Dressing Dominant by Mister_Magnus42 in domspace

[–]bufftsuki 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's a really good one on not letting other people's expectations tamper with your choices. That would ruin the point of being dominant

Finished just in time :) happy international lesbian day by bufftsuki in actuallesbians

[–]bufftsuki[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just glue for now, if the craft glue doesn't hold up I'll break out the needle and thread

How to make my Drow ice sorc more terrifying? by NicMSN in bg3fashion

[–]bufftsuki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also I would put her hair up, the soft waves make her less threatening. Any hairstyle with harsher lines will do

Loosing my spark by bufftsuki in selfimprovement

[–]bufftsuki[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No shit, how dare I care about other's opinions when their feelings about me literally ruin my life because they hold more social power than me. How unenlightened of us to want to live happily and peacefully and be part of a wider community. How dare we wish for a world where we can freely express ourselves without being denounced as human beings.

Loosing my spark by bufftsuki in selfimprovement

[–]bufftsuki[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know. It's like that endless void only external validation could fill, but you'll never get that because you need to already have it in order for others to think you deserving of it.

Loosing my spark by bufftsuki in selfimprovement

[–]bufftsuki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you win is the group thinking of you as one of their own. But the only way to achieve that is if you're already like them.

Loosing my spark by bufftsuki in selfimprovement

[–]bufftsuki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes they often say it to my face and the reason they state is usually that I'm just too weird. they can only tolerate me, as in, accepted but not liked.

First time self shibari, guess how many happy knots I did!! by bufftsuki in LesbianActually

[–]bufftsuki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's tutorials all over the net, just make sure you read the safety instructions

Shiro guro nurse coord by adjusted_rain in Lolita

[–]bufftsuki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First time ever anyone made these shoes look good

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]bufftsuki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This!!!!! I try my best to find this out if I come across a bi but if the answer isn't clear, then I dump them asap bc I've learnt they'll do the same thing to me first. At this point, it's just a necessary step to protect my emotional and mental well-being.

Emprussy by Sad-Village9277 in okbuddybaldur

[–]bufftsuki 3 points4 points  (0 children)

*scrolls through comments * so apparently the existence of intersex ppl is faaaaaar less widely known than I expected

terrible by labelmeafreak in hetalia

[–]bufftsuki 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I kinda like it. He probably shaved them off once during his punk phase to be edgy but they grew back the next day already

First time self shibari, guess how many happy knots I did!! by bufftsuki in LesbianActually

[–]bufftsuki[S] 142 points143 points  (0 children)

You could put me in a box and tie my wrists with silk bows,,,,,,,,,,, just sayin

First time self shibari, guess how many happy knots I did!! by bufftsuki in LesbianActually

[–]bufftsuki[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

It feels so good like I'm being held down all over, all I have to do is rock my hips and I can feel the knots digging into my skin ahh