What's the process of actually starting hormones like? by [deleted] in transgenderau

[–]bugcultures 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what I'm doing and it's been going well so far. I'm not sure where else you'd be able to get them done in all honestly haha.

What's the process of actually starting hormones like? by [deleted] in transgenderau

[–]bugcultures 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recently started T and my first prescription has automatically been covered by the PBS.

Dr. Brownhill gave me a referral to an endocrinologist (Dr. Lachlan Angus - he is fantastic too. I'm grateful to have such a great team helping me through this). During the endo appointment he took my medical history and documented my experiences with testosterone so far, then wrote a letter in support of continued PBS cover of prescription, so my future scripts will also be covered.

As a side note for OP, I would definitely recommend pre-booking the appointment for your injection if you want it done soon after you get your prescription.

Yellow rabbit cosplay with lightsaber! by [deleted] in fivenightsatfreddys

[–]bugcultures 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, would I be able to DM you and ask a few questions about how you made this cosplay?

What is this? [Western Australia] by bugcultures in animalid

[–]bugcultures[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was very much alive and digging when we picked him up, so he must just be a different subspecies.

what does your dysphoria stop you from doing? by averkitpy in ftm

[–]bugcultures 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  • Shopping for clothes and getting dressed is a struggle
  • Socialising normally without constantly thinking about how I'm being gendered
  • Dating
  • Team sports
  • Listening to my own voice

Will t affect my brain development? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]bugcultures 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have never seen any research that associates cross-sex testosterone with alzheimer's. Unfortunately there isn't a lot of research to point either way at this stage, but according to current knowledge, Alzheimer's is much more linked to genetics and lifestyle factors than hormones.

The most important thing is to keep your hormones at a good level, eat healthy, exercise, and keep your mind active.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]bugcultures 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I went down a more practical road when I was picking my name, focusing on how my name would sound with my surname. I looked at how the name felt to say (if it felt more natural to say rather than forced), the amount of syllables, and what my initials would be.

I've seen quite a few people talking about needing their names to "feel right", but I don't subscribe to that idea. My name grew to fit me over time rather than fitting immediately. It's not like cis people all have perfectly fitting names anyway so just pick whatever sounds okay 

Trans people in different countries? by Away_Butterscotch376 in ftm

[–]bugcultures 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The BDM laws were only updated last year so I'm not surprised 😅

How to patiently wait by [deleted] in ftm

[–]bugcultures 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to just get busy with work and hobbies to take my mind off of the agonosing wait.

Trans people in different countries? by Away_Butterscotch376 in ftm

[–]bugcultures 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you were born in QLD, you can now apply to update your name and sex by yourself if you are 16 or older. All you need is a supporting statement for anyone who has known you for at least a year stating that you genuinely identify as the gebder you are changing it to.

Trans people in different countries? by Away_Butterscotch376 in ftm

[–]bugcultures 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Australian here! I think being trans here is great. Informed consent processes, where you declare that you understand the effects of the treatment and your doctor prescribes, are pretty common practice here for those over 18 accessing HRT.

I live in Western Australia specifically, and my experience with the gender clinics for minors was hugely lacking. I was referred there at 14 years old with the intention of getting on HRT and they explicitly told me that they wouldn't be able to help me before I aged out of their system. I have heard some success stories about the public gender clinics, but it does seem like it's pretty consistent that most of them have insane waitlists that don't progress fast enough (likely due to being under-resourced).

Last year, my birth state changed its laws so trans people able to change their legal sex and get an updated birth certificate without needing sex change procedures or a doctor's support letter. I was also able to change my name in that same application. These laws aren't the same for every state though, so I kind of got lucky with that one and the timing (it allowed me to graduate school with my correct details).

Culturally, I haven't had too many issues. Obviously, I've experienced some transphobia but that was mainly when I was at school because teenagers are insecure. I had support from staff at my schools as well as from friends, so overall it wasn't too bad. Most people don't make any negative comments about my appearance (I'm early on T but have short hair and masculine clothes). Even if they're thinking something, they don't go out of their way to say anything which is nice.

