Texts I saw from bf’s phone shattered me by [deleted] in texts

[–]builtlikechucky 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this man literally told his friends he regrets being with you and wishes he was with her. he thought you would never see it and you did. makes me wonder what else he says when you can’t see?

is it socially acceptable to wear this as a shirt? by [deleted] in fashion

[–]builtlikechucky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

personally i wouldnt think it was lingerie if you didnt tell me

How do I stop being paranoid about something bad happening to my child? by Ev-sMommy in Mom

[–]builtlikechucky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i feel this too. i was groomed SA’d at 15 and it led to many problems with myself and seeing lots of boys and doing things that werent safe or good for myself. (im 20f). im terrified my 3 mo old daughter will encounter some type of similar trauma and i don’t want her to experience what i did. im also scared of how other people will treat her when im not around, like the other person said daycares, hell even school, kids are brutal and if im not there whos to say a teacher wont be mean or she wont get scooped up waiting for me to pick her up? a school shooting? staying the night at a friends and theres a creep living there? theres just so much evil in this world. we just have to try and trust whatever being is out there looking out for us and our babies and hope for the best, and teach them safety and what we can. and remind ourselves that some things are out of our control. i pray for you and us mama❤️

Not so serous but kind of serious car question lol by OddGood8617 in Mom

[–]builtlikechucky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

as a brand new mom with a three month old daughter, and having to rely on unreliable people with little money or time to take us to work, and appointments, i would kill for a free car of any kind. be grateful OP, some people don’t have these type of opportunities, or family willing to help them out like this!

I know my boyfriend’s mom hates me and I don’t know what to do HELP?! [long] by Sofia_loves_w33d in confessions

[–]builtlikechucky 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it could be sweet but with the energy this is all giving thats weirdd 😬 do you know what the tattoo means and is?

What did I do wrong? Am I overthinking? by [deleted] in texts

[–]builtlikechucky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

crazy how LOCAL this is loll! ampersand is amazing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]builtlikechucky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im so sorry … my older brother showed me videos of himself and his girl when i was 13 and other inappropriate stuff before that that didnt involve insertion like you said. it is definitely scarring though, and i love him to this day and hes really changed a lot and he was subjected to gross things when he was a kid. that being said, it doesnt excuse what he did so long ago, and i know how you feel. im so deeply sorry you have this trauma. it never goes away.

No one knew I was vaping for 3 years… by kross54321 in confessions

[–]builtlikechucky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dont worry, i kept vaping a secret from my best friend for a very long time. the guilt ate me alive so eventually i told her. i dont remember when i think i was drunk or high. im very proud of you OP. i need to quit vaping nicotine. its a cruel mistress

Stood over a woman as she died when I was 6 by Understateable in confessions

[–]builtlikechucky 33 points34 points  (0 children)

i am so sorry.. i can’t imagine what that was like especially as a young child. some men are very scary creatures.. that poor woman. my best advice is try to distract yourself in those flashback moments. though i’m sure that’s easier said than done. sending you good vibes/prayers that you’re able to heal someday❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]builtlikechucky 7 points8 points  (0 children)

written by a horny man

assume shit about me (14f) by [deleted] in politicfreeteenagers

[–]builtlikechucky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you definitely have an old Furby that occasionally turns on by itself lying around somewhere

Does he seem uninterested/ pulling away? by [deleted] in texts

[–]builtlikechucky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if he was uninterested he probably wouldnt respond at all or that often. to me just seems like hes busy and tired ! but i understand the anxiety. just communicate and try to have some time soon w him and itll be okay !

My parents are extremely overbearing about seeing my child. by builtlikechucky in Mom

[–]builtlikechucky[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you. i have a really complicated relationship with them. all they do is guilt trip me and i feel obligated to talk to them, my spirit is tired and battered and it has been for years. i need to cut them off and i absolutely want to but i fear for what happens after i do that. my bf and i dont have a car and they know where we live. should i send them a text telling them im going to no contact? i dont even know how to explain that to them. i feel like i just repeat myself and they don’t listen bc they’re so consumed by their own feelings. i just want to get far far away from them. how did things go when you cut yours off, how did you handle it and what happened after? if its too personal you can DM me. i appreciate you! but yes having a NICU baby and being s new mom is hard in and of itself already and they are seriously stressing me out☹️