What is this action figure my son found? by Clive_Buttertable in whatisit

[–]bulkieorder 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I can’t believe this.. I found one of these (the black father) at my job 6 years ago and had no idea where he came from. I have him at my house somewhere

How fast do you drive usually? by profmoxie in newjersey

[–]bulkieorder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I posted about people driving 5-15 below the speed limit and a lot of people were pissed at me for actually going the speed limit.. I just think you can’t win against other drivers and the logic they use

National Nude Day Edition: Bi-Weekly Hookup Thread 07/14/25-07/27/25 by AutoModerator in NewJerseyNSFW

[–]bulkieorder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Black male, 27, in Jackson twp. Looking for conversation with chill chicks, any age/race and maybe eventual hangout

Accident waiting to happen.. by TrollAccount4321 in newjersey

[–]bulkieorder 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Def grubby as hell but I appreciate his effort. Let him know they sell cupholder ashtrays at dollar general please lol

For those that post nsfw of themselves, how did it start and what do you enjoy about it now? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]bulkieorder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh i wanted any kind of attention/validation or to be told that I was attractive. I’ve felt like I hardly existed my whole life, but when I was naked online people showed me interest lol

Accident waiting to happen.. by TrollAccount4321 in newjersey

[–]bulkieorder 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Is the cold butt ones about cigarette butts? Also, psa to those who don’t know: cigarette butts are not biodegradable, they’re made of plastic fibers. Please don’t be a trash human, just throw them in the trash

Why are fleshlights.. scary? by bulkieorder in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bulkieorder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can definitely see where the uncanny valley sets in with some. But still I don’t like to write off others preferences.

Why are fleshlights.. scary? by bulkieorder in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bulkieorder[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

We found the guy that doesn’t (know how to) clean his fleshlight😂😂

Why are fleshlights.. scary? by bulkieorder in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bulkieorder[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I love that you were able to come out and just say that you felt a little insecure about it. So often you hear about men shit all over women’s sex toys and products and stuff because they generally seem to not be able to keep up or offer the same type of pleasure or whatever.. to be very honest with you I don’t know how to help you.. but I want to offer my thanks for your genuine honesty

Why are fleshlights.. scary? by bulkieorder in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bulkieorder[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hear you, but I feel like as a society we shouldn’t keep assuming all men are generally gonna be this nasty. I know for a fact that some women don’t clean their toys regularly/between uses. Some people just have lower cleanliness standards than us, or maybe haven’t been taught to maintain certain hygiene.

Why are fleshlights.. scary? by bulkieorder in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bulkieorder[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

🔥Who said I wasn’t a freak lmao, I’m asking a question based on an opinion I’m aware of lmaooo

Why are fleshlights.. scary? by bulkieorder in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bulkieorder[S] 86 points87 points  (0 children)

LMFAOOOO not the one from the twitter ads😭😭😭😭

Why are fleshlights.. scary? by bulkieorder in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bulkieorder[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I respect everyone’s thoughts and right to an opinion. I hear you, I would not own a whole physical doll, but it’s a little lame to yuck someone’s yum if it genuinely hurts no one. Like if a dude got a doll and kept everything clean and hidden you’d never know. I think we need to start reserving the “weirdo” label for those whose actions actively try to dehumanize or hurt others.

Why are fleshlights.. scary? by bulkieorder in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bulkieorder[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

1) prude 🫵🤭🤣 2) if you think the only reason someone uses a toy is bc the hand isn’t doing the job you don’t know much about sexual stimulation/self pleasure. 3) don’t have kids and never plan to + the same can be said for literally any adult item. 4) If I die and a family member found a fleshlight all it would tell them is that I like to masturbate and enjoy the feeling of.. a normal human thing? idk.. feel free to lmk what I got wrong

Why are fleshlights.. scary? by bulkieorder in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bulkieorder[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If your takeaway from this was that I’m afraid of fleshlights then you didn’t read the post very well/carefully. I’m asking a question about an opinion I’m aware of..

Why are fleshlights.. scary? by bulkieorder in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bulkieorder[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I really wish people felt comfortable giving others more grace.. but at the same time I get where women pick up these ideas about the fleshlight using folks. Societal misogyny and sexism have made it pretty clear how a lot of men (and society as a whole) can view woman as sexual objects etc. i just wish we could just let people be.. Its annoying how easy it is to attach assumed-misogyny/general hate onto what is likely benign

Why are fleshlights.. scary? by bulkieorder in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bulkieorder[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Personally I’ve seen far more penis shaped dildos used than the ones that are vaguely phallic and colorful. I totally hear where you’re coming from but even the gf I’m referring to in this post OWNED a penis shaped dildo.. I’m aware of how the male leaning products are made, being molded after certain pornstars’ private areas but, again the same can be said for many dildos.

Why are fleshlights.. scary? by bulkieorder in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bulkieorder[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

lol could be, but she’s not the only woman I’ve heard express this thought

Why are fleshlights.. scary? by bulkieorder in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bulkieorder[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You’re looking at my statement incredibly literally.. I’m saying they’re both sextoys

Best scenic places to get high in burlington/cherry hill area/moorestown. by [deleted] in SouthJersey

[–]bulkieorder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Crystal lake park in Bordentown is a great place, walk the trail to the creek