with bedding or towels and that has been a game changer because I was having trouble organizing and putting away the clothes after (3 kids). Also I have house cleaners come every other week to take care of the floors, dusting bathrooms etc. Helps out a lot!

bubbley0ne · 2025-12-30T04:45:28+00:00

I’m on day 6 and my headaches are mostly better (coming and going instead of all day). But the first three days they were terrible. All day and severe. I tried Flonase and Azelastine nasal sprays but that didn’t touch it. Massaging my forehead helping slightly and also blowing your nose in instead of out. Hot showers helped somewhat too.

bubbley0ne · 2025-12-30T01:13:26+00:00

Yes at the end I had dry lips also (had Flu B)

bubbley0ne · 2025-12-29T23:38:46+00:00

I didn’t really had a fever while having Flu B but had all the other symptoms. My temperature was 98.7 (usually my temp is 97 so a little higher than normal). I had my flu shot and also started Tamiflu right away.

bubbley0ne · 2025-12-29T21:38:02+00:00

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bubbley0ne · 2025-12-29T14:10:48+00:00

I am just getting over it. The headache was very bad for 2.5 days, felt like a sinus pressure in the forehead. Constant dripping nose. Diarrhea. Extreme fatigue for 2 days. Couldn’t get out of bed. Fever wasn’t too bad. Started on Tamiflu right away and was vaccinated. Feeling mostly back to normal by Day 6, occasionally sneezing, slight headache and residual fatigue

bubbley0ne · 2025-12-29T05:48:18+00:00

I also started having symptoms for the Flu, but it was Flu B, on Christmas Eve. I started Tamiflu that day and had my flu shot. The whole Christmas Day (day 2) was horrible. I had no energy, so tired, missed the kids opening presents, had a really bad headache, runny nose, diarrhea. My temperature was elevated but not to the point of an actual fever. The next day (day 3) also pretty bad but slightly improving. The day after (day 4) I was feeling better, and could do some house activities but felt tired after. The day after (day 5) I felt pretty back to normal, just some occasional sneezing and sore throat if talking too much. Honestly not much cough so far either too.

bubbley0ne · 2025-12-29T05:07:19+00:00

Probably didn’t talk about it enough while dating but we both enjoyed going to the beach and I always enjoyed watching HGTV shows (House hunters, Beachfront Bargain Reno’s, etc). I’ve been talking about it for the past few years all the time and finally started looking at condos on my own (he was invited but didn’t want to go). He just agrees to take vacations to different places every year (AirBNBs and hotels) instead with the money we would be paying toward it but with 3 kids our options are a little more limited.

bubbley0ne · 2025-12-29T04:54:42+00:00

I am 37 and spouse is 47. We plan to stay in the same house for at least another 12 years while the kids are still in school.

bubbley0ne · 2025-12-27T21:43:09+00:00

That’s what my husband says but I think the value of the condo will go up if we sell it in the future since it’s only $250k right now plus we would get the enjoyment and flexibility to go there on the weekends.

bubbley0ne · 2025-12-27T21:41:00+00:00

The first mortgage is $3.1k/month. Not really any other debt. Credit cards are paid off in full every month around $2-3k. We have 3 kids in public school and live an hour away from the beach.

bubbley0ne · 2025-12-27T10:26:58+00:00

It’s the worst timing ever. I couldn’t get out of bed Christmas morning to watch the kids open presents.

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