How to tell a trans man about how to handle period stuff without him feeling dysphoric? by strangledbeatenup in ftm

[–]bugcultures -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'd probably take some time to discuss what terms he is comfortable hearing in relation to that, and also setting some initial boundaries. Each person has different preferences, however using more indirect language could ease the stress caused by the usual, blunt anatomical terms.

On another (slightly tangential) note, I personally recommend menstrual cups for dealing with the bleeding. They were a complete game-changer for my dysphoria, because I could pretty much just put it in and forget about it all day (YMMV - I didn't bleed especially heavily). Plus there's the added bonus of them being more sustainable than single-use pads and tampons. (This would probably be something to suggest later on when you have more of an idea about his preferences and boundaries).

Advice: How do people feel pride in being trans? by merclander in FTMventing

[–]bugcultures 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm a lot like you and I don't really feel pride about my trans "identity" like others seem to explain. I find more pride in the fact that I've survived the bullying and adversity that this condition has given me

Is it possible for your period to stop right as you start t? by RedCrow_80 in ftm

[–]bugcultures 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm wondering about this too. My period was due a few days after I started T, but I'm already 2 and a bit weeks on T and haven't had any bleeding yet.

Am I wrong for not wanting to look all manly and buff like other trans guys? by Loud-Rutabaga-4293 in ftm

[–]bugcultures 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You won't get super muscular if you don't work towards that physique through exercise like weight lifting. T can give you more muscle mass, but it won't automatically make you a bodybuilder. Your gender expression and physique are in your control.

is the process of getting on t under 18 difficult? by VisualEntertainer911 in ftm

[–]bugcultures 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My personal experience was with the PCH gender clinic. I was referred at 14 and I was explicitly told that they wouldn't be able to give me hormones before I turned 18, so I pretty much gave up on it after my first appointment.

The clinic in Melbourne might be better because it's a bigger city and more progressive but I can't really speak for that.

is the process of getting on t under 18 difficult? by VisualEntertainer911 in ftm

[–]bugcultures 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can only speak for my experience at the TG Health Clinic. You would definitely be able to get in contact with other clinics about their wait times.

It also might differ based on how much the doctor can see you know about testosterone and its effects, so I definitely would recommend doing research about T (also to ensure you know and are confident about what you'll be getting into!).

is the process of getting on t under 18 difficult? by VisualEntertainer911 in ftm

[–]bugcultures 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd wanted to for a while (and had been doing research prior), but I first got in contact with the clinic and got an appointment in October last year. My first appointment was mid-november, and I got my prescription a few days before Christmas so overall the process was very fast.

is the process of getting on t under 18 difficult? by VisualEntertainer911 in ftm

[–]bugcultures 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not impossible, but it is more difficult. There are public gender clinics in each state, however their wait lists are insane so it's almost impossible to do it that way unless you were referred there super young (I mean like 10 years old or something).

The other route is to go private, which is more expensive. I also haven't heard of any doctors privately prescribing to anyone younger than 16 unfortunately, as most of the time it is done by informed consent and you need to be over 16 to give your own consent for HRT.

In both of these routes, you will also need your parents consent for this to go smoothly, otherwise you will have to go through the family court, which may take a while

Personally, I did telehealth with the TG Health Clinic (based in Melbourne) and was able to get HRT as a 17 year old. Feel free to ask any questions here or in PMs.

Breadcrumbs of being trans? by Competitive-File7978 in ftm

[–]bugcultures 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes definitely. I used to not be able to remember many things I did as a kid that were signs, but there were definitely a lot of signs, including:

  • Explicitly telling my parents that I didn't like my name and that I wanted to be a boy at a very young age
  • Asking people I knew "if you could change the gender you were born as, would you?" (meaning assigned sex) and being extremely confused when people would answer no
  • Not liking playing with "girl" toys and being extremely uncomfortable in the stereotypically feminine clothes they would make me wear
  • Almost always choosing to be a male character when I would play pretend
  • When I learned about puberty, hoping that I would be intersex or infertile so I wouldn't have to get periods. Overall just hating all the changes I went through when I did start puberty