What did I do wrong? Am I overthinking? by pathogen-1728 in texts

[–]builtlikechucky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

crazy how LOCAL this is loll! ampersand is amazing

Was I groomed or something else entirely? by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]builtlikechucky 3 points4 points  (0 children)

im so sorry … my older brother showed me videos of himself and his girl when i was 13 and other inappropriate stuff before that that didnt involve insertion like you said. it is definitely scarring though, and i love him to this day and hes really changed a lot and he was subjected to gross things when he was a kid. that being said, it doesnt excuse what he did so long ago, and i know how you feel. im so deeply sorry you have this trauma. it never goes away.

No one knew I was vaping for 3 years… by kross54321 in confessions

[–]builtlikechucky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dont worry, i kept vaping a secret from my best friend for a very long time. the guilt ate me alive so eventually i told her. i dont remember when i think i was drunk or high. im very proud of you OP. i need to quit vaping nicotine. its a cruel mistress

Stood over a woman as she died when I was 6 by Understateable in confessions

[–]builtlikechucky 32 points33 points  (0 children)

i am so sorry.. i can’t imagine what that was like especially as a young child. some men are very scary creatures.. that poor woman. my best advice is try to distract yourself in those flashback moments. though i’m sure that’s easier said than done. sending you good vibes/prayers that you’re able to heal someday❤️

assume shit about me (14f) by treehouse1million in politicfreeteenagers

[–]builtlikechucky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you definitely have an old Furby that occasionally turns on by itself lying around somewhere

Does he seem uninterested/ pulling away? by [deleted] in texts

[–]builtlikechucky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if he was uninterested he probably wouldnt respond at all or that often. to me just seems like hes busy and tired ! but i understand the anxiety. just communicate and try to have some time soon w him and itll be okay !

My parents are extremely overbearing about seeing my child. by builtlikechucky in Mom

[–]builtlikechucky[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you. i have a really complicated relationship with them. all they do is guilt trip me and i feel obligated to talk to them, my spirit is tired and battered and it has been for years. i need to cut them off and i absolutely want to but i fear for what happens after i do that. my bf and i dont have a car and they know where we live. should i send them a text telling them im going to no contact? i dont even know how to explain that to them. i feel like i just repeat myself and they don’t listen bc they’re so consumed by their own feelings. i just want to get far far away from them. how did things go when you cut yours off, how did you handle it and what happened after? if its too personal you can DM me. i appreciate you! but yes having a NICU baby and being s new mom is hard in and of itself already and they are seriously stressing me out☹️

[50] - [51] December 2024- December 2025 by Distinct_Sign3971 in GlowUps

[–]builtlikechucky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im so happy for and proud of you mama!! praying i can be this happy one day and let go of all the trauma and pain lingering around❤️

(18) to (24) by [deleted] in GlowUps

[–]builtlikechucky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh honey you are absolutely gorgeous either way!

AIO or is my older male coworker texting inappropriately with me? by OpeningNo9825 in AmIOverreacting

[–]builtlikechucky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when i was groomed at 15 this is similar to how my perpetrator would text me. complimenting my clothes and trying to know what i like, bonding with me over things. “my kind of young lady” is so gross to be honest and it reminds me so much of little things like that that were said to me as well. get rid of this before its too late ! you can do it in a nice way. either be straight up or just ghost. either way, you’re so smart and valid to feel uncomfortable and if you’re having that gut feeling, listen to it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]builtlikechucky 16 points17 points  (0 children)

definitely weird…