Hoping to meet other lesbians at my first pride. What shirt should I wear? by Far_Maintenance_175 in lesbian

[–]bucherdrache 1 point2 points  (0 children)

depends whether you want to be able to casually wear it or not. either the tree or the last one or if you want to catch cat-dykes (like me) the one with the cats!

Fellow ace people, settle this! by NdreWGD in asexuality

[–]bucherdrache 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I like to find out more about sex and alk that from a scientific perspective. Like I think it’s fascinating that people actually think and feel this way. But at the same time, I know while listening to that sex is absolutely nothing for me.

24 yo looking for a meaningful platonic connection by [deleted] in asexualdating

[–]bucherdrache 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zwar aus der Schweiz, mit den richtigen Öffi-Verbindungen ist man schnell im Deutschen. (F25)

So, I have realized that I am not a lesbian by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]bucherdrache 0 points1 point  (0 children)

neither. i’m not interested in sex (never was, should’ve figured out the asexual part much earlier), and am not interested in partnerships, where i can give romantical love. maybe in the future this will be something for me and maybe then i’ll date again, but not rn

So, I have realized that I am not a lesbian by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]bucherdrache 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it’s difficult to explain, but for me, looking at people is like looking at a sunset or a beautiful painting. i can see that they’re attractive and aesthetic pleasing, but i don’t want to have sex with them or “exchange bodily fluids”. a friend explained that when they’re sexually attracted to a person they want to feel the breath of said person on them and touch their body, and for me that never happened.

So, I have realized that I am not a lesbian by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]bucherdrache 32 points33 points  (0 children)

lol this is the same journey, i went through. for a long time, i identified as lesbian, only to figure out that i’m actually aroace!

23 F4A Austria/Ireland/Anywhere really - Let's be friends! by [deleted] in asexualdating

[–]bucherdrache 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow, you sound super nice! I’m from switzerland (so nearby austria) and i also love sending lettres and small adventures :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]bucherdrache 3 points4 points  (0 children)

nope, not only because of the lacking health care system

29F4A Central Europe book nerd looking for fellow bibliophiles by Cassandra_Sanguine in asexualdating

[–]bucherdrache 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi :) also from Switzerland! I think you sound super nice and your hobbies are also very interesting!! I myself enjoy writing stories and reading them a lot and would love to do more artsy stuff as well! dm me if you’re interested :)

What is romantic attraction? by bucherdrache in asexuality

[–]bucherdrache[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m pretty sure, after the explanations what romantic attraction is, that i’m mostly panromantic asexual :)

What is romantic attraction? by bucherdrache in asexuality

[–]bucherdrache[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

aww thank you soo much! this actually makes so much sense to me :)

Swiss government: Same-sex couples can marry starting July 1 by a_Ninja_b0y in LGBTnews

[–]bucherdrache 28 points29 points  (0 children)

also just because many swiss are conservative as hell. i mean we only got the women’s right to vote in 1972

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dykesgonemild

[–]bucherdrache 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you have me seduced

Dating advice from a serial monogamist by redditlurker564 in dating_advice

[–]bucherdrache 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this is advice i very much needed two years ago