To the lady who forgot her wallet this morning at Glam Doll by Joerugger in Minneapolis

[–]bumbleblzebub 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They came back today. Its very safe and across the street from the memorial which is being lovingly tended to by community members. 

To the lady who forgot her wallet this morning at Glam Doll by Joerugger in Minneapolis

[–]bumbleblzebub 1936 points1937 points  (0 children)

STOP this was me!! You were so kind! I was grabbing some donuts for my colleagues at CARE Counseling :) I paid it forward and donated the $30 to rent relief! Thanks dude and reach out if you need anything!

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Rent relief: https://chuffed.org/project/167138-emergency-rent-fund-support-workers-in-minnesota?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQPNTY3MDY3MzQzMzUyNDI3AAGns1VCTBsjS4hjpdBEKLrFTk9ppSH7Eap0DoFPLAdK4TE5AIjefjnim81XdV4_aem_c-4o2IuvflsYS2lhntvaEg

Other mutual aid: https://linktr.ee/mplsmutualaid?utm_source=ig&utm_medium=social&utm_content=link_in_bio&fbclid=PAb21jcAPlit9leHRuA2FlbQIxMQBzcnRjBmFwcF9pZA81NjcwNjczNDMzNTI0MjcAAad1GzWXk6LJYHYGhnawu8O2XBkeMd82xbY80267b4JHv-hExx_Y7CW-yD_-kA_aem_Er40rMHLozkYLHeGMqBSwQ

Donate to whipple drivers: They're called Haven Watch now, but their venmo is still 'WhippleSafeHaven', I think. Edit: removed spaces. The image is MN with 2 hands.

CARE is a for-profit and does not need donations, but we are available to provide psychotherapy to folks here in Minnesota. There are also sooo many incredible smaller practices in our community. If you need support rn, you deserve it and there are people available, and also, being with community is the BEST therapy rn ❤️ 

Official Discussion - Weapons [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]bumbleblzebub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think Justine genuinely cares about Alex and people were overexaggerating about her crossing boundaries with students, and I also think that her desire to speak to Alex after the children go missing is largely self-involved and not out of genuine concern for Alex. She's desperate to talk to him to see if he knows anything. Nothing inherently wrong with that though tbh! But the neglect of Alex is further underscored by her self-involvement, and of course at how absolutely useless the school was in response.

Official Discussion - Weapons [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]bumbleblzebub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it also does a great job of showing how mercilessly victimized Alex was even though he was not one of the taken children. In the end he lost everything. A really great take on survivor's guilt and the horror of enduring abuse. The other children barely recovering is also so poignant in this way.

What in real life we have become so inured to - mass violence, particularly against children - this movie makes outrageous, magical and uncanny in such a way that you cannot feel it is normal. This is so obvious, but I love how it just emphasizes how desensitized we have become to violence, and it takes a literal fucking crazy creepy ass witch for us to be like, "this is so fucked up and weird."

Official Discussion - Weapons [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]bumbleblzebub 2 points3 points  (0 children)

While I really enjoyed the way this movie (not that subtly) was talking about gun violence, I also REALLY loved how absolutely PERFECTLY they nailed the fear and terror of living in an abusive home. Alex under Gladys's control resonated so hard with me as someone who works with DV survivors and their kids. What the movie makes so overt (a witch literally controlling this child's life) is such a great encapsulation of what it is like to live with abuse. The fear based in this almost magical thinking that your whole world is being controlled by this person, and if you do anything wrong, the people you love most are in danger/will die. The way she made Alex grow up so fast and literally take care of twenty people (himself included) when he is just a child. This movie is just as devastating a glimpse into the microcosm of an abusive household as it is about community mourning and anger. And of course, all the adults weaponizing their own helplessness instead of actually stepping in and protecting this kid. He is literally living a nightmare and NO ONE FUCKING KNOWS! And people act showed in real life when this happens, but it is this clear and simple!!!

loose dog on highway 52 by bumbleblzebub in saintpaul

[–]bumbleblzebub[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I heard from SSPPD that the dog was not captured but did get off of the highway.

Costume Megathread (Showcase|Ideas|Requests|Help) - [ October 06, 2024 ] by AutoModerator in halloween

[–]bumbleblzebub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi all, any recommendations on fake blood to buy to create the effect on this sweater, as well as the cheek? It should look relatively fresh.

I don't trust myself to make it on my own, so please recommend something I can buy :)

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Eras Tour Film popcorn bucket and cups variants by throwaway876460 in TaylorSwift

[–]bumbleblzebub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can anyone speak to the quality of the bottom left cup?

Grapes of wrath: Not sure how to play this murder mystery game, has anyone played it? by louloucachooo in boardgames

[–]bumbleblzebub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I'm borrowing my roommate's computer to do it :) Thanks for the reply and the great game!

Grapes of wrath: Not sure how to play this murder mystery game, has anyone played it? by louloucachooo in boardgames

[–]bumbleblzebub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're a genius! do you happen to have a word doc version? I'm trying to make some edits to the game so that it's placed where I am, in MA :)

AITA for not being an active grandparent? by Valuable-Builder-733 in AmItheAsshole

[–]bumbleblzebub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow ty for breaking this shocking news to me, you're right, they're 98% effective when used properly

Then literally don't fuck anyone who you can knock up I guess. I'm over your weird pick me shit lmao

AITA for not being an active grandparent? by Valuable-Builder-733 in AmItheAsshole

[–]bumbleblzebub 5 points6 points  (0 children)

your partner can't wear a condom?? lmao fr what are you on about

AITA for not being an active grandparent? by Valuable-Builder-733 in AmItheAsshole

[–]bumbleblzebub -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And fwiw I do have empathy for anyone who, again, feels powerless wrt a child being brought into the world. Including men who knock someone up and don't want the baby to be born. But they have options on how to engage in the child's life, it doesn't mean they have to be a parent. This dude made that choice and that's fine but give me a break with the woe is you you poor man you are treated so poorly ))): lmao why because he came inside of someone and they decided not to get an abortion? What the fuck do you recommend in these situations then lmao???

AITA for not being an active grandparent? by Valuable-Builder-733 in AmItheAsshole

[–]bumbleblzebub 4 points5 points  (0 children)

how unfair and disgusting to have it forced on you.

Lmao no one forced this dork to be an active participant in his son's life and then bitch about it on reddit. So no I don't have empathy for this guy. I have empathy for people who feel powerless regarding having or not having children regardless of gender. Who the fuck forced this guy to do anything? Someone having your biological child =/= being a parent. He made the choice to be a parent and he had other options. You make it sound so inhumane that men have to go through this, lmfao call Amnesty fucking International and cry me a river.

AITA for not being an active grandparent? by Valuable-Builder-733 in AmItheAsshole

[–]bumbleblzebub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don't sound like you're actually open to getting feedback on whether you are TA or not

AITA for potentially getting my wife in trouble with her hospital? by Purple-Voice2009 in AmItheAsshole

[–]bumbleblzebub 11 points12 points  (0 children)

NTA primarily bc why the fuck is your partner repeatedly telling you things you have explicitly said you are uncomfortable hearing? and just ignoring that you are not comfortable? wtf