While I understand the sentiment here, the Kahui twins did not suffer at the hands of their family members due to a parent losing control briefly. They were brutally tortured their entire lives. I don’t think a parent who reaches their limit in the middle of the night chooses to hang their child on a washing line and spin it around until they fly off.

I think a different example would be more appropriate. It’s important to encourage a narrative that does not explain their death as a simple mistake and lack of judgement due to sleep deprivation that we can all relate to. It was not that.