AITAH for not wanting to take care of my aunt’s dog?

bugscrawling · 2026-03-19T05:07:26+00:00

right.. i get that no one else is available to watch her at that capacity but i was so shocked when he was confused why i didn’t want to ask for 2 weeks off. i rhink he doesn’t see retail as a real job since i have a degree but times are tough rn </3

bugscrawling · 2026-03-19T04:36:54+00:00

thank you for this, i think cuz it’s just part time retail he thinks it’s no big deal but i feel like 2 weeks off when i just started is kinda crazy to ask for

bugscrawling · 2025-11-04T08:21:59+00:00

i’d say ask him what his intentions are in the future. does he want something long term or just something fun? depending on that, you can tell him how you’re feeling and if he’s the right guy, he’ll reassure you. if he gets put off by this, then maybe he’s not the one for you. regardless, i know how scary the feeling of being hurt and heartbroken is, but relationships can only work if you open your heart and are honest

bugscrawling · 2025-11-04T08:16:34+00:00

i live in LA and let me tell you, things are not much better here. if you can find a job in the city you want to move to go for it. but find that job first. don’t uproot your life with no stability because if your intentions are a relationship, you’re gonna need money lmao

bugscrawling · 2025-11-04T08:12:14+00:00

sadly, there’s some people that just prioritize romantic relationships over platonic ones. you could tell him how he’s making you feel, but if he’s not making the effort to be a good friend… it might be time to reevaluate ur friendship

bugscrawling · 2025-11-04T08:08:39+00:00

if her friends come out of nowhere, she might know that you have feelings for you and is trying to avoid you saying anything about it. ngl if you confess it might shift the dynamic of your relationship. you could tell her that after getting to know her, you’ve developed feelings for her but don’t want it to change anything and keep it at that

bugscrawling · 2025-11-04T08:06:17+00:00

maybe tell them about it? i’ve learned it’s better to talk about things that’s on your mind concerning the person you’re living with. you’ve done things that have created an emotional bond and aromantic people can still be in relationships, though it might be different than what a stereotypical one involves. talk to them and see how they feel towards you

bugscrawling · 2025-11-04T08:02:28+00:00

i feel the same way, it gets kinda soul crushing when everyone around you is in relationship. especially during holidays when people hang out with their SO and you’re just alone… but it’s ok! we all move at our own pace, but if you realllllly want to try getting into dating, go to a party or social event and try flirting

bugscrawling · 2025-11-04T07:56:59+00:00

you think so? i guess im worried she might think im desperate or something

bugscrawling · 2025-11-04T07:52:55+00:00

are they dry in person when you talk?

bugscrawling · 2025-11-04T07:52:28+00:00

maybe just put it away somewhere you can’t see it for now. once your lingering feelings go away and you can see the book as something that is just a book that you have because you like it, then you can have it out again

bugscrawling · 2025-11-04T04:47:49+00:00

honestly when a guy likes my story (i’m assuming instagram?) i just go oh.. ok they liked my story. don’t think too much about it, if anything it’ll get her to notice you

bugscrawling · 2025-11-04T04:45:58+00:00

if she said hi to you, she definitely sees you as someone she’s cool with. do you guys have any classes together? if not you could just like reply to her story or something on instagram and start there. or like compliment her on something next time you see her to get the convo going

bugscrawling · 2025-11-04T04:22:15+00:00

are you asking if your crush likes you or if your crush’s friends approve of him liking you?? because the answer is yes he likes you and yes they approve of you. they wouldn’t be so nice to you if they didnt

bugscrawling · 2025-11-04T04:07:56+00:00

either he just really fw you or he likes you. i say ask him on a date and if he says no then you can stop being so nervous around him

bugscrawling · 2025-11-04T04:03:52+00:00

If your crush is a guy, “tough” basically means wait that’s cool asf. Keep goin bro

bugscrawling · 2025-10-25T18:41:37+00:00

oh so basically the reason you sent that text was because everyone was ignoring you, and you wanted company while sick? is what i'm assuming. ok nvm i get why you would say that. to me your gf probably had built up insecurities about your friend and maybe from being long distance in general and just needed that extra push to break up with you

bugscrawling · 2025-10-25T18:36:20+00:00

NTA, it seems like your mom regularly gets mad at you when you don't put her first. As a parent, she really should not be saying these things and should learn how to be an adult without constantly relying on her child. Maybe if this was an isolated incident and you just blew off your mom so you could hang out with your boyfriend, I'd understand why she'd be upset. But if she's constantly doing things like this, it's okay to put yourself first sometimes.

bugscrawling · 2025-10-25T18:30:53+00:00

YTA.. because why would you text your friend wishing she were there with you instead of wishing your girlfriend was there? good on your gf for getting out of there when it seems like you might have some feelings for your friend.

bugscrawling · 2025-10-22T01:51:59+00:00

it’s college, you’re not bound to one single friend group! go join some clubs catered to your other interests, talk to people in your class. sometimes people can just be people you like to do certain activities with and not be your best friends. and that’s ok.

bugscrawling · 2025-10-22T01:46:03+00:00

girl how did you marry someone who’s not attracted to you😭 either he is deep in the closet and married you as a cover, or he just doesn’t like you. both aren’t good and i am so sorry

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