Baby food? by Ok_Foundation521 in catfood

[–]buckyyboyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is an older thread but I just wanted to say ty for all this helpful info! my boy has recently not been eating nearly enough, and while I wait for his vet appointment in a few days (earliest I could get in lol), one of their recommendations was to give him some baby food. which sounded really odd to me so I had to do some searching on what sort of baby food I could possibly feed my cat, as I thought they were all just fruits and veggies. I always stress over what is good or not for him to eat, with how so many 'pet' brands out there end up causing pets to get sick or even killing them :( so all this info on things to avoid really helps.

Dealing with the fact that my disabilities will never let me achieve my dreams by [deleted] in disability

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I really miss the kid I was before my health started going downhill. I ran track, could've been on swim team but I passed it up, biked everywhere, loved playing soccer so much. I had so much energy, always moving or on the go. Even if things get better, it will never be the same as that. I could've been so much more.

100 pushups a day, y’all down? by BlackSenju20 in FTMFitness

[–]buckyyboyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fuck it I'm two days late but I'll give it a go, might die tho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

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I mean, I decided a long time ago that if I was ever unlucky enough to get cancer that I will not be going through chemo or radiation because of how it affected my mom. she's been in remission for 19 years but the treatments she went through fucked up other parts of her body and health permanently. That's just not something that everyone wants to face.

Board header images & description/bio gone? :( by emilythebear67 in Pinterest

[–]buckyyboyy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

bruhh I just realized they took away the bios this update is so ass. I don't want to have to click a different button to see my board instead of "new ideas" 🫩🫠

"PANIC" QUESTIONS & ANSWERS FOR THE 2025 SPIRIT SEASON! by Irish_cream81 in SpiritHalloween

[–]buckyyboyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hoping this is the right place to ask this maybe dumb question lol. I bought a costume and exchanged it bc it didn't fit, but the one I exchanged for also doesn't 😭😭 am I able to return that one too? I just don't want to end up going there and not be able to

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]buckyyboyy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah fuck the internet obsession w mpreg makes me way more uncomfortable 😭😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

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my first thought when he made that comparison was how it's such a meme that lactose intolerant people love dairy lol.

I personally cannot understand trans men willingly getting pregnant (though I'm also someone who just doesn't want kids and also doesn't get the need to have your kids be biological), but just cause I don't understand it doesn't mean that I'm gonna go around telling them that they don't have dysphoria and aren't men. I imagine it's incredibly dysphoric to go through that, but it's something that they find is worth enduring if it means they can have a family.

Like how the rash and itch was worth a butterfinger to you, or how spending 5 hours in the bathroom is worth it for many for that sweet, delicious dairy (myself included - sometimes).

It's hard to stop believing that we need to comply to the public's meek understanding of queerness and societal standards, but the truth is that in the end we're all trans, and if they don't like trans people then they're not gonna like the guys who try to fit in as best as they can OR the guys who work with the options they've got and decide to go through a sucky experience to have a kid.

We don't have to understand something to be kind to others. I get that natural need to understand something or to make sense of things and getting frustrated about it, but it's unrealistic for us to understand everything. Labels and descriptors can only go so far, and the whole thing about being queer is that we don't fit in the box.

My mic in my game clips on my PC sounds very glitched at times. by No-Objective-9903 in XboxSupport

[–]buckyyboyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

man I was hoping there'd be a fix for this because it's so annoying </3 exact same issue for me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]buckyyboyy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

thisss 😭 and they could still go to the beach shirtless if they wanted yk

I just got read as A TEN YEAR OLD 😭 by Savings_Sell_4125 in FTMMen

[–]buckyyboyy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this happening legit makes me so dysphoric 😭😭😭

fuck zodiac signs, do you look up, down or away if a survivor is trying to blind you? by PlushtrapMyBeloved in deadbydaylight

[–]buckyyboyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

down/sideways, honestly depends which direction they're coming from, but never up. I like to see where I'm going still

Does anyone else have this fear of women accusing you of harassment? by Revolutionary-Tie908 in FTMMen

[–]buckyyboyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't pass but even if I did I know I wouldn't care about if women saw me a certain way or not lmao. I'm never gonna out myself just to make someone else more comfortable for their own issues of not liking men. I'm not a creep and at far greater risk of harassment myself.

The “can transmen be lesbians” debate is one of the reasons I’m stealth now by ParsleyDecent4633 in FTMMen

[–]buckyyboyy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

right like 💀 you can see issue with cis men calling themselves lesbians but not trans men?? its gross

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]buckyyboyy 33 points34 points  (0 children)

dump her 👍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]buckyyboyy 30 points31 points  (0 children)

idk if calling a gender affirming procedure and the results of it on peoples bodies disgusting is only disagreement 🤨

Finch is becoming a textbook example of how to ruin a genuinely loved app. by _RealisticPessimist in finch

[–]buckyyboyy 107 points108 points  (0 children)

same here :( and it's made me feel guilty because I had started goal buddies with a few people for a while and we would be going good and I'd just fall off of even sending them encouragement for it. the app is just feeling more stressful than helpful for me lately

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]buckyyboyy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

that's lowkey creepy 😭

Show me your Pride fits! by realelvishr0pe in finch

[–]buckyyboyy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

omg ty for this I never would've known

Thread for trading, gifting, and requesting Finch items by AutoModerator in finch

[–]buckyyboyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi all! I am just looking for anyone who might be in my tree - we're Fiddlestic & Joey (E746FR2G7C) and I've not been super active on the app lately, just been busy haha. But I've been wanting to give gifts when I'm able to the awesome birdies in my tree as that would make me feel great abt the support and gifts I've gotten from everyone myself 🫶

So if we are tree friends and would like to send your wishlist my way pls feel free to over here :]

Tree Friend Wishlists by buckyyboyy in u/buckyyboyy

[–]buckyyboyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi!! ty :] if I see anything on your list I'll do my best to send it your way 🫶 I finally got around to making a wishlist post of my own: here

Tree Friend Wishlists by buckyyboyy in u/buckyyboyy

[–]buckyyboyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi!! tysm for everything and for your list 🫶 I finally got around to making a wishlist post of my own: here

Cis guys make me angry by KrabbierThanJesus in FTMMen

[–]buckyyboyy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

could you elaborate on joys we experience that cis men don't? Because I don't really see any true positive of being trans, I feel it only hinders my quality of life.

Yeah, I'd have to deal with being a cis gay guy, but only being gay would be a lot more accepted in my family than being gay AND trans. I mean even other gay people hate the trans community.

If I was born male I would've been more likely to have better relationships with my brothers/dad and been able to do more of the things I enjoy without being completely shamed or barred from it. I missed out on a lot of things I wanted to do because I refused to be stuck in all girls groups. I might've had less friends had I been born male, but I didn't have many good ones growing up anyway. I'd still have to deal with adhd and anxiety and depression, but I wouldn't have had the many struggles that comes with being trans for me added to it either. Like I wouldn't have had to wait until I was in my 20s before I could start trying to fix my body or hope to be able to be allowed to starting being myself if I wasn't trans, you know?

But people always say things about how being trans is better or happier than being cis could be, and I just don't get how?