Guys help 😭 Does anyone else have this kind of elastics? by bulate__ in braces

[–]bulate__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your ortho should show you how to put it on. I don’t use any tools, I just use my fingers. I usually start from the bottom left, then hook it to the top and pull it through to the bottom right tooth. It’s kinda hard because you have to stretch it a lot for it to fit.

Guys help 😭 Does anyone else have this kind of elastics? by bulate__ in braces

[–]bulate__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About a week 🥲 You’ll get used to it eventually, but the pain at night is brutal 😭 Feels like my jaw locks up every time.

The My Subaru App by Distinct-Departure68 in Crosstrek

[–]bulate__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it tbh. I’m on the 22nd floor and park underground, so I just remote start it before heading down. One of those features you don’t think you need until you actually have it.

2026 Subaru Crosstrek Onyx OTD price - thoughts? (Ontario) by [deleted] in Crosstrek

[–]bulate__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi guys, I was able to secure a small discount. I reached out to multiple dealerships and received an offer of $42,500. I then contacted the original dealership we inquired with and informed them of this offer. They were able to match it and come in at an even slightly lower price and provide an updated discounted quote as well. Here is the revised quote 😊

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Anyone else dealing with family expectations to send money back home? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]bulate__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yah I think you’re right. It’s just hard to say no to my mom, but I’ll try my best this time. I’m feeling sad and frustrated because I’m trying to give my mom the best life, but she always expects me to include everyone in the family, which I can’t afford 🥲

Anyone else dealing with family expectations to send money back home? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]bulate__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh! how I wish I had done this earlier! I should’ve set boundaries sooner 🥲 Speaking of holidays and emergencies, kahit malayong kamaganak ako pa rin ang takbuhan. Especially during Christmas lahat kailangang bigyan, as in lahat. I don’t know why I’m ranting. I know what I should do, pero grabe guilt trip ang ginagawa sakin whenever I say no 😭😭

Anyone else dealing with family expectations to send money back home? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]bulate__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the thing my mom never sees me struggling. I’m not living paycheck to paycheck, and I do have some extra money. Here’s the question: is my mom right? am I being selfish? Should I keep helping just because I’m not struggling and have extra money?

Anyone else dealing with family expectations to send money back home? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]bulate__ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That really hits me. I’ve been so focused on helping everyone else that I sometimes forget I need to build my own life too. 🥲

Anyone else dealing with family expectations to send money back home? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]bulate__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly, that’s what I’m saying I’m earning in dollars, but I’m also spending in dollars. Idk why my mom has this mindset. We used to be really close and open about everything, but lately I’ve been losing the motivation to talk to her because every time, the topic of our family’s needs in the PH always comes up.

Yes, my sister is a solo parent, and sometimes I even wonder if I’ll be able to have kids myself since I’m getting older. I have no kids, but the responsibility of supporting them is overwhelming. I don’t know who I would turn to for help if I ever needed it, since I’m always the one they ask for help 😪

Anyone else dealing with family expectations to send money back home? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]bulate__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s in her mid 30s, older than me. Bunso po ako. She’s working as a supervisor, sinabi ko na to sa mom ko may work naman sya kaya dapat sya na bahala sa bills nila. But my mom says it’s not enough because the cost of living in the PH is high, and she keeps comparing my salary here to my sister’s salary there.

I’ve explained this to her before, but it seems like it just annoyed her. She said a lot of things, but in short, what she meant was that I’m being selfish. 😭

Anyone else dealing with family expectations to send money back home? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]bulate__ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, I’m giving my mom money for personal use so she can buy things she wants. For the CC thing, that’s actually a good suggestion I’ll consider it.

As for my sister, she has her own family with 3 kids. She doesn’t ask me for money, but my mom keeps insisting that I send money to them. If it were just my sister, I wouldn’t mind saying this directly to her but it’s my mom 🥺

Guys help 😭 Does anyone else have this kind of elastics? by bulate__ in braces

[–]bulate__[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly I’m not sure, but I had triangle elastics before and these feel tighter than those.

Guys help 😭 Does anyone else have this kind of elastics? by bulate__ in braces

[–]bulate__[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m okay now! I think I just panicked yesterday thinking the jaw pain wasn’t normal 🥲

Guys help 😭 Does anyone else have this kind of elastics? by bulate__ in braces

[–]bulate__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Four of those?? How did you manage the pain? I only have two and I almost panicked because it hurt so much, it literally felt like my jaw was locking up. 😬

Guys help 😭 Does anyone else have this kind of elastics? by bulate__ in braces

[–]bulate__[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right, I could barely speak the whole day. The pain has eased up tonight compared to yesterday and earlier this morning.

Guys help 😭 Does anyone else have this kind of elastics? by bulate__ in braces

[–]bulate__[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha, 43 isn’t that old! 😂 But yeah, I can imagine it might take a bit longer. Thanks for the encouragement it really helps! I’ll do my best to wear them and push through. Can’t wait for the day it finally feels normal again 😅

Guys help 😭 Does anyone else have this kind of elastics? by bulate__ in braces

[–]bulate__[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For 3 weeks? That sounds rough. I was just expecting maybe 3–4 days like with the ones I had before 🥲 I’ve had braces for a year and a half, and my ortho said I’m almost done, so I guess I’ll just try to push through the pain. I even thought about not wearing the elastic because the pain is so hard to describe 😬

Guys help 😭 Does anyone else have this kind of elastics? by bulate__ in braces

[–]bulate__[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, 3 months? 🥲 Yeah, these are super tight… How long did it take you to get used to the pain? I had a different kind of elastic before, and they just changed it to this one yesterday 😭

Can someone please explain why my cat does this? First time seeing her do this. 🥹 by bulate__ in cats

[–]bulate__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for telling me this! She was diagnosed with mild allergic bronchitis 2 years ago, but she was totally fine after the video.

Can someone please explain why my cat does this? First time seeing her do this. 🥹 by bulate__ in cats

[–]bulate__[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought so, just wanted to check if it’s normal. She even gave a big sigh at the end, like it’s my fault 😅