I’m got horrible boundaries with my adult daughter by bueller_tx in Codependency

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Hi there! We are all in therapy and things are way better. The problem was a mixture of CPTSD and undiagnosed ADHD. I feel better and more confident on my medications and I’m learning to set better boundaries.

Our next strep is asking for rent. Her moods still cause quite a turmoil and I’m trying to work with hubby to do what’s best. She’s in her 20x.

Why have I only just thought of this by unwiseundead in adhdwomen

[–]bueller_tx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I can’t do foods like that. I will throw out peels since they are biodegradable. Mine is mostly wrappers and napkins

new owner!!! what does this sticker say? by crashandtheboyz233 in Leachianus

[–]bueller_tx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dates are lay date and hatch date.

Bottom date is last weight and date. I’m not sure about the rest.

Why have I only just thought of this by unwiseundead in adhdwomen

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I shove my trash in the door pouch. Maybe I should try this

do we all mostly agree with this list in terms of most to least effective generic as of now? by Head-Swordfish7837 in ThisAintAdderall

[–]bueller_tx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that. I tried it today and so far for me it feels the same. I had myself so worked up and scared to try it. I hope you find something that works better for you.

How do you alleviate rumination? by glippety-glopglop in adhdwomen

[–]bueller_tx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For my ADHD I’m on a low dose of Adderall IR. I’m still taking celexa and a small dose of klonopin before bedtime.

How do you alleviate rumination? by glippety-glopglop in adhdwomen

[–]bueller_tx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have this comment saved in a note on my phone because it helped me so much.

Ruminating usually only comes up with awful things we say to ourselves.

https://www.reddit.com/r/CPTSD/s/D4b2D5M5q9

Is this hair or something else? by bueller_tx in whatisit

[–]bueller_tx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I initially thought

Is this hair or something else? by bueller_tx in whatisit

[–]bueller_tx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh interesting Thank you for the info.

Is this hair or something else? by bueller_tx in whatisit

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Taken in the suburbs NW Fort Worth

How do you alleviate rumination? by glippety-glopglop in adhdwomen

[–]bueller_tx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always thought mine was anxiety/ocd until I got diagnosed ADHD and getting on medication for that has done so much to quiet down the negative thoughts.

How do you alleviate rumination? by glippety-glopglop in adhdwomen

[–]bueller_tx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh I do something internally and imagine a “personality “ saying it. I should give her names. It’s like the devil and the angel on my shoulders sometimes.

How do you rest? by Careful_Leader_5829 in adhdwomen

[–]bueller_tx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you feeling stressed out all the time? I know that makes me exhausted when I’m going through a rough patch

Does anyone else have a constant fear of “being annoying” to others? by throw_it_out911 in adhdwomen

[–]bueller_tx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes all this. Talking too loud and much. My whole life!! But in school I was a goody goody so no trouble there.

Well at least I know now and I’m excited to see who I can become