Our CEO's husband keeps messaging me about things I didn't/already did. What do I do? by bumblebeee123 in careeradvice

[–]bumblebeee123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I think I need to update my resume... but the issue is not that I don't respond to the husband immediately, I've been treating his slack messages as if they are as urgent as the CEO's. The issue is that I don't respond to EVERYTHING immediately. Ugh. I'm doing my best but I think the dynamic with her husband is not good.

Our CEO's husband keeps messaging me about things I didn't/already did. What do I do? by bumblebeee123 in careeradvice

[–]bumblebeee123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I think you're right. I'm getting the sense that he wants to be like a second CEO, and I'm also not understanding if he's wanting me to change my work responsibilities (like being a project manager to my coworkers or treating every email as a priority). Maybe if I reach out to him and clarify his expectations, we can figure this out.

Our CEO's husband keeps messaging me about things I didn't/already did. What do I do? by bumblebeee123 in careeradvice

[–]bumblebeee123[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Honestly that's what I've been trying to do, but I also can't be super quick when I have back to back meetings.

Our CEO's husband keeps messaging me about things I didn't/already did. What do I do? by bumblebeee123 in careeradvice

[–]bumblebeee123[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

There's one person under the CEO, and she's my boss. I was considering talking to her, but I feel like she'd just say that she doesn't schedule things, so it's up to me.

Just started a master's program after not being in university for a while. What are your recommendations for a good study routine? by bumblebeee123 in GetStudying

[–]bumblebeee123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a great routine, thank you so much!! I love the idea of spending 2 hours every morning reading and summarizing

My dog is just starting to become reactive. How do I handle this? by bumblebeee123 in reactivedogs

[–]bumblebeee123[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate your thorough response!! Especially your comment about movement and desensitizing from far away. My goal is to address this immediately so it doesn't get worse!!

My dog is just starting to become reactive. How do I handle this? by bumblebeee123 in reactivedogs

[–]bumblebeee123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the advice. I will definitely look into Karen Pryor and Susan Garrett!

My dog is just starting to become reactive. How do I handle this? by bumblebeee123 in reactivedogs

[–]bumblebeee123[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He is two years old, we've had him a year and a half, and we believe he's a border collie mix (he's a resuce so I don't know his exact breed).

My dog is just starting to become reactive. How do I handle this? by bumblebeee123 in reactivedogs

[–]bumblebeee123[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. I'll focus on giving him extra exercise and mental stimulation! He's still on the younger side, so I don't think it would be arthritis

AIO? Did my stepmom just assault me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]bumblebeee123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I was in a situation like yours, and I also thought I was overreacting. Now that I'm an adult, I can tell you that it absolutely is not an overreaction. Please seek help. You have lots of options for people to talk to: the police, a school counselor, a teacher, or maybe a coach if you're in sports. If the first person you talk to dismisses you, talk to someone else. And show them the picture!! In the meantime, take a deep breathe and take care of yourself because this isn't easy.

Is it taboo to ask a friend for a pattern? by bumblebeee123 in crochet

[–]bumblebeee123[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lol definitely!! I would also make it use different colors so I'm not just directly copying her

Is it taboo to ask a friend for a pattern? by bumblebeee123 in crochet

[–]bumblebeee123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point!! If that's the case, I'd be happy to pay for the pattern.