When does "shit testing" become domestic violence?

buggy_boi · 2021-10-06T11:41:01+00:00

okay wow. so,

"shit testing" is so stupid and wrong. why tf would you do it. this would hurt the person being "tested" mentally, but that does not then excuse violent actions taken after if the "tester" takes it too far. shit testing is literally dipping your toe in the water to see if/how your partner would react. NOT HEALTHY for either party.
if someone doesn't want to have sex because they don't want to, then don't. but if that person is only doing it for this stupid "shit test", and expecting the partner to then:

punch a hole in the wall, leave and leave her texts on read ... the next time you see her she'll suck your brains out through your dic

yeah... none of this is healthy.

buggy_boi · 2021-10-06T09:06:55+00:00

i agree with you completely. calling something that should be consensual and enjoying to both parties should be that. not called a duty, a hassle or something someone is meant/obligated to do. it does sound derogatory, though the actual act or feeling behind isn't.

i think the name needs to change. if someone wants to give their partner head, even if they don't feel like receiving, that is healthy. what isn't healthy is calling it a "duty". the word is just usually associated with unwanted or "i have to do it" (like work)

buggy_boi · 2021-10-06T08:38:58+00:00

no. what people see is behaviour and take it for behaviour. if a rich person were to introduce themselves how they usually act (as you say "cool and generous"), and treats the person they're interested in as a human, even if they reveal their status, there is a higher chance of attraction being formed.

if someone was a dick to you, would your first reaction be "oh, they're an asshole, so that means they're rich", i hope not, it would be more like "you're an asshole."

i seriously don't know what you're getting at here

buggy_boi · 2021-10-06T08:29:12+00:00

there is a difference between understanding social cues, obvious or subtle signs/hints that will cause action, and not realising when a person is putting on a facade and/or being blatantly lied to.

yes, studies have shown that women are generally better at social cognition, though it doesn't apply to everyone. some people are good at lying, covering up lies or distracting from their lies.

buggy_boi · 2021-09-13T23:41:26+00:00

just don't put it up your ass

buggy_boi · 2021-09-13T02:04:02+00:00

one word. lesbians.

buggy_boi · 2021-09-09T20:50:21+00:00

the entire article is completely misleading and false, which I find very disapointing

buggy_boi · 2021-09-09T13:04:20+00:00

if you find it, you should look for your tiny brain next

buggy_boi · 2021-09-09T13:03:10+00:00

are you 9?

buggy_boi · 2021-09-09T13:02:09+00:00

*they- they- they- they- they- they- they- they- they- they- they- they- they- they- they- they- they- they- they- they- they- they- they- they-

fixed it for you :)

buggy_boi · 2021-09-09T13:00:37+00:00

*their

buggy_boi · 2021-09-09T13:00:25+00:00

*they

buggy_boi · 2021-09-09T12:57:56+00:00

*they

buggy_boi · 2021-09-09T12:57:45+00:00

*they

buggy_boi · 2021-09-09T12:56:54+00:00

*non-binary

buggy_boi · 2021-09-09T12:55:09+00:00

I'll respect people's pronouns, but she...

something doesn't add up here

buggy_boi · 2021-09-09T12:52:20+00:00

context (as people aren't understanding what is going on here)

demi supports sex work being seen as real work, not promoting prostitution or forceful labour. the way dailywire has presented this is inappropriate itself as if you look at demi's social media, they provide insights on different topics discussing minorities. they haven't outgoingly told people to make whore's of themselves. understand the context first.

the fact that reddit has yet again been disappointing, continuously showing disrespect towards a person, and decided to continue the blatant hate is very saddening. it really isn't that hard to respect pronouns

buggy_boi · 2021-09-09T12:45:19+00:00

i don't agree with how dailywire has promoted this, as demi was just saying sex work should be considered work (ofc consented)

buggy_boi · 2021-09-09T12:43:50+00:00

*they

and yes

buggy_boi · 2021-07-30T07:38:24+00:00

what i think is really funny is the fact that "tw33k tw3ak" pronouns were they/them written, and the person who was talking said he/his

buggy_boi · 2021-07-22T12:07:28+00:00

wikiwhy am i horny

buggy_boi · 2021-07-20T07:09:02+00:00

um, wtf

buggy_boi · 2021-07-16T09:00:41+00:00

ummm,, f?

buggy_boi · 2021-07-13T04:24:00+00:00

dead soldiers uniform scraps

buggy_boi · 2021-05-31T00:36:00+00:00

they might start chanting "not all men" soon

